Should I keep my eyes on my boyfriend's ex? I trust him, but not her!
Q. Ok this might get a little long but bare with me please its important... So I have been in this great relationship with this great guy for 14months now. He is a 25 years old college graduate and I am a 20 years old Senior in college. We fell...
A. 9 August 2011: id say your bf seems like a nice guy and a smart one all u need is to trust him even if she does like him so what YOUR his girlfriend your the one who HAS his heart and the other HAD his. u sound like a nice girl be more confident in your self if ... (read in full...)
Should I dump him and see if he tries to make up again?
Q. Ok, so i'm with this guy for 2 months, and there already started to be problems.First , he isn't showing me that much affection, which disturbs me and he is not that serious in the relationship.It takes him 3 hours to reply to my texts and then ...
A. 9 August 2011: u cant expect every relationship to be perfect or any guy is he really worth all the hasle is what you should be asking your self if u love him enough then try to talk to him through it and messages cant always be answered right away it take me ... (read in full...)
My friends crush likes me instead, what do I do?
Q. My best friend liked this boy for months, until she found out he doesn't like her, so she went for another boy. Then this other boy, didn't like her either, so she went back to her old crush. He still doesn't like her. He likes me. And I've rea...
A. 21 January 2011: well for starters if i were you i would tell your freind in how you feel for the uy and u r NOT guilty for likeing him and NO you dont have to either u cant help it that u like the guy a d u cant help it that he ;likes you instead of your friend ... (read in full...)
Would it be selfish of me to have another child without being in a relationship?
Q. i am a single mother and i have a gorgeous 3 year old son. For the past year i have been wanting another baby but i don't want to be in a relationship. I'm happy being on my own. Would it be selfish of me to have another child?...
A. 29 September 2010: no no why would it make you selfish in any way
i have a single mum and not once did i ever think that i needed anything else a single parent can be just as loving as 2 but you have to think about this are you truly prepared on when the child is g... (read in full...)
I'm 15, think I'm pregnant but don't think I could abort a baby!
Q. i am 15, and i think i am pregnant. i am goin to do a test tomorrow, i am scared in case i am cause i still have my whole life ahead of me, but i dnt think i could abort the baby, i cant talk to anyone about it, plz help me?...
A. 29 September 2010: i have a friend who has a baby and is the same age as you. i know its scary and im not going to pretend how i know how it feels, but in no way i thought that my friend ruined her life beacuse of the child that she has. i were you i would be scared ... (read in full...)
Breakup Pain
Q. I'm sixteen and have just started college. Three weeks ago my boyfriend of two and a half years finished with me. He said he didn't love me any more and started fancying other girls. Up until that point he'd acted normally to me, sex, I love you's, ...
A. 29 September 2010: when a couple breaks up there are ALWAYS awkards afterwards moments these are just one of them
every girl gets hurt when they break up with someone and no it isnt wrong to hate him in my opinion and being his friend may hurt but at lesast ther... (read in full...)
I stupidly love a married man. How do I move on?
Q. I met a married man in my local pub a couple of years ago. We struck up an instant, flirty friendship and that continued for ages. Just recently things have progressed and we have had sex. I don't ring or text him and we never arrange to meet, it is ...
A. 5 September 2010: i knnow its hard that yu have this pain inyour chest now but you will move on all it takes is will power and another guy
good luck ... (read in full...)
I think my older cousin might like me! Should I play along with her?
Q. I'm 15 years old male and my cousin is 21 years old female I've liked my cousin for well over about 2 years and ive kept it a secret. I always knew that she wouldn't like me back but recently over the last few months when i've been with her shes ac...
A. 5 September 2010: well cousins can be a little close but i really dont think she has a crush but sees u as a person who could talk too about relationships and that and besides your young and you are bound to learn about sex and all that stuff so maybe your cousin is ... (read in full...)
He doesn't love me enough to leave his children
Q. If your married lover says that he doesn't love you enough to walk out on his children,does that mean he never will?...
A. 5 September 2010: in my eyes i dont blame niether of you he doesnt sound like a bad guy but he wont leave his children NOMAN SHOULD EVER WALK out on there own child even for another love children are a npart of them my opinoin is find a guy who doesnt have kids or ... (read in full...)
Why is he being so selfish wanting me to have an abortion???
Q. Hi, last week i found out that i am pregnant im 17 and my boyfriend of 16 months is 18. I told him that i didnt want to get an abortion, and at first he said he would be there for me no matter what and said he would move in with me and my parents, a ...
A. 31 July 2010: i wouldnt know what to do either if i was in your case well in my opinion he is selfish and he isnt your boyfriend seems to be nice and all but maybe he isnt ready to be a father yet but u are ready to be a mother and yes he has to take ... (read in full...)
