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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2010): // It is healthy to be circumsiced & it also reduses the chances of contracting Hiv aids the reserch has shown. //
That research you've quoted on HIV transmission is very new, with the vast majority of medical literature for decades recommending it is a cosmetic surgery only.
I wonder what people would think if research showed that cutting off the labia reduced the transmission of STDs? Hey, if you cut off the whole penis, I bet you reduce HIV a whole lot!
I'm cut but didn't circumcise my two boys because I'm not masochistic, religious, or superstitious, and I don't give a rats ass what some shallow girl might think about it. A real woman wouldn't care and will be open minded (legged?) either way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2010): Just keep it clean and everything will be fine. There's no need to get circumsized.
My boyfriend is uncircumsized and it doesn't bother me at all. In fact... I love going down on him.
Don't worry about it but you MUST keep it clean, thats all.
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (17 July 2010):
 The majority of men in the world are NOT circumcised; the United States is one of the few countries where circumcision is the norm. Unless it's for religious reasons, I don't see the point to being circumcised. I would discuss this with a Dr.
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reader, Jeseh.  +, writes (17 July 2010):
 It is healthy to be circumsiced & it also reduses the chances of contracting Hiv aids the reserch has shown.
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reader, golf_kid123  +, writes (17 July 2010):
golf_kid123 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey... Thanks everyone for the advice... I really appreciate it.
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reader, papabear +, writes (17 July 2010):
Hey I am 18 and uncircumcised I know that it can be embarrassing because i went through it to but there are many sites that tell how men who get it done can have psychological issues and can even take it out on people who are uncut because they resent the fact that they are cut and you aren't even if they don't realize it. I have a beautiful gf who had never been with an uncircumcised male and after getting used to it likes my penis better than circumcised ones so even girls who may be weirded out at first may end up liking it more. It also makes sex more comfortable and pleasurable for the man and the woman when you get to that point in your life by adding extra lubrication that would not be there if you were cut. dont do this just to fit in its not worth it and you will most likely regret it.
Just some input. i recently did alot of research for and against it. good luck =|:-)
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (17 July 2010):
 Why embarrassed?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2010): At your age it's normal to be sensitive to this, but PLEASE wait it out... in a few years you'll be really happy you're uncut. Sex is better, woman will love it and you'll be happy. Don't worry about the jerky guys, they're simply nervous... give this time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2010): I'm gonna keep it short and simple. Don't do it. I've been with my fiance for 3 years and have loved every inch of his penis. He's great in bed it doesn't bother me at all!!!! Don't worry you'll find a lucky girl that loves your penis the way it is just like I love my fiance's.
Hope this helps. ; )
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (17 July 2010):
 I am not...glad I am not for many reason. If GOD didn't want you to have the skin, it wouldn't be there. Like you eye lids. The skin is there for protection, just like the extra skin we men love so much on a woman's Vagina. Would they like that cut off...ummm..no.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2010): my finance isn't circumsized and he is better in the bed then my ex's. Lol. Its nothing to worry about, so long as you keep it clean. Also ive heard that getting it done as an adult (usually you'd have it done when a baby) can cause complications and be very very painful. If they cut too many nerves you wont enjoy sex as much either. Definately speak to a doc and ask what can happen before deciding anything. And honestly, nothing to be embarrassed about. Girls generally dont mind what a guy is, so long as its clean
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reader, EbonyBlossom  +, writes (17 July 2010):
 Most guys are embarrassed because they are circumsized. Unless you have an unusually tight foreskin, or for religious reasons want to be circumsized, then you have absolutely no reason to. Most guys are uncircumsized.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2010): Why are you embarrassed about it?
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