He turned down a handjob, does that mean I'm not good at it?
Q. The other night I was over at my boyfriend's place but since I was on my period we didn't have sex. We still had a good time, went out for coffee and watched a movie. Later in the night I offered to give him a handjob and he said no. His reason was ...
A. 8 April 2011: Tbh, a man can masturbate with his hands, we become so accustomed to the pressure and rhythm that we ourselves create that its very difficult for any girl to replicate it. Offer him a handjob with like baby lotion, that feels a whole lot better, ... (read in full...)
"Relationship crossroads:Approach of College"
Q. Alright This is going to be a bit of a long post, this is a big deal for me so try to bear with me through it. In September I started seeing a wonderful girl in the grade below me (shes a junior/I a senior), but of the same age as me (17, I'm v...
A. 6 April 2011: Its and issue of do I want to marry her...Probably not I dont fucking know, I'm 17.
And then its gna be really tough adjusting to a new lifestyle/hard academics, so do I really have time for her?
Plus, shes kind of a horndog, what will she do... (read in full...)
There is no reason for my children to have these problems. Where can I go that someone will understand?
Q. I feel so alone with my problems. I feel there is no one else on the world who is going thru the same tragedy as me, or in the same way. I have tried to get help before from counselors and support groups, but i felt very misunderstood, and that the...
A. 5 April 2011: Personal Message me if you'd rather not answer. I'm young but can help. My first question to you is where do you live, kids are, sadly, more influenced by their friends than their parents in most circumstances. Demography plays a huge role in how ... (read in full...)
Is his suggestion for sex really safe?
Q. me and my bf r both 15 and he said he might have an std [he has a bad rash ]. and he didnt get it from me becuz we have never had any contact like that exept kissing.) and he told me he hasnt had sex in almost a year and he is rlly anxius. then he ...
A. 5 April 2011: In no way am I saying have sex with him, you should wait a good while and his pool thing, while making sense to a 15 year old, is totally wrong. Yes chlorine would kill most sperm and microbes BUT the chlorine can seriously damage his penis and your ... (read in full...)
What does 'lets take a break' mean?
Q. MEN what is a man really trying to tell us women when he says lets take a break?...
A. 30 March 2011: Honestly I told my girlfriend that because I wanted to be free of obligation during my senior week and summer trip. We picked it right back up afterwords on the grounds that we shared any and all sexual encounters that we had during that time. I ... (read in full...)
Will my shorter penis please her as much as a longer one?
Q. Hi, been lurking here, and have seen all the questions on penis size. I know these get asked a thousand times, but I have another one, sorry. I have never been insecure about my size before, but I am with a girl who was with a guy much, much ...
A. 29 March 2011: "The AFE zone is located at or near the deepest point on the anterior wall of the vagina, above the cervix, where the anterior wall of the vagina starts to curve upward (the entrance to the anterior fornix, but some websites and news articles have ... (read in full...)
Has anyone ever kept the truth from their partner and it did not destroy the relationship??
Q. Is a relationship where you have lied, and cannot get yourself to tell the truth, a relationship worth staying in? Will the guilt of lying and of having betrayed someone you love get to be too much? Cannot confess a truth, but don't know if the ...
A. 29 March 2011: I may be a horrible person, but I kept a random hookup with a girl at a concert from my girlfriend. Only one of my closest guy friends saw and it hasn't been spoken of since and that was 8 months ago. In some circumstances it can work, but I still ... (read in full...)
Will my shorter penis please her as much as a longer one?
Q. Hi, been lurking here, and have seen all the questions on penis size. I know these get asked a thousand times, but I have another one, sorry. I have never been insecure about my size before, but I am with a girl who was with a guy much, much ...
A. 29 March 2011: These people are all right OP, the only fault I can find is that no one took the time to fully answer your question. One poster offered a better position, none offered the sensation she may be missing. I don't buy that business about the vagina... (read in full...)
Are boys just stereotypes who only like girls for their bodies?
Q. Hey there! Okay, I'm beginning to believe stereotypes and bad notions about teenage boys. Maybe even males in general. Like most other fifteen year old girls, I have a Facebook account. I've posted about three hundred photos, but none were very ...
A. 21 March 2011: Alright well yea, teenage boys are horndogs. While I am not guilty of the spamming I certainly know people who are, but you need to realize that the basis for any romantic relationship is physical attraction. Theres no reason to read the book if you ... (read in full...)
Token Penis Size Question
Q. No serious insecurities here, and I know this gets asked constantly but seriously A good, caring guy with a great personality and good career who totes your average 6 inch 5 around penis or A good caring guy with a great personality and goo...
