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female
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anonymous
writes: I am 19 years old and never had sex, im now starting to think if I dont soon I will be too scared to have sex later on. Have you got any advice for me please? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, pink_fairy22 +, writes (18 September 2007):
Hey,
Trust me, wait until you find someone you really care about...as i didnt and i regret it now and i was stupid as im only 17... please dont make the same mistake. I was ready to lose my virginity as i was comfortable around the guy but he wasnt someone i really cared about.
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reader, penta +, writes (16 September 2007):
Relax. Don't force the issue. When you're ready, you'll know.
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reader, daglish +, writes (16 September 2007):
As for sex, no matter when u start it, it will always be enjoyable as long as u feel ready and do it with the person u feel most comfortable with.. So dont even think abt getting scared to initiate it coz everybody is nervous at his/her first time. Get what i mean?.. So relax, theres no need to rush
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2007): Don't worry about it! it happen when it happens.
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reader, crotchet +, writes (15 September 2007):
Ok, listen up. I'm 17, going on 18, so we're not too far apart in age. I'm not even thinking about sex yet...well, yeah I think about it but I would be waay to scared to do it.I know about 5 26 year olds that are still virgins. Take your time. It will get less scary over time, if anything!
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reader, 88jane +, writes (15 September 2007):
Hunny, stop worrying!! the more you worry about the fact you have not had sex, the harder it will be!! why are you worried?! there is absolutely nothing to worry about!! you are only 19 years old, you have a life time ahead of you to meet someone lovely and have great sex! when you meet the right person you will not be scared to have sex!just wait until it feels right for you!! certainly dont rush and do it now for the sake of it! just wait!!! there is so much pressure put on people to have sex these days--dont let it get to you!!you need to wait until it feels right, and when it feels right you wont be scared!!
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