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anonymous
writes:i have been with my husband for six years now and married for one year. we have two children together when i got pregnant with my 2nd child my husband refused to make love as he felt uncomfortable. i have caught him watching porn on the computer and have found porn on his phone but everytime i ask him about it he just shuts off and wont speak to me. since having our baby we have made love once but then he wont do it again im am so upset by this whole ordeal please can u help me?
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reader, daglish  +, writes (17 July 2009):
 Thats pretty painfull coz life without it can be boring. Men wont have sex with their women for many reasons. First, as long as they feel that they are asking too much from their wives. When they realise their wives are more attracted to the new-born than to the man. When they are stressed by external factors. Lastly if they dont enjoy it with their partners anymore. The good news is unlike women, men's loss of interest in sex is only temporally. Before you know it, his hand will be allover you. God gave us this insatiable desire to sleep with a female so you shouldnt worry so much about his current behaviour. Sooner or later you might be wishing he damanded for it less coz his willy wont be going down enough.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2009): How long ago did you have your last child and was he in the delivery room?Sometimes ater men see the birth of there child it does something to them. maybe after a while he will be back to norm.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2009): Im not too sure.I think you should actually sit down and ask him why he wont have sex with you anymore.Is it because of the kids or isnt he attracted to you anymore? it may be the latter which is hurtful to hear and bad as you have two kids together but it depends on if you want to know the truth or not.just ask him if hes still attracted to you truthfully.i hope it works out
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