Boyfriend is nothing but a pothead!
Q. My boyfriend is nothing but a pothead. I can't stand it. He's stuck in a dead end minimum wage job because he can't pass a drug test. He never follows through with anything at all. All he does is get high then eat everything in the house. The ...
A. 13 May 2009: The thing is, do you want to bring up the baby without a dad? His reality is a bit warped at the moment. He needs a way to stop, and a reason. Have you talked to your parents or a near relation? You need support in this. Having a baby is tough en... (read in full...)
Boyfriend is nothing but a pothead!
Q. My boyfriend is nothing but a pothead. I can't stand it. He's stuck in a dead end minimum wage job because he can't pass a drug test. He never follows through with anything at all. All he does is get high then eat everything in the house. The ...
A. 12 May 2009: He needs to want to quit and he may need help doing it. He may need psychological help or counselling. I don't know how you go about that in america. Are there any other males around from whom he would take advice?
It is better if your baby has a da... (read in full...)
Can my marriage be saved or am I kidding myself?
Q. I have a few questions i would like your views on please,I have been searching for a year now and really need your advice to help me make up my mind once and for all. 1st can a man who has cheated more than once really change? 2nd He had a fl...
A. 12 May 2009: I think you should go back to counselling - even if it is on your own. It is impossible to speak about your husband's problems intelligently. Have courage. Go and get a good counsellor and get it sorted.... (read in full...)
Go for love? Or duty?
Q. hi i m a troubled girl. i m 24 and a lwayer by proffesion. aunt i have relation with my class fellow but then my parents refused his perposal and he got enganged soon after his refusal. then after some time another boy come to my life and we were ...
A. 10 May 2009: When you comr to a fork in the road take it. Do it quickly. Don't hesitate. Chose the lighter happiness.... (read in full...)
I am scared of breaking up with this guy when I know there is no future.
Q. I am just writing in for some advice, i have been involved in a relationship for the last almost 3 yrs now.i am crazily in love with this guy.infact the story goes like this.before i started dating this guy i had asked him if caste or religion wud ...
A. 10 May 2009: They say that loves conquers all, but clearly he isn't prepared to give up everything for you and that is what you deserve - unconditional love.
The truth is he is going to leave you. He may want occasional sex but he doesn't want you as a life part... (read in full...)
I like him..he likes me but nothing is happening
Q. Dear Cupid: I've known this boy for a while now, I'd say about three months. The first month we actually talked was over the internet. We had talked like that for about a month and then I started meeting his friends. After me and his friends ...
A. 10 May 2009: Why don't you take the initiative and kiss him?... (read in full...)
My ex is playing mind games and I don't know if any of it is really. Please help!!!
Q. hey every1 ..my ex broke up with me 7 months ago during the duration of the breakup weve slept togther on a few occasions... to him it was a friends with benifits situation but to me it always felt like more ..im still madly in love with him and ...
A. 10 May 2009: I think the idea that he can persuade you to sleep with him flatters his ego. You are not in a good relationship. Get away from him. I don't think he can change because he now thinks he can act how he likes and you will make excuses for him. It's ... (read in full...)
Happily married but I still enjoy seeing my ex
Q. I am very much in love with my husband of seven and a half years. For some reason, I still seem to look forward to seeing my ex-husband whenever i occassionally visit my daughter and grand-daughter. We were friends for years and when we divorced, ...
A. 9 May 2009: What exactly do you want? What are you afraid you might say? You had a relationship with your ex' which involved a child so it isn't surprising that you feel it wasn't all bad. I don't suppose you have discussed this with your present husband. Would ... (read in full...)
How to reconnect with this guy I met
Q. Please help me...I really need advice on how to re-connect with this guy I met. All advice is accepted and appreciated! Ok here goes, I met this guy on a social networking site. He gave me his messenger screename and I we had two conversations. ...
A. 9 May 2009: I think trying to start a relationship on the basis of a computer liason is a bad idea. There are so many signals that one gets from people in real life about what kind of person they are, not to mention the pherenomes important in sexual ... (read in full...)
