How can I stop cuming so fast and make sex last longer?
Q. well my gf and i have had sex a couple of times now, and i must say it was actually quite nice .. the problem is that i feel uncomfortable about being done faster than she is. i mean i didn't just stop i fingered her till she came too. but i would ...
A. 6 May 2011: I completely agree with jadedink, and trick daddy eat it up before you beat it up. Also manual ejaculation about an hour beforehand will give you the more time you need. I have had this problem with every partner and take it as a great compliment. ... (read in full...)
Waiting For Sex : Am I Making A Mistake?
Q. I'm just 22 yr old virgin whose never dated, and would prefer waiting to have sex until around the 6th or 7th month in a (long term) relationship. But it seems most men can only wait for 3 weeks. I actually wanted to wait until marriage, but as I ...
A. 6 May 2011: I believe you are selling yourself short by cutting down your time expectations. If he is the man you will be with for life he can wait until i do. Ask yourself this if he can't wait for sex is forever possible? Along with sex is baggage you don't ... (read in full...)
Do want help and advice, but not pity. But how do I better handle my battle with being obsessive and narcissistic ?
Q. Hello i am an obsessive co-dependent in love with a narcissistic. I am a kind loving person but try to also control everything.(so no one gets hurt) Anyway my question to everyone is how can i stop letting him hurt me? He couldn't care less whil...
A. 15 February 2011: thank you very much ladies i know that you are both right. I know also that i can't fix/change someone who doesn't care. It is like a drug i pray i can stop.... (read in full...)
I'm stressing him out and he wants a break. I want him back!
Q. For all the virgo man on this please help! I am a Pisces women and I Love My Virgo boyfriend very much and he has told me he loved me to.I do everything he wants me to I changed almost everything for him but as soon as there is a problem I have with ...
A. 13 February 2011: Look up codependency. I deal with alot of the same.... (read in full...)
Addicted to Love...
Q. I believe that i am addicted to love. I want to know if it is possible. I put up with anything just to have someone. I am so physically and emotionally scared from dragging out horrible relationships. I've fell for addicts over and over from crack ...
A. 13 February 2011: I have read a lil on codependency and love addiction it really fits. Stems from childhood being unwanted. That's me all around. What can i do i have talked about it untill i'm blue in the face. I want to take action. Please help me i fall madly ... (read in full...)
Most of the girls in my year smoke and I want to try. Do boys find girls who smoke attractive.
Q. Ok, I'm 14 and most of the girls in my year have smoked. I really want to take a few drags and see what it's like, but one of my friends is TOO overly protective and will tell my guidance teacher! Also, do boys think it's cool if their girl smokes? ...
A. 31 January 2011: no way! Do you think boys find yellow teeth, ashtray mouth, and nicotine stench attractive. Oh god no never ever smoke. ... (read in full...)
Will I be unable to satisfy women
Q. My Business is 6" long exactly and around 5 and a quarter around. I understand that this is safely within the average, but don't know how acceptable this is for women. A cursory Google search of penile size preference revealed a poll, http://w...
A. 28 January 2011: I agree with the anonymous male about women not orgasming that way. You are pretty packed for a guy but its all in the tongue baby. You get that down you'll make em all squeal. Then you wont hurt em so bad when you slide that big one in. Not just ... (read in full...)
Will I be unable to satisfy women
Q. My Business is 6" long exactly and around 5 and a quarter around. I understand that this is safely within the average, but don't know how acceptable this is for women. A cursory Google search of penile size preference revealed a poll, http://w...
A. 27 January 2011: I think i can speak for us all when saying happy to help. ... (read in full...)
Will I be unable to satisfy women
Q. My Business is 6" long exactly and around 5 and a quarter around. I understand that this is safely within the average, but don't know how acceptable this is for women. A cursory Google search of penile size preference revealed a poll, http://w...
A. 27 January 2011: You want the truth here it is... Six incher damn an a highschooler not to mention five around. Wtf are you complaining about your built boy. No joke no lip service. Plus studies show they grow until 25 years of age. My bf right now is a half inch ... (read in full...)
Have I ruined my chances with this man? What should I say to him now?!
Q. Please, please help me... I can't stop thinking and my mind is going crazy!! Last night, I had a dinner date at my place with a colleague of mine I really really really really like. The evening was smooth and flirty and fun. Then he started making p...
A. 26 January 2011: omg did he think you were an escort? Please honey you did the right thing. No woman wants to have her man to say i nailed you the first night.... (read in full...)
How can I make this easier?
Q. i am 18 so please dont say i should have waited. Me and my boyfriend, he is 18 as well, are expecting. well he is now my ex boyfriend. we broke up last night because he had said earlier that he wasn't happy. so i broke up with him. the thing is...
