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writes:Hey guys. Well,there's this guy in my band class.I like him and I don't know if he likes me. He always smiles at me or trys to get me to do wierd things with him.Another thing is that he ALWAYS stairs at me!! I really mean it. We'll be in the middle of band class and the teacher has to yell at him because he's not paying attention(cus he's looking at me) I would normally just go up to him and ask him if he likes me but it's only been 1 week and a couple days that I've known him. The other big problem is that my friend likes him and has liked him for a year but she already knows that he doesn't like her. Wait no,ALMOST EVERY GIRL LIKES HIM!! I'm his friend and if he doesn't like me then he'll just think that I'm like everyother girl trying to get with him and I don't want that. I would still want to be his friend after everything. WHAT DO YOU DO WHEN EVERY GIRL LIKES THE SAME GUY YOU DO AND YOU THINK HE LIKE YOU?!?! Reply to this Question
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reader, Christalmighty +, writes (7 September 2007):
 Ordinarily I would say go for it.But,after reading between the lines (about being friends and such)he may be interested simply because he thinks you're not.
People always want what they think they can't have.
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reader, daglish  +, writes (7 September 2007):
 simply take a step and let him know how u feel abt him. coz these days the first move doesnt have to always be from the guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2007): hey all im gonna say is get in there. like my boyfriend always tells me u dont gat wat u dont ask for. n maybe hes to shy to ask you. ask him indirectly but befor you do just think wether its just you he stares at or other girls too n pay attention to how he speaks to you if hes just pally then its obvious he doesnt want to be more than mates but if hes flirty then hes interested go for it. tell ur frend before hand n if shes a good mate she'll b happy for you im sure she'll understand
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reader, Tray-Lou  +, writes (7 September 2007):
you wait for him to make the first move then if you dont want to be like the others
be casual around him act like he's another mate and you arent that interested and he'll start liking you even more straight away
dont make the first move if you arent completely sure he likes you and please oh please make sure he doesnt just want sex
get to know his personality and what he's like when he is around his own friends and find out what he is generally like if he's a user or if he's a sweet hot guy
please promise you wont let him use you if he turns out to be idiot
just find out what he is like as a person before you go out with him
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