My heart is broken, how can I get over this?
Q. How do you get over a broken heart? 'Cause right now... mine is shattered! The guy i loved, just wanted me to give him oral sex... again... i admit i did it only once though, but then all he wanted to do was get me in the sheets. He said we were ...
A. 12 July 2010: your young in around the same age as u it might hurt now but u will find someone who love U not just for sex get over this huy he obviously is a closed minded person you deserve way better and you can do better your young live life now and find ... (read in full...)
How do I break up with him?
Q. So I have decided to break up with my boyfriend of 8 years but I dont know how to go about it, i'm really scared as I know he will be really upset with me. But I have been really unhappy for some time. I try to pretend that the way we are living and ...
A. 12 July 2010: breaking up can never be easy for me i also have a boyfriend and i want to break up with him so i will tell you one and one that i know exacly how u feel even though i have no idea on what i want to say even though its always in my head but it never ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to hide your feelings when you have a crush?
Q. Please tell me if this is normal or not, but I hate it when I start to crush on a girl because I feel weak, mainly because I don`t have the confedence to tell her I like her or anything like that. When I crush on a girl, I just feel like a coward ...
A. 9 July 2010: i am the same age as you and YES its normal for a girl to hide there feelings your young and as a girl the reason y girls like guys that dont show emotion is cause it seems cool to the mysterious and hey every one there own personality ITS NORMAL!! ... (read in full...)
Too old for me??
Q. Ok, so I just need some opinions on this. I am really interested in this guy, and he is interested in me. He is 26 and I am 17. Is this too much of an age difference?...
A. 9 July 2010: well that is a bit of a big age difference and as the other replys say it is illigal to have sex before your 18 and maybe he is just a perv lookin out for young girls as your self but the same time i know a couple that have a 8 years difference and ... (read in full...)
What should we do when friends won't like us going out?
Q. Ok so me and my best guy friend just admitted that we like eachother as more than friends. We tell eachother everything! We know just about everything about eachother. We love eachother but we are scared to start goin out. First off he's my bff'...
A. 9 July 2010: wow a BIG problom i was also in a similar situation a choice between friends or a guy i am the same age as u believe or not but i cant really tell u how to answer this problem i am still actually in the same situation as u but girl to girl id say ... (read in full...)
I'm scared. Should I tell someone what happened?
Q. so i was at my friends house the other night. it was around 1:30 am or sometihng close to that time when i fell asleep on her couch. her brother and her cousin where in her brothers room when i passed out. i woke up at around 2:30 to the feeling of ...
A. 9 July 2010: im so sorry this happened to you and im going to be honest i also had a little bit of a similar expierence a few years ago i also never told anyone and it is terrible to bottle up inside and it haunts u but u need to tell some one your mum for ... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with him?
Q. uhm , last year i lost my virginity around the age 12 going onto 13 and this year the guy i knew and i still trusted likes me and we started going out for almost 7 months and i think i want to try it out with him i am 13 going on to 14 and this guys ...
A. 9 July 2010: well i am the same ages as u and in my honest opinion u r young and all and have a long time ahead of you and you have strong feelings for this guy that u even want to have sex with him but id say wait a little longer girl even though with all them ... (read in full...)
I think I like another girl more than my girlfriend!
Q. Hi i need help. about 3 months ago i started to like this girl my age(15) and we got to know each other more and more then she said that she kinda liked me too. a few days later talked again and i found out she had a boyfriend i felt as if i was ...
A. 7 July 2010: i also have this exact feeling but with a guy though and i am the same age as you believe it or not but its difficult to choose i know i wouldnt even as a gitl myself wouldnt want to hear that my boyfriend likes another girl but at least i know the ... (read in full...)
Are these all signs he's interested in me?
Q. There is a guy I have a crush on who I have been seeing for the past month. We both have been getting to know each other (only in person because I don't have his number or email). The more I see him, the more effort he is putting in getting to know ...
A. 7 July 2010: as a girl myself yes he is interested in you he is defiently interested the sighns are all there go for it why dont you flirt back? a little though and see were it goes (if you like him)
hope everythig works out... (read in full...)
I was sexually abused, now my period is late, could I be pregnant?
Q. I was sexually abused last month, the guy didnt wear a condom 2 days later i got my period right on time for 6 days normal flow. This month its 3 days late already, could i be pregnant? ...
A. 7 July 2010: im so sorry this happened 2 u im not even going to pretend like i know how u feel im not in no position to say any thing but im sorry to say that you could be carrying his child if i were you i would go to a doctor.
i hope every thing works out!... (read in full...)