I can't see a future for us
Q. Ok here it goes, I met this guy about a month ago and straight away we were constantly seein each other and talking and we both knew there was something there. Then i had to tell him i was leaving to go to london in sept and i dont know what w...
A. 9 May 2009: He may be afraid of letting the relationship develop further if it has no future. If you are leaving the country that is going to be a nigh on impossible situation for all but the strongest, longest relationships to stand. It's a fork on life's ... (read in full...)
Is there a hidden message in his behaviour?
Q. My b/f is always for the "underdog" he never takes my side. If I have a fender bender he will say, "You should've done this, or you should've done that." even though I was not the one who got cited, so clearly it was not my fault. If the sink is ...
A. 29 April 2009: You have to stand up for yourself. This person you are with sounds like a control freak. Your life will be a constant misery unless you take action. Either make it known that you will not accept this kind of behaviour, or leave. You are on the first ... (read in full...)
Is a polygraph test the answer?
Q. I am in a real dilemma and don't know what to do. I am engaged and have been with my fiance for 9 years now and never imagined this horrible nightmare i am now in. We were shopping on the weekend when some girl approached me and said your ...
A. 29 April 2009: If he is lying does it make a difference to you? Can you live with the fact he has sex with another and won't admit it? It could be that he doesn't want to risk ending the relationship with you by owning up. All that aside why are you engaged ... (read in full...)
My sister is being played -- how do I help her?
Q. Ok this is not about me its my adopted sister she is 30 years old and is in a long distance relationship. The guy is 26 and is a truck driver. They have been together for 4 months and he proposed to her they have only seen each other twice since ...
A. 29 April 2009: It's back to the old chestnut about being my brother, or sister's keeper. You have given her your opinion. Now you just have to be there for her when things start to crumble. Some of life's lessons have to be learnt the hard way. ... (read in full...)
Is he just a two-timing lowlife??
Q. I met this guy a while back. He lives in a different state, one that is right next to mine. Since we cant see each other all the time since he went back home, we talk on the phone and on the computer. My problem is I have trust issues! I dont think ...
A. 29 April 2009: I think you already know the reality. Sign off on him and get someone who appreciates your worth. It's a long haul so find someone you can trust and live with. It is going to save you so many sleepless nights.... (read in full...)
Why do so many men prefer bigger breasts?
Q. probably been asked a million times... but here it goes, ok... why do so many men prefer big breasts? i don't get it... it's the same shape as small ones, only bigger in size, but it's basically the same... two lumps of fat... they're for feeding ...
A. 29 April 2009: If you are asking for condonement to have breast enlargement so you can keep your boyfriend - all I can say is, 'big mistake'. He either loves you as you are or not. ... (read in full...)
I let the relationship get physical without commitment, now I want to back off from sex with him
Q. Theres this guy ive been seeing for umm maybe 4 months or so.We started having a sexual relationship after a few dates.I know,dumb on my part.He seemed interested in more than sex,and still does seem to be.Sometimes we just go out and do things ...
A. 29 April 2009: There are a couple of ways of looking at this. Your present relationship seems OK except you have started feeling guilty. Sex shouldn't be something you hand out to guys like sweets to draw them into a relationship later. That's dishonest. Howeve... (read in full...)
Recently self conscious about my labia
Q. I'm a female in my late 30s who has recently noticed that my labia looks different from others in adult movies or pictures. My lips hang down a bit. I'm not tight like those I've seen in pictures. Before someone asks if it's from excessive use ...
A. 29 April 2009: Some plastic surgery does occur. I think the question for you is does it cause you a problem physically? The next thing is that if you still feel uncomfortable, seek medical advice and get it sorted. ... (read in full...)
Should I believe his explanation on the text msg he sent to "personals" ads?
Q. Hi. I was planning to move across the country in 2 weeks time to the small town where my partner lives to start the rest of our lives together.. Marriage, family, picket fence etc.. 2 days ago I read through his sent messages on his phone. I found 4 ...
A. 15 April 2009: I would delay your move. The fact that this happened at all, whether or not he intended to act on it, suggests some subtext. And in the future will you ever be certain that things aren't going on behind your back. If you want to move make certain ... (read in full...)
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