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male
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41-50,
*hbetheone
writes: Hello I am 24 my ex 27. She broke up with me two weeks ago. She told me she fell out of love. Well anyways she was calling me everyday to see how things were. So three days ago I decided to not return her calls. She tried to call me 3 times one day, 3 times another, and yesterday (Friday night)6 or 7 times.She left some stupid message the 5th time that the computer is acting up. Then the seventh time she called and left another stupid message like oh the computer is working I dont know if you did something,the funny thing is how could of I done something if I never went by she called from the house she would see me if I did. I just laughed because it sounded so stupid. Well today I went by our house that we are trying to figure out what to do with to check and see if there was something wrong. Well there wasent anything wrong and then she showed up. She said hows it going I said fine and you ,she said fine. She went into our bedroom and I got up and left the house. We were together for almost 3 years talked about marrage and kids.Does it sound like she is missing me? I was trying hard for no contact of any kind, did this hurt me a bit on her missing me if she is?
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reader, L.O.S.E.R. +, writes (16 September 2007):
Seems to me like she realized she made a mistake;)I'm glad for you already even tho nothing happened yet-maybe you could try to talk with her a bit more or just text her with "I miss you"...She called you all those times,you could make some move...If she (hope not) rejects you you'll know she was calling you out of friendly reasons and then you'll be able to decide what to do next.I don't think people can "fell out of love" that easy,maybe she was just irritated with something you did,said etc.I'm hoping for the best anyway:)
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reader, daglish +, writes (16 September 2007):
She definately does miss you and you shuold be very proud abt that. You are just one in a 100000. However, THE most notable point there is the kids' factor. Kids are one of the symbols of a relate never dying nomatter how apart the parents grow.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2007): Ask her if she wanted to talk really about her computer or if it was something else. It sounds like something else. Ask her.
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