Will my husband physically hurt me again?
Q. My husband and I have been married for 7 months. We fight because he's done stuff to make me not trust him. today we got into a fight and I threw his phone into our wall out of frustration (not at him). when it came apart he kicked me and told ...
A. 7 July 2010: yes u should leave him he has pysically hurt u and what is sroppin him from doin it again get away from him go to your family and end it now next time it could be your face get out of there and find ur self some one who deserves u
hope every thin... (read in full...)
Why does he keep saying "you can do better"?
Q. Hi Everyone Please help if you can!!! I have no close guy friends to ask. What does a guy mean when he keeps saying "you can do better"?? Other than the obvious what is he really saying? We have been in a relationship for almost 5 years ...
A. 28 June 2010: you can do better as a woman myself that means that you should go with another guy that loves you cause i dont any more. to be honest what id do in your shoes is take his advice and take charge of your life and walk out and find a guy who actually ... (read in full...)
I don't want kids and can't find a woman who doesn't
Q. This will sound an odd question but are there ANY women out there who don't have a desire to have kids? I am 36 and am single again after 10 years. My partner had no desire to have kids, which suited me. Don't get me wrong, I don't hate kids - I ...
A. 28 June 2010: to be honest and a womans point of view there are at least 80/90 percent of the world woman want kids and some dont. i for one dont want kids but to be honest with you there is no 100 percent you will get the relation ship you want ans it will be ... (read in full...)
Is There a Reason I Seem to Prefer Older Men?
Q. First of all, I'm 17, the age on this is wrong. I was really good friends with this guy, lets call him chris, and I was completely in love with him. We slept together, then after two weeks of not talking we became fwb, then he started going out with...
A. 28 June 2010: i dont think its wrong at all many other girls like older guys i am one even so whats wrong with it older guys who should you blame nothings wrong with it.... (read in full...)
Do boobs really matter that much? Feeling insecure!
Q. So my ex boyfriend and I have been broken up for about 2 weeks. He is talking to this girl, I checked her FB profile out she has a son, has big boobs, big ass, she's like a muslim or something, she gets around, has a filthy mouth, she's fat. Why is ...
A. 18 June 2010: as a girl my self boobs are not that much as a bigga deal i mean only a perverted selfminded guy would look at the boobs and nothing else. and this guy PLEASE you are way better then him move on girl! you can do so much better then him take you mind ... (read in full...)
Can you still love someone even if you don't see them for ages?
Q. Can you love someone you don't see for ages? Me and my ex broke up when he moved away to live in another state.. I'm just wondering if it's possible to love someone you dont see? Is it alot easier to get over them? We still talk (he always in...
A. 18 June 2010: its possible alright you dont need to see each other to love each other do you? love isnt a switch that you can easly turn on and off like tap water. your feelings might not got away but try and find someone else that is closer to you. hope everythi... (read in full...)
My friend died tragically, and I can't move on
Q. Someone please help me...I miss my best friend ever,she died in a tragic way,until now i can't move on still keep thinking of her...wishing that she's still alive until now,i keep on dreaming of her that she's crying,we both cried in my ...
A. 18 June 2010: i also had this pain and to tell you the honest truth my heart has never mended and i dont think it ever will go away. so what i would say to one girl to one is its okay to miss your friend its okay to think about her but crying over the past wont ... (read in full...)
Will my heart ever mend?
Q. Ever had your heart broken so badly it hurts physically inside too, like you have had it ripped out without painkillers? I have. My ex destroyed me, my self esteem, my confidence and faith. He led me on for years believing he wanted me, wanted to ...
A. 18 June 2010: im sorry u feel this way you are hurting terribly i also had this pain and to tell you the honest truth that pain will last for as very long time or even in some cases that pain may never go away. but what i would do if i were you is re build your ... (read in full...)
We have had various arguments and fights. Should we date again??
Q. Sorry this is going to be really long....... Me and my girlfriend recently broke up after 10 months of dating. In that time we have had a couple arguments and a couple fights. We went on a break about 3 months ago and she kissed another guy, the...
A. 17 June 2010: well i say if i was in your situation your girl friend seems to be sorry and regret in what she done and i think personally give her a chance.
you seem to deeply care for her.
id say give her a chance... (read in full...)
I miss her , but she hates me and wants nothing to do with me
Q. A girl I fell out with badly 6 months ago and broke up with over December has recently said she hates me, and never wants anything to do with me etc to a mutual friend we share. She lives around an hour from me, and I was at once in love with her. ...
A. 17 June 2010: i say you should forget her if she is acting paranoid.
you dont seem like a bad guy and you hurting terribily
but its time to move on and find someone who deserves your feelings
... (read in full...)
