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writes:My best friend liked this boy for months, until she found out he doesn't like her, so she went for another boy. Then this other boy, didn't like her either, so she went back to her old crush. He still doesn't like her. He likes me. And I've really liked him for months, too, but I haven't said anything because I know she liked him. I've never had a boyfriend before, my friend has had 3 in the space of six months :') She tends to like whoever likes her at the time, and get's bored of them within a month, so she dumps them.I know if I told my friend how I felt about this boy, she'd back down, cause he obviously doesn't feel that way about her, and she's such a lovely person, she just wants me to be happy. She wouldn't hold a grudge if I got together with him or anything, the only thing holding me back is that I'd feel so guilty. I'd feel like I'd stolen him away from her or something. So, because of this, I've never said anything.Should I just tell her how I feel about him or no?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2011): Your mistake is not telling her earlier you liked him, now it kind of seems like you're deliberately trying to aggravate her. However, do tell her now, it'll be fine I'm sure, just if it happens again with someone else, tell her sooner rather than later.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2011): Yes. But ask her if shes ok with that. Don't just tell her.
If she is a good friend she will be ok with it.
Good luck , hope it will work out with that boy
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2011): I think you should put your friend first, tell her about him and agree both to let him go. Boys will come and go but a good friendship could be there for years.
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reader, cindy 15 +, writes (21 January 2011):
 well for starters if i were you i would tell your freind in how you feel for the uy and u r NOT guilty for likeing him and NO you dont have to either u cant help it that u like the guy a d u cant help it that he ;likes you instead of your friend there are more fishes in the sea for your friend im am sure she will understand she doesnt sound like a person to be holding a grudge
trust her and tell her
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