A. 18 March 2011: thanks for the honesty. I'm happy with what I got. ... (read in full...)
He thinks I fake it in bed, when he is actually the best I have ever had! How do I get him to realise this?
Q. dear cupid my boyfriend and i have been dating for a month. i could count on one hand how many times we have had sex and i feel it isnt normal because my past relationships i'd usually lose count after the first week. he tells me he is really ...
A. 16 March 2011: Explain to him that squirting is one of two unfakeable anatomical signs of orgasm. It is 100% for real and cannot be faked, Let the science convince him, have him Google it. ... (read in full...)
What can I do to improve my erection or sexual performance, short of taking ED medication, and what effect will the advised measures have on me?
Q. I'm looking to maximize my physical sexual potential, and have seen a good deal about kegel exercises made. However, I'm still unclear as to when they can be effective. As a 17 year old, what, if anything, will Kegel exercises do for me, and if t...
A. 16 March 2011: Don't really have a problem. I can pretty much go whenever I want at this point. Do they improve hardness or dimensions?... (read in full...)
The most wanted pennis size
Q. female input needed for the best result. What is the pennis preference size irrespective of knowing how to use it or not. I mean the ultimate size you'll wish if your man had....thank u...
A. 15 March 2011: Trolling back so that I can have the witty last word, I think the women Pirate talks to are not only sluts, but also horrible judges of size. They say women can often be off by as much as 2 inches. Gee, saying that your women are off by the standard ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be useless at sex when I'm only 17.
Q. Dear all, Im 17 and I have recently began a serious relationship with a lovely guy. We re currently two months in and completely besotted with each other. However I have a problem, I don't think im very good sexually - I've had sexual exper...
A. 15 March 2011: Odds are you were the first girl they boned. Guys are minute men when it comes to actual sex, we masturbate with our hands and sometimes use lotion or do it in the shower so oral and manual are silly stuff for us. Actual sex is a new sensation, and ... (read in full...)
Penis is wider on its base than the main part. Is this normal?
Q. i am 18 and my penis girth on its base is less than the main part. I have no idea why. Anyone out there? Please help.....
A. 12 March 2011: Doesn't really matter. Its genetics and evolutionary biology that you have no control over. Unless your girth is below 4.5 inches you have literally no concerns. Most penises do vary quite a bit in thickness up and down the shaft, no one is ... (read in full...)
I don't want this guy to move on, but I miss my freedom as I'm only 16!!
Q. Hey, thanks for taking the time to answer this question, as much help as possible would be great. First off, I work with this guy in the same pub. We met this way, and started dating. We then soon got together. I have now been with him for 6...
A. 9 March 2011: I'd be just as bad if I knew my girlfriend has cheated on me while the relationship was in its infancy. You created this situation for yourself. While he is overreacting and exhibiting troubling signs like the last aunt said, you need to realize ... (read in full...)
Teenaged boy needs advice on sexual relationship with girlfriend...
Q. im 16 years old and in my first sexual relationship.i've been reading other questions off a similar subject and the sex life in question has taken months to droop. i am worried because i have only been in this relationship for almost 4 months and i ...
A. 9 March 2011: Well as someone who actually IS 17, an age actually close to the OP, I'm going to estimate, based off of the 150+ males I regularly interact with in settings from rave parties, open houses, athletic practices and debate clubs, that maybe 50-60% of ... (read in full...)
He got an erection from just cuddling?
Q. me and my boyfriend were snuggling on the sofa together, and he got an erection.. Whats with that?, We were just watching a film, not even kissing.. I don't understand why it happened.. ...
A. 9 March 2011: Guys get erections from sitting idle in class. A 14 year old boy cuddling with a girl is more than enough to get him going. Like the other two said, you should be taking this as a compliment, most guys don't get a boner from being around a girl they ... (read in full...)
Is her discomfort an excuse for not wanting more?
Q. So I read tons of stuff on here about girls being able to go for round after round of sex, and Its left me with a lot of questions. My girlfriend and I have, from what I can see, a very good sex life. Though we are both in high school, we do it...
A. 9 March 2011: Thanks for the help. I was just over-thinking it, as is my tendency with just about everything else in life. You guys are great and reassuring, as always. ... (read in full...)
Is her discomfort an excuse for not wanting more?
Q. So I read tons of stuff on here about girls being able to go for round after round of sex, and Its left me with a lot of questions. My girlfriend and I have, from what I can see, a very good sex life. Though we are both in high school, we do it...
A. 8 March 2011: And I'm not sure if here recovery time is hours to be honest. She's been a sport about it a few times and been able to do it about 25 minuets afterwords, but she said it was "a bit" uncomfortable, not unbearable, but not like the first time at least... (read in full...)
Is her discomfort an excuse for not wanting more?