A. 22 January 2011: Just tell him that it's too hard for you to be his friend right now. A person is responsible for their own happiness. You are right it's not your fault. Focus your mind to get ready for your baby.... (read in full...)
Do I end it with my gf and also hurt my two children? or end it with the girl I feel is my soul mate?
Q. Hello wise people, I did something I thought I would never do. I had an affair. Now before anyone goes tut, that was me, before it happened. I met this amazing girl at my girlfriend's work. We clicked from day one and it was at first, just the ...
A. 22 January 2011: Do you remember what it felt like when you first met your baby's mother? I bet you loved her with a passion. All relationships when new are like ahh! Like a new hair cut, jeans, shoes, or car. Hair gets longer. Jeans get worn. Shoes get scuffed. A ... (read in full...)
I want to propose to my girlfriend but I think I cheated on her?
Q. I met my now girlfriend over a year ago. I am thinking about proposing here in the next few months. We met on a Friday night, hung out, ended up kissing at the end of the night and exchanged phone numbers. The following night after we met, I e...
A. 18 January 2011: leave it in the past where it belongs. Focus on how your going to propose and make it a memory she'll never forget. So any ideas on the setting and words? You can practice on us lol. Don't feel guilty that it wasn't your eyes that fell first it was ... (read in full...)
My guy friend cut me out of his life but I just cant stop thinking about him!
Q. i still missing my guy friend. He always said I was his best close friend, but after he fell in love to one of our friend, he cut me off completely, from facebook to MSN. He told me he wasn't pushing me away, just between us need distance. All my ...
A. 18 January 2011: I'll tell you exactly what happened. His girlfriend got really jealous of you, and gave him an ultimatum. For sake of the fights and losing her he puts distance. Love makes us do silly things. He prob wants to tell you all the ups and downs in his ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant but my BF of 9 years has left to live with his new GF. I feel so vulnerable. What can I do to protect my babies and me from being homeless?
Q. I am 5 months pregnant and have two toddler daughters. My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 years and we just bought a house. This is the first year he has made a lot of money since he opened his own business. He recently left the home stat...
A. 18 January 2011: You don't need this crap. I gave you step by step advice it will get you no your feet. Plus he needs to pay support on the kids. Show him you don't need his shit. ... (read in full...)
How he could beg for me to take him back and yet sleep with four other women meanwhile???
Q. me and my boyfriend were dating for three years we have children. he lost his job and started hanging out with friends all the time and he pushed me away from him. when i finally got tiered of it. i asked him to leave. he begged me to let him stay ...
A. 18 January 2011: Honey stuff like that always hurts. Try to forget or it will eat you up. Just think of it this way 4 women couldn't replace you in his eyes. ... (read in full...)
To do a threesome or not, and how do I handle knowing I'm not satisfying a desire for him if I don't?
Q. My fiancee, has this fantasy. He had this kind of play with his "x" wife. (Hinze "X") she later had an affair which hurt him emotionally. My reaction to that was "Why, because she didn't involve you??" After 4 years and him knowing my thoughts about ...
A. 17 January 2011: Ouch! I know this hurts. It sounds as if he has some sort of sexual addiction that needs addressed. Don't do it you already know how badly it will hurt. Threesomes have wreaked plenty of relationships and emotions. For me it would feel like my man ... (read in full...)
Thinking of breaking up with my boyfriend.
Q. I'll try to be as concise as possible but it will be kind of hard since I'm talking about a 6 year relationship. My boyfriend and I met while in undergrad. I am in graduate school and he has moved with me. Most times our relationship is ...
A. 17 January 2011: Take it from me honey i've been in one bad deal after the other. I will tell you this i wish i could go back and tell myself not to get attached your just dating. It's different when you have chosen the man to marry, but choose wisely. If it's ... (read in full...)
I got the "snip" and can't give my girlfriend children
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been together for 4 years. Before I met her I had been in a 10 year relationship, and during that time I had the 'snip' because my then girkfriend already had children and didnt want any more, and I thought we would...
A. 17 January 2011: cerberus said it all and wow did he say it now it's up to you!... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant but my BF of 9 years has left to live with his new GF. I feel so vulnerable. What can I do to protect my babies and me from being homeless?
Q. I am 5 months pregnant and have two toddler daughters. My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 years and we just bought a house. This is the first year he has made a lot of money since he opened his own business. He recently left the home stat...
A. 17 January 2011: I see that you are in the us. I have some very good advice for you. He made lots of money this year fanfuckintastic! All three kids are his i assume. Go to your local family support office apply for child support and rack his ass! With him making ... (read in full...)
How he could beg for me to take him back and yet sleep with four other women meanwhile???
