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writes:hi I'm 21 and 16 weeks pregnant, i told the father when we were not together but still sleeping together and still saying i love you. he does won't the baby and as far as i go he says that my two kids don't respect him and that he has never seen me mad. so you got me. well we spent Christmas together and he was telling me he loved me and referring to me as his wife to people and told me that i got him. then this weekend i did not talk to him at all he completely ignored me, which he has done this before. well me and him share one friend well he was there last night i pulled up to chat and when i walked in he had another girl there with him, now i have meet this girl before she is his neighbors sister, i don't really know if they were on a date or whatever but he just keep saying he wasn't doing anything wrong. now i know we were not together but he played with my emotions and my head made me believe he would be with me eventually and everything else i am so hurt. my friend told me that they were not acting like they were together so i don't know and he would not talk to me. people tell me he is scared because this is his first child and he has never had this kind of responsibility and he has been a bachelor his whole life. oh and one more thing Christmas morning he was rode to my friends house with one of his friends girlfriend and was afraid that he would come tell me so this girl stuck around for me to meet her so i wouldn't think anything and then she told me that he was telling her how much he loved me and didn't won't me to think anything was going on between them and not to be mean but when i seen her i new he wouldn't. i don't know people tell me to give him time and space and hopefully it will change. what do you think?
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reader, comeonjesusthishurtstoomuch +, writes (9 January 2011):
 be careful with this and keep your heart close to you don't let him make you feel bad exspecially now your baby feels it too it was completely wrong for him to sit with another girl and not talk to you disrespectful as all get out your heart will tell you what is right listen to it if he's breaking it let him go fast it's not worth it don't let him treat you this way or he always will so will the guys that follow be strong and don't let anyone walk on you this will teach your children how to act in the future plus no man is worth your babies happiness he already has a prob with the first two big no no even if he does stick around he will treat his child like gold and your other two like dirt it will wreck their lives and they will always feel unwanted you are a mother your babies come first always think of what they will go through before you think of yourself i know you will do your best by your kids and yourself
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