Q. So I read tons of stuff on here about girls being able to go for round after round of sex, and Its left me with a lot of questions. My girlfriend and I have, from what I can see, a very good sex life. Though we are both in high school, we do it...
A. 8 March 2011: Its not that I mistrust her its just that we're each other's firsts so there is nothing to compare to. She didn't know what an orgasm felt like going in, I didn't know where the clitoris was, its just kind of a learning curve. ... (read in full...)
He asked if I can shave down there, should I be offended?
Q. if my boyfriend and i have agreed to try fingering and whatever else goes with that should i be offended if he asked me if i can shave my vaginal area because he hates hair down there? do most people shave down there??? is it more sanitary?...
A. 6 March 2011: To clear up my perspective, most all the guys I hang out with prefer shaved for visual purposes, I myself don't care, but I like being able to see all the anatomy so I find it more practical to be shaved.
And yes, I as a male shave. So I am not a... (read in full...)
What's wrong with being sexually conservative?!
Q. I felt strongly about the kind of misleading advice / negative overtones that are often present in the responses to people who've been sexually conservative (or abstinent) and are disturbed to find their SO (significant other) have not. They are ...
A. 6 March 2011: Speaking from a strictly philosophical point of view, there is a difference between sexual conservatism and sexual ignorance.
Refusing to have sex outside of marriage because it is a "sin" is ignorant. Refusing to have sex because you fear STD... (read in full...)
Is it impossible to think I might be able to marry a virgin or at least a very inexperienced girl?
Q. Is marrying a non promiscuous girl a rarity in todays world. I am a virgin man looking to marry a virgin or someone with very little sexual experiences. Is there a possibility that this may happen or should I not care about this....
A. 6 March 2011: This is interesting, FOX News, as sensational as they may be, just had a study discussed the other day that revealed that the average 25 year old woman surveyed (sample of 6000) had 15 sexual partners. Now obviously self reported results are skewed ... (read in full...)
He asked if I can shave down there, should I be offended?
Q. if my boyfriend and i have agreed to try fingering and whatever else goes with that should i be offended if he asked me if i can shave my vaginal area because he hates hair down there? do most people shave down there??? is it more sanitary?...
A. 6 March 2011: My girlfriend originally didn't, I asked her to do it and the sexual stuff actually improved as a result, it exposes more sensitive areas. I don't think it really plays a role in sanitation/hygiene unless you carry louse, which I'm assuming you ... (read in full...)
The most wanted pennis size
Q. female input needed for the best result. What is the pennis preference size irrespective of knowing how to use it or not. I mean the ultimate size you'll wish if your man had....thank u...
A. 5 March 2011: So what pirate is trying to say is that in the eyes of many, if not most women, the average penis of 6 inches is small, because the top 15% of men with penises of 7 or more are having all the sex?
Am I right in saying that?... (read in full...)
The most wanted pennis size
Q. female input needed for the best result. What is the pennis preference size irrespective of knowing how to use it or not. I mean the ultimate size you'll wish if your man had....thank u...
A. 4 March 2011: don't expect a straight answer from anyone on this site. A question like this is shyed away from because the answer essentially shoots down the hopes and dreams of 92% of the male population. While most women can have unbelievable sex with anything ... (read in full...)
How can I gain the confidence to be a better partner for my b/f?
Q. How do I gain confidence when it comes to sex? (if your only going to look at my age and say I am too young leave don't even answer I want some help, not people criticizing me!) I know what I want to be like and what I want to do. But the seco...
A. 4 March 2011: You aren't too young. I'm the same age as you, for the record. The baby boomers are a bit old fashioned when it comes to sex. My girlfriend of 7 months approached me with a similar question about 2 months ago. I told her, literally, just ... (read in full...)
Performance anxiety!! On the verge of losing my virginity and couldn't get an erection!!
Q. Hi I'm 17 nearly 18 and was on the edge of losing my virginity a few nights ago, but I couldn't get an erection! When there was foreplay, I got one, and even when were just making out and shit. But once we both got naked (first time i've gotten...
A. 3 March 2011: I lost it to my current girlfriend, who was also a virgin at the time. Having the lights off DEFINITELY helped, and I've heard tons of "success" stories from kids who liquor up a little bit before hand. In no way am I encouraging or condoning ... (read in full...)
Insecure about the size of my penis?
Q. my penis size is 5inches im very unsecure and afraid that It wont penetrate or fit! and my girlfriend wants to have sex veryy soon. should i be worried please help!! and please be honest.. thank you (:...
A. 2 March 2011: Theres tons of penis size questions on here dude, just remember that average is average, a woman who you are with for strictly sexual purposes will NOT turn you down if your between 5-8 and 3-6 in circumference. They'll give you a shot to do what ... (read in full...)