Q. me and my boyfriend were dating for three years we have children. he lost his job and started hanging out with friends all the time and he pushed me away from him. when i finally got tiered of it. i asked him to leave. he begged me to let him stay ...
A. 17 January 2011: I know this is hard to deal with but here goes. In the time you dated the other man for 2 months i'm sure you slept with him over four times. He probably was trying to fulfil his sexual needs, maybe to even put space between relationships to help ... (read in full...)
Thinking of breaking up with my boyfriend.
Q. I'll try to be as concise as possible but it will be kind of hard since I'm talking about a 6 year relationship. My boyfriend and I met while in undergrad. I am in graduate school and he has moved with me. Most times our relationship is ...
A. 17 January 2011: You answered your own question. The attachment is from the time in but if you don't like the relationship get out while you can. You deserve someone you really want and he deserves someone who really wants him. ... (read in full...)
Restoring the faith?
Q. Hi everyone, I am new here and i'm hoping you can help me. About 8 months ago my bf and i broke up and he started seeing someone else. Over time i tried moving on, and started dating guys, but it never really worked out as i still had feelings for...
A. 17 January 2011: I agree that you shouldn't have to explain. The way you made it sound is he started seeing someone first and then you did over time. Here i am i will help you manipulate the manipulator. Tell him that you couldn't stop thinking about him, you tried ... (read in full...)
Should I stay in touch with my ex to show her that I am changing?
Q. As of a week ago my girlfriend of 2 years broke up with me after a large argument. SHE IS THE LOVE OF MY LIFE!!! She said I wasn't showing her any sort of affection. She was always doing things for me and not getting anything in return. This ...
A. 17 January 2011: No use blaming yourself for the past, you can only fix the future. This will show you what not to do next time. God has a plan for us all remember that. ... (read in full...)
Should I stay in touch with my ex to show her that I am changing?
Q. As of a week ago my girlfriend of 2 years broke up with me after a large argument. SHE IS THE LOVE OF MY LIFE!!! She said I wasn't showing her any sort of affection. She was always doing things for me and not getting anything in return. This ...
A. 16 January 2011: I think you should talk to her and find out what really needs to be done. Only she can tell you what she wants not any of us. We are excellent listeners, but by no means psychics. It is right not to be pushy, but it is also right for you to give her ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend manipulates me so I apologize for even his mistakes!
Q. Hi my bf often ignores and manipulates me in such a way that i need to apologize even for his mistakes. When ever i try to talk to him about this, he says i am boring him and try to change the subject. He is emotionally distant too. Does all...
A. 16 January 2011: Run while you can this type of behavior will emotionally drain you. Let me guess you love him so much that you say sorry just so he will talk to you again? I recently had the same experience it hurts bad. When it's finally over you feel lower than ... (read in full...)
I just wish my ex missed me like I miss him
Q. I posted about two weeks ago a rant about breaking up with my bf. We'd been together for 4 years, and on new years eve i told him i didnt know what i wanted anymore an he agreed and after lots of tears we ended it. now he's sticking to it and i ...
A. 16 January 2011: First of all i am so sorry your heart is breaking. Keep your head up this too shall pass. Whenever God closes a door he opens a window. There was a reason you said on new years you didn't know what you wanted anymore, please tell us what that was so ... (read in full...)
I want to leave but partner says he will make my life hell if I do. Help!
Q. Hi, I have been with my partner for 5 years and have 2 children by him and 2 from a previous relationship,he doesn't get on with my son at all from my previous relationship,my son spends a lot of time with his grandad but when his home its nothin ...
A. 16 January 2011: No problem. I really do hope that you are strong enough to do this it is for the best.... (read in full...)
Should I stay in touch with my ex to show her that I am changing?
Q. As of a week ago my girlfriend of 2 years broke up with me after a large argument. SHE IS THE LOVE OF MY LIFE!!! She said I wasn't showing her any sort of affection. She was always doing things for me and not getting anything in return. This ...
A. 16 January 2011: She is vulnerable right now so your wise to stay close so no one takes advantage of that. Send her flowers, let her know you care wasn't that the problem to begin with? Do things for her make that effort. Do you remember the things she said you ... (read in full...)
My wife doesn't want another child but I really do!
Q. So heres the deal. My wife and I got pregnant on our honeymoon. Wasn't planned but it happened. We just had our little girl and she is one month old. She is beautiful. My wife was shocked at first when she found out she was pregnant, but came around ...
A. 16 January 2011: Honey don't read anything into this it comes after every pregnancy. I have never ever met someone who said wow lets do that again. She's just in shock still it will pass and you'll get the kids you dream of. Take it from me i was the never again ... (read in full...)
I want to leave but partner says he will make my life hell if I do. Help!
