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writes:A while back a buddy of mine wanted to set me up with a friend of his. At the time I think we both weren't interested in being set up. Well, I finally met this young woman (we r both mid-twenties)at a party and i think we connected. There was definitely some positive body language and joking around etc. Problem is she now has a boyfriend (who wasn't at this party). My buddy tells me the boyfriend is looking for a job which would most likely mean moving at some point (he is a percussionist). The girl told my buddy that if he moves she wouldn't go with him. So I know it can't be that serious. My thoughts are if she doesn't have a ring and I don't know the boyfriend, she is fair game to me and I should at least poke around and see if she might be interested. Am I wrong in thinking this? And if you agree, how would u advise I pursue her?
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reader, Neboraic  +, writes (15 December 2007):
Bide your tie (till he moves) and when shes single go in for the kill. Your going to need more than positive body language to justify going after someones girlfriend (solid proof she likes you).If hes not treating her right or (if you know) she would be a lot happier with you, these are (in my mind) justified reasons for doing the dishonourable deed (its not dishonourable if its justified).
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reader, dollparts  +, writes (15 December 2007):
 I think you're wrong here you don't seem to have to much respect for her or her boyfriend I mean would you like it if you were with her and some other guy did that to you? I say when the time comes the time comes but until then back off
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