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writes:I am a very sexual person..me and my boyfriend of 4 yrs like to engage in crazy sexual activities.we love eachother and are planning to have a family one day.Just last night I have let him have sex with another girl..he enjoyed it..it turned me on..he is probbably having sex with her as I speak...do you think i am crazy for doing this...by the way it was all my idea
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reader, daglish  +, writes (16 September 2007):
 You are absolutely right to do sth u love. even if its swinging as long as its fun, just do it
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reader, deejuliet  +, writes (15 September 2007):
 No, you are not crazy. But you do need to be very careful. What you are engaging in is either swinging or polyamory. They are very differant from each other and you should really be very clear what it is you are doing and that you and your boyfriend are on the same page with this. Communication, putting each other first above ALL other relationships and sexual safety are the keys here. Many people do this kind of thing successfully and have long happy relationships. Quite a few more end up jealous, angry, and in splitsville. So be careful, be loving and good luck!
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (15 September 2007):
 Sounds like you are swingers, or into polyamory. It is different, and many couples do it. It just means you need lots more communciation that most couples, but no, you are not crazy. The only thing I would suggest is that when you are ready to have kids, that you cool it with other guys UNTIL you get pregnant just to make sure that your kid is also your bf's kid too.
-Frank B Kermit
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reader, Ears4tears  +, writes (15 September 2007):
 If its somethink that you've both agreed to as a couple and your both happy with your partner having sex with other people,then NO ONE has the right to judge!!! However i do think if you do love one another and want to have a family together some day, then at some point this does have to come to an end as all good things do so long as you both realise this then your doing no harm... So carry on enjoying yourselves till your both ready to move on to the next chapter of your relationship!!!
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reader, amylouise +, writes (15 September 2007):
 No you are not crazy, if you feel sure that you are the only girl for him then there is no problem, this could possibly make your relationship stronger, and since your fine with it and he is then thre is no problem.
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