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writes:i am 18 so please dont say i should have waited. Me and my boyfriend, he is 18 as well, are expecting.well he is now my ex boyfriend. we broke up last night because he had said earlier that he wasn't happy. so i broke up with him. the thing is i really care about him and i do love him he helped me through my bad break up with my last ex and then we started talking as just friends and then we got closer. he treated me amazingly. its hurting me so bad but i dont want to let him know and i cant do anything about him not being happy.how can i make this easier for me? he still wants to talk to me every day i dont think i can do that.how can i make all this easier?
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reader, fishdish +, writes (22 January 2011):
 I'd add that you need to try to maintain support systems, whether through friends, teachers, or family, so that you manage the stress and scares of pregnancy.
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reader, fishdish +, writes (22 January 2011):
I agree with the other aunt, and my conservative side says you two should try to make it work for the child until you see that you're simply too incompatible/unhappy. good luck.
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reader, comeonjesusthishurtstoomuch +, writes (22 January 2011):
 Just tell him that it's too hard for you to be his friend right now. A person is responsible for their own happiness. You are right it's not your fault. Focus your mind to get ready for your baby.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2011): I say you should tell him how you feel, who knows, maybe he'll see that he'll be happier with you and the baby. And if you decide not to tell him your feelings then just try to keep him in your's and the baby's life.But definately tell him how you feel. Tell him that you don't know what can make him happy, but that you do love him and care for him.
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