Q. Hi, I have been with my partner for 5 years and have 2 children by him and 2 from a previous relationship,he doesn't get on with my son at all from my previous relationship,my son spends a lot of time with his grandad but when his home its nothin ...
A. 16 January 2011: You didn't say husband so i assume he's your boyfriend. Look straight at him and say do your worst buddy, because everyone will know that your a disgruntled ex. Don't stay with him, it is ruining your sons life. Being the one that wasn't wanted can ... (read in full...)
I really like but she keeps getting confused about what she wants!
Q. hey guys.. i have a problem.. finally i have met someone after being in love with my ex for years, but the problem is ive only known this girl a month but we have strong feelings for eachother, but she met me really soon after she split up with her ...
A. 16 January 2011: Sometimes there has to be a white night to swoop in and stop the heartache. Only you know if she's worth the risk.... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm gambling my happiness here...
Q. I have a boyfriend who kissed another girl and stayed over at her house behind my back. they had just kissed and he told me the next day.He said he had liked her for over a year before falling in love with me. He doesnt want to be with her but think ...
A. 16 January 2011: did he come out and tell you this or did you hear it elsewhere because you might not have gotten the whole truth usually when i have a man spendin the night at my house it's for more than kissing not to be mean but the truth i hope that god gives ... (read in full...)
Pull out method... reliable enough???
Q. me and my boyfriend want to have sex, im not on the pill or anything and neither of us have got condoms. he said he could put it in then take it out when hes about to come, but i dont know if thats okay or not. what is the best thing to do?...
A. 16 January 2011: i agree and i am living proof that the pull out method is faulty he is 8 i wouldn't give him back for anything but wish i was older and std's are very scary alot of them you can't get rid of with a pill be careful... (read in full...)
If you love someone would you ask them to move to another country?
Q. i normally stay off the net but a few weeks ago i had a question and it landed me on this site i asked my question got some good advice and felt better so i thought ok maybe i can help someone the way i've been helped so i started answering ...
A. 15 January 2011: he has already priced the ticket and as soon as his semester is over in the spring he is flying out i can't wait to see him but i don't want to hurt his life in any way your both right i don't know him really that scares me too but i feel so ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be friends with her if I can't be her boyfriend!
Q. In short, I know a girl who I became friends with over the past year. But to be honest, being friends with her is not like being friends with one of my guy friends. We talk, or rather she does most of the talking. I find myself in a role of helping ...
A. 15 January 2011: no not a selfish jerk sounds like she is the one being selfish being used is no fun especially when you care for someone give her the old heave ho and don't get caught in her web ay... (read in full...)
He's planning life without me and I can't even go outside!
Q. Hi:) Hope you can help:) I'm a 28yr single parent who has just broken up with my partner of 2yrs. I have 1 child he has 2. He is 37. We met a week afer my brother had died. He took is own life at 21. When I met this guy he had just left a 13yr ...
A. 15 January 2011: first of all i am so sorry about your brother i'm sure you miss him alot and also that you need to find a friend or councilor to talk about his death because i feel that you haven't delt with it yet i know that it hurts i can only imagine i lost a ... (read in full...)
He just says he doesn't mean to hurt me and doesn't know why he does it, but thats not enough for me. Should I give him another chance?
Q. Hi, about 8 months ago I found out that my boyfriend of 3 yrs has been txting dirty messages to at least 3 girls, one of which I know. I found this out just after we had purchased a house together, so decided to forgive him and try and move on. He ...
A. 15 January 2011: walk away and find someone who loves and respects you or stay and be hurt repeatedly by someone who doesn't care enough to stop hmm it's a tough one didn't mean to be icy but wanted you to see the picture without the rose colored glasses you can do ... (read in full...)
Will he change if I just give him some time and space?
Q. hi I'm 21 and 16 weeks pregnant, i told the father when we were not together but still sleeping together and still saying i love you. he does won't the baby and as far as i go he says that my two kids don't respect him and that he has never seen me ...
A. 9 January 2011: be careful with this and keep your heart close to you don't let him make you feel bad exspecially now your baby feels it too it was completely wrong for him to sit with another girl and not talk to you disrespectful as all get out your heart will ... (read in full...)
Why is it that I feel like I should be with my ex even though I know it would be a bad thing to do?
Q. Ok, so i have an ex boyfriend. We have been together for almost 3 years. we have been talking since March 20,2008. In the beginning things were so good, which is what made me fall in love with him..but sooner than later things slowly starting ...
A. 9 January 2011: there is an old song breakin up is hard to do but to everything there is a reason don't let yourself get stuck in the pattern of bad relationships i have been in one bad relationship after another and don't wish that for you it's dangerous and will ... (read in full...)
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