Insecure about the size of my penis?
Q. my penis size is 5inches im very unsecure and afraid that It wont penetrate or fit! and my girlfriend wants to have sex veryy soon. should i be worried please help!! and please be honest.. thank you (:...
A. 1 March 2011: Your size is average, just focus on pleasing her before you put it in, that way your 2 minutes or less staying power won't be an issue because no guy lasts very long the first time.
Many people are going to tell you that size doesn't matter a... (read in full...)
How will you know for sure that puberty is ending?
Q. How will you know for sure that puberty is ending? I ask because I want to know when the acne will stop ( vicious breakouts about every month) what the limit of my facial hair/back hair (still none thank god) growth will be, I want know when I...
A. 1 March 2011: Not to be asinine, but my question was not when will I get back hair, it was what are some signs that the "rapid period of growth" is ending. I now understand that it doesn't work like that, my dad says he shaves every day, I need about 2-3 days of ... (read in full...)
Sex positions with a curved penis?
Q. Hay guys, quick question for you. Me and my girlfriend have great sex. But my manhood curves slightly which does limit the number of positions that are comfortable for us both. Any suggestions? Thanks :)...
A. 1 March 2011: Honestly, it depends on the type of curve.
If you have an upward curve you are blessed my friend, you essentially have an arrow that shoots straight to the g-spot, so missionary, however bland for most, is ideal for your gift. ... (read in full...)
My 13 year old son is making out with his girlfriend? Should I allow this?
Q. my 13 year old son has a girlfriend the same aged as him. They always hold hands, Kiss all the time, And slap/squeeze/grab each other on the bum. Should i allow this? I think its fine because they aint going far. ...
A. 27 February 2011: 13 is make out territory, but it won't get beyond fingering until 14 or 15. Logically, Sex becomes an issue around 14 or 15 as well. Regardless of what over-bearers like you or the law says most kids lose their virginity between 15-17. Accept it, ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to take Viagra?
Q. My boyfriend has started using Viagra to have sex with me, in the beginning we used to have sex all the time and there was no problem and now he feels the need to take it every time. Is this because he's not attracted to me anymore?...
A. 25 February 2011: There's an urban legend going around where I live that Viagra gives you the largest, longest lasting and hardest possible erection that your body can sustain, essentially maximizing your physical performance. Being at least a little bit educated, I ... (read in full...)
Is it bad to be scared about 1st time sex?
Q. Ohkkay im 16 and my boyfriend wants meh too have sex. I have to say i wanna too buhh he will be my first and im really scared too? Is that bad?...
A. 24 February 2011: Totally normal to worry just use protection. BE SURE to read the instructions for the condoms (leaving a little bit of space at the top to prevent breakage)
Contrary to what the last few answers have told you, 16 is, statistically speaking... (read in full...)
Lack of trust has caused my boyfriend to have tight grip on me!
Q. I'm in a long-distance relationship with someone I truly do care about. We talk about the future, and he makes it clear that the our bond is not about sex. Unfortunately, in the beginning of our relationship, when it began to bud from a friendship ...
A. 22 February 2011: I'm probably just about as paranoid as your boyfriend, maybe a little bit less so. You should probably just explain to him that you would never choose another guy over him, (which he may or may not believe) and let him know when developments happen ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend says she can't perform oral sex because she has a sore throat! For 12 months???
Q. Hi - I have been with my girlfriend for about 2 yrs. However, during foreplay (or anytime) she will not perform oral sex on me. She has done on a handful of occasions in the past, and I perform oral sex on her regularly because she enjoys it, just ...
A. 22 February 2011: This will be interesting, because an identical post by a female just went up yesterday. Im excited to see how different the responses are.
I would say that you need to explain to her the ide of give and take, your giving it to her, so she shou... (read in full...)
I really want this horse, should I go with my gut?
Q. Hello Everyone, I'm hoping to get a horse in June and I have found this gorgeous Mare who is 6 years old. I'm definitely getting a horse in June and I'd love for her to be the one. I haven't ridden in a while but I can build up on it once I get my...
A. 22 February 2011: Obviously playing off of the previous aunt's answer. Sometimes the horse is new though, especially at a young age like yours. Honestly its up to the horse to make the rider feel comfortable. Just ensure that you wear a helmet and other protective ... (read in full...)
I really want this horse, should I go with my gut?
Q. Hello Everyone, I'm hoping to get a horse in June and I have found this gorgeous Mare who is 6 years old. I'm definitely getting a horse in June and I'd love for her to be the one. I haven't ridden in a while but I can build up on it once I get my...
A. 21 February 2011: Is this a metaphor for a guy? Horses are expensive, your parents may not have the money to shell out. ... (read in full...)
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