Tired of receiving mixed messages... How can I find out if he likes me or not, once and for all?
Q. I have been liking this one particular guy for a while, and I could tell he liked me back. We went to prom together and a lot of people began rumors that we might've been together. That's false. And he's done everything that literally every girl ...
A. 17 June 2010: personally i think you should stop chaseing this guy if he likes you the answer will come eventually.
unless you want to go on a wild goose chase
i think he knows your feeling so the rest is really up to him just be patient.
... (read in full...)
My best friend's boyfriend...
Q. This past weekend i just met my best friend's boyfriend and oh my is he a cutie, But i realized that he was thinking the same thing about me, He started to text me the following monday after we first met... he told me "Your gorgeous, your eyes are ...
A. 17 June 2010: i think u know what you should do be honest with her
when you call some one a best friend there is always a reason.
he doesnt care for ur friend yet he is flirting with you
and if it happens to your friend what difference will it be with you?
... (read in full...)
My step- children don't respect me what should I do?
Q. My husband and I have 6 kids. Three are his and three are mine. I am at home with the kids the most so I deal with their behaviour issues and just day to day stuff making sure they get their responsibilities (which are very minimal) taken care of. ...
A. 25 May 2010: as a step kid myself in my opinion is give the kids space and let them be let them get used to you the kids might think that u might be tryin to take there mothers place. or maybe it could be a phase for that they miss there mother or that t... (read in full...)
I did everything for her, now we don't get on. Has she used me?
Q. Hey, I have been with a girl for coming up two years now. She started to work in the office where I work- I am 34 and she is now 23. I tried to give this relationship my all. We moved in together after a short while of dating. I paid the depo...
A. 25 May 2010: some relationships do get dull at times sometimes it is a phase for all relation ships.
but if she is always like this and the spark in ur relation has faded and died and ur both nt happy wat relationship is there?
... (read in full...)
Did my teacher fall in love with me??
Q. See I'm not one of those typical people to ask these questions, and i'm extremely nevous, so that is why I am asking: 'Is it possible that my teacher may be in love with me?' btw- I am 16 and he is 30ish My teacher once stopped a whole les...
A. 25 May 2010: well to tell you the honest truth of how i will take this is this teacher is a little too friendly with u
at the same time this teacher may be a perv or just being friendly i say just act like nothin has happen and see wat he does but be awar... (read in full...)
Everyone hates me, Please help me.
Q. Everyone hates me. I hate my school because everyone really hates me. I only have 2 friends that i can be with. But I'm bullied, teased at and I'm always being hurt emotionally and physically. No one really cares about me and I my parents said...
A. 25 May 2010: head up not every one hates you its not you its THEM!!!
teachers can help you your parents are ALWAYS there to listen and so am i and all the other on this site!
!!!you are not alone!!!
when i was a kid i was bullied but i made throgh that pain an... (read in full...)
Wow! He wants to have sex with me but I feel I'm too young... Help!
Q. i was going out with this boy it lasted 2 weeks and then he dumped me. i re asked him out a few months later and he said yes and it was all ok but now he has asked me if i would have sex with him. (but not forcefully) i just laughed and changed the ...
A. 25 May 2010: you r WAAAAY TOO young save it for someone special not for this horny guy.
if i were you you should dump this guy befor he dumps you again!
think of the conciquences ...
wait for that special someone that you deserve...... (read in full...)
HOw do I get him to trust me when I haven't done anything wrong?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year, 10 months to be exact. We are currently in a long distance relationship, not by choice, I haven't finished high school, so I can't leave home yet. Anyways for my question: I feel like we hav...
A. 25 May 2010: this is called jelousy not any thing to do with trust if you want to keep this guy show him that there is nothing to be jelous of... (read in full...)
What can I do to keep him interested?
Q. hello everyone, I am with a guy on and off 3 years now, we always go back to eachother and the passion is still here but I don't find enough time to be with him and I feel like he may be doing something behind my back...so I need to know what should ...
A. 25 May 2010: if you dont trust him i say end it if you dont trust him and you feel like you have to try to keep him
wats the point of trying when hes isnt?... (read in full...)
Is my shy crush losing interest in me?
Q. She normally shows me signs such as:looking at me when I’m not looking at her (sometimes while giggling), mimicking me, asking people she knows questions about me, showing concern for me if she thinks I’m in trouble, her friends act differently ...
A. 25 May 2010: maybe the problem is that you are not showing any interest so she thinks she hasnt got any hope left so i say what do you want if you like her and she likes you wat do u have 2 lose?
... (read in full...)
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