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anonymous
writes:My Business is 6" long exactly and around 5 and a quarter around. I understand that this is safely within the average, but don't know how acceptable this is for women.A cursory Google search of penile size preference revealed a poll, http://www.misterpoll.com/polls/174870/results that looked legitimate, in which 60% of women voted that they preferred a penis of 7-8 over one of my size and that most women lie for any number of reasons when they say "size doesn't matter." I'm currently in my last year of high school, and have a girlfriend who I'm very close to and have no trouble satisfying, but this subject hasn't come up because there's more to our relationship than sex. I have a few concerns not just about my girlfriend but about what the future may hold for me in general.Please take pains to answer each aspect of the question, because they all bother me equally. Will I be laughed at/rejected or be unable to satisfy women because of my size? When a man is called "small dicked" how small is that approximately? My gf and I plan to take a break when we head off to college, but then want to re-evaluate once we have our first break from school in november. I have this deep fear that she'll encounter someone who cares just as much about her but is simply more well endowed than me and that she'll move on.We lost our virginities to each other, i gave her her first orgasm she's the first girl I legitimately cared about, and we've been together for about a year or so now. I don't want to have this worry bugging me all through the rest of this year and next year. Please respond honestly, and feel free to post anything, no matter how complicated that might help me out. I don't want to be made to feel better, I just want truthful opinion.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (28 January 2011):
 Well, my fellow capitalist (this I say because I have a business as well), don't worry. Your business won't grow any more anyways. But you can make it work and turn it into a magic wand! You can certainly improve your business skills, streamline (no downsizing, please) and make it more responsive to the wishes and needs of your partners. Don't worry about what external actors think (I know, easier said than done) because at the end of the exercise it will be only you and your partners who will wrestle when sitting on the board.
Happy Entrepreneuring!
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reader, comeonjesusthishurtstoomuch +, writes (28 January 2011):
 I agree with the anonymous male about women not orgasming that way. You are pretty packed for a guy but its all in the tongue baby. You get that down you'll make em all squeal. Then you wont hurt em so bad when you slide that big one in. Not just being nice but honest your wasting your worry.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTo Flynn 24 I know that, but high school is full of schlong talk, whose too big to fit versus whose emasculatingly small. I know its all BS and ultimately doesn't mean anything, but high school girls and guys obviously think its all about size or they like pretending its that way at least.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2011): You know women don't need penises to get off right? Most women don't even orgasm that way.
Flynn 24
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reader, comeonjesusthishurtstoomuch +, writes (27 January 2011):
I think i can speak for us all when saying happy to help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionJust to clarify I didn't mean width I meant circumference. Its 4.89 inches in circumference. Yes I was paranoid enough to wrap string around it and mark the string.
And thank you all I'm feeling a bit better now. I just didn't know if women were all about the big wang much in the same way alot of guys desire large breasts or an ass. (not me, just a generalization of guys) It seemed logical to me.
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (27 January 2011):
 hi
in my opinion (for what its worth!)this is not a small dick. i think your self confidence could do with being a bit bigger though! you are worrying about something that may NEVER happen. what would you say to your girlfriend if she said to you 'i'm so worried, i think you will run off with someone with a better vagina when we have our break!" seriously, what would you say to her?
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2011): Look, you are FINE! There is nothing wrong with your size AT ALL.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (27 January 2011):
 http://www.dearcupid.org/question/are-women-satisfied-with-average-size-penis-or.html
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-this-size-small-for-a-5-foot.html
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/whats-right-for-my-partner-in-regards-to.html
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-theory-is-that-all-men-exaggerate-so.html
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-much-does-size-matter-to-women.html
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/does-penis-size-determine-if-a-woman-will.html
There. Some homework for our OP. Pop Quiz tomorrow! Pupils will be graded on a curve.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (27 January 2011):
 "And what do those women get told?"
"Anyone judging a [wo]man by [her bust] size is someone who is an idiot, shallow and probably of low IQ and poor social skills. In other words, a loser."
Although, I usually like to add that I don't care what size they are as long as I can still play with them. I am a dirtball after all.
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reader, comeonjesusthishurtstoomuch +, writes (27 January 2011):
You want the truth here it is... Six incher damn an a highschooler not to mention five around. Wtf are you complaining about your built boy. No joke no lip service. Plus studies show they grow until 25 years of age. My bf right now is a half inch shorter than you, and he touches every part of me. You are very thick and that pleasures women way more than a long pencil dick i promise you! You want the truth people will always get made fun of for one thing or another. My bf gets mad at me and says bad things but it takes him under a minute to get off. Don't let people get to you ever your packin take it from me not proud of it but i've seen quite a few. Your packin don't worry. Oh and if whatever girl you get with doesn't fit you like oj's glove throw her back she's loose.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (27 January 2011):
Well, I'll give you the bust size thing. We do get our fair share of women and girls worried about 'inadequate' bust size posting here. And what do those women get told?
Anyone, anyone? Bueller, anyone?
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reader, dirtball +, writes (27 January 2011):
"That level of shallowness belongs to men."
Come on Tisha, many women get just as worried about their bust size. LOL
Hey OP, don't worry man. Read what Tisha wrote carefully, it's the truth.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (27 January 2011):
I have NEVER met a woman who selected her mate based on his penis size. Ever.
"Will I be laughed at/rejected or be unable to satisfy women because of my size?" It's not your size that satifies a woman. It's what you do with ALL your body parts. Unless you are engaging in flashing or streaking, it is unlikely that your penis size will be a topic of conversation.
"When a man is called "small dicked" how small is that approximately?" Generally when someone is trying to insult him. Anyone judging a man by his penis size is someone who is an idiot, shallow and probably of low IQ and poor social skills. In other words, a loser.
You have spent so much time on something that we women spend extremely little time thinking about. Kind of a waste of psychic energy there, dude, maybe it's time to reflect on how women actually perceive men. And while all the men's magazine and porn seem to indicate it's the penis that matters, um, it ain't.
Size matters IF it's extremely large, and therefore likely to be painful during intercourse and uncomfortable for oral sex and impossible for anal sex. Too large tends to be avoided, not welcomed. IF it's small, maybe 3.5 inches or less, a woman who is a size-ist might find that visually too small.
It's men who spend a lot of time thinking about penis size. Seriously. Take a look at women's magazines. There's nothing in there about rating penis sizes. It's all about 'how to make your man swoon with delight', 'what are his secret fantasies' and 'how to fit into your size 2 skinny jeans.' We women are shallow, but we aren't THAT shallow. That level of shallowness belongs to men. heheh.
So yeah, quit worrying already.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (27 January 2011):
I wouldn't take notice of those so called internet questionnaires. There's nothing wrong with you. You're about average, so not small. And your girlfriend is satisfied. There's no point in having an 8 inch penis if you have no idea how to use it.
Quit worrying already.
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reader, wornoutmommy +, writes (27 January 2011):
 Ok, so your penis is as big around as it is long?! That's not right.
Besides that- unless the woman is as deemening as most 'player' guys, penis size never really does matter as long as you can please her. What I mean is, I had a co-worker that would brag about the size of the guy she was with constantly, but those relationships never really lasted long.
5.5" is normal length. Women care a lot less about your penis than most guys believe. A good woman will be more concerned about whether or not you can emotionally open up and support her feelings than if you have a bigger than avg penis.
Stop worrying about it and just enjoy the relationship.
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