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writes:Oh dear. I've just got a new housemate, and I can't stand him. His girlfriend, however, is another matter. She's really nice and I get on well with her and I know she's relatively happy with her boyfriend, but I can't stop myself from falling for her anyway. She works in a pub and gave me a free drink the other day, and whenever he's not present we get on really well. What the hell am I going to do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Superdave67  +, writes (24 October 2007):
a lesson I've learned...your roommate's girlfriend will feel safe being your friend because she assumes you know what the deal is. It can be misleading, especially if you are attracted to her, and she is being friendly and open with you. Don't pursue it. I've been in your shoes. for everyone's sake, keep your crush to yourself, until a time comes when they are over, and you and this guy aren't roommates.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2007): Walk away she is with someone. No a free person. Don't go there and loose your friend and maybe your flatmate and a roof over your head. How would you feel if someone was stalking your gf, not good, so dont do it to him.
take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell, to be honest I don't know how happy she is with him, heard them having a couple of arguments already over the past few days - nothing to do with me though!
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reader, daglish  +, writes (16 September 2007):
 I do have some really perfect advice but that's if u cud email me coz its kinda like strange and quite odd. But try to keep the animal in under check coz u are treading on very dangerous grounds.
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reader, 88jane +, writes (15 September 2007):
 its hard falling for someone we cant have!! unfortunately the only advice i can give you is to do nothing! you cannot act on this unfortunately-she is happy with her boyfriend and its as simple as that! you can be her friend but nothing more while she is with somebody else! even if their relationship ended i think it would be risky for you to initiate anything because you have to live with this guy and it could be awkward!
shes probably just being friendly when she gave you a free drink..dont read too much into it! be her friend but certainly dont act upon your feelings! you will just have to get over her!
good luck hunny, i know how it feels to fall for someone you cant have!! email me if you need to chat!
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