My mates mom is pregnant...with my child!
Q. Im currently seeing my mates mum. Im 17 and so is my mate, his mum is 32. but last night she told me that she was pregnant with my kid and she wants to keep it. even more she is planning to tell my mate about us. what should I do? Should I tel...
A. 31 July 2007: wow i think you both should explain to your friend but also make sure your ready to be a father or what you want your still young and you might be losing a friend because i dont think your mate would like you being hes step father if that step was ... (read in full...)
We have an age difference of 3 years and it bothers him! What is your view?
Q. Okay, I am 14..going to be 15 in oct. and i like this guy and he is 17 to be 18 in july..i like him he likes me we went out on a date, my parents really like him, but the other day he said he is bothered by the age difference, its only a little over ...
A. 6 May 2007: well really you live in the united states and if you get caught having sex with some one over 18 and your not 18 yet than he'll go to jail but any ways maybe he scared of getting in trouble or some thing. we really cant tell you why he feels this ... (read in full...)
My bf told his friends he hates me, he lies and he has cheated! I am heartsick..what should I do?
Q. I don't know what to do anymore...HELP! I have been with my b/f for 3 years march 2007, and we have a gorgeous 8 month old son Seth. We broke up Nov. 2005 b/c he didn't pay any attention to me and got back together in Feb. 2006 I found out I was ...
A. 29 April 2007: you need to calm down and do you have a family member or friend close to you? if not you need to get a motel room and try to get a hold of some one who can help you like your mom or sister or a friend and you need to leave take your son out of that ... (read in full...)
Does my bf need to wear a condom if I give him a blowjob?
Q. I dont know what i should do i told my boyfriend that im not a virgin but really i am and now i think that he thinks that i know what im doing but i want to give him a blowjob and that i know how to do but ive never done it before so umm yea does my ...
A. 29 April 2007: depends on if you trust him or not and also i dont like condoms on my guy because the taste is nastey with them on but ive been with him for a while and trust him so yea its up to you if you do or not but just act calm and youll be ok... (read in full...)
He told me that all he needs is one more chance to prove to me that everything will be alright because I am the most important thing to him, but I'm just so confused! What is my problem?
Q. I have a predicament. I recently broke off a 2 year relationship with my great boyfriend. The problem was that currently he is away at school, while I am at home. Even though he is only about an hour away, it is still hard for me because I want to ...
A. 29 April 2007: him being away ! your attached to him and him being away makes you feel out of place and you cant seem to find the problem maybe you need to start making your self happy instead of having him to smile about. i hope all goes well im not much help i ... (read in full...)
He's romantic but impractical.
Q. Hi, This guy at my church admitted he liked me which was really nice, but I told him for now I just wnat to be friends and he agreed and we've been like that for about 6 or 7 months hanging out,we have talked a lot and i really felt a bond being ...
A. 29 April 2007: i say just leave it as it is, if he really wanted you he would have made a move already he wants something that is easy to get and if not he just gives you. you can do way better
good luck xoxo... (read in full...)
What do I tell him if he asks to have sex with me again? I'm 18, he's 49 and married with kids!!!
Q. i am soooo in need of ANYONES help! i've never been in a situation like this. ok here it goes... lets just start off by saying that i can get very flirtacious and get carried away.. its kinda sad but yea. anyway so my manager at the place i work at ...
A. 29 April 2007: i say just tell him that you made a mistake which it seems you have and your not an ass hole so dont call your self that and i wont either but anyways i think sweetie that you need to take a deep breath and try to be calm and explain that hes age ... (read in full...)
I have a very close female friend. it's her birthday in 3 days. We're 16. I dont have much money. Any idea what i could get her?
Q. I have a very close female friend. it's her birthday in 3 days. We're 16. I dont have much money. Any idea what i could get her? I got her lots of things at christmas and i'm worrying she might expect the same! plz help!!!...
A. 29 April 2007: i say its the thought that counts and that you should give her something from the heart like something you both shared togther like a picture and just show her how much you care ... (read in full...)
Mom seems critical about the way I live my life. I know she loves me and wants to help..but I need tips on how to deal with her?
Q. I feel my mon is real nice to me but too critical sometime and insists on me putting up with people I dislike to be more sociable and to try dating guys I do not like just to see if they can be an interesting boyfriend or somethig, she always puts ...
A. 29 April 2007: i say that i agree with maverick, you should talk to your mother and go from there.
good luck xoxo... (read in full...)
She been hurt by a guy in her past and is scared to make love to me! What should I do?
Q. i am a virgin, but my girlfriend has had sex once before. it was a really long time ago that she did it, but she was really hurt by the guy emotionally and is afraid something similar will happen again. we've been going out 7 months now and i've ...
A. 29 April 2007: i say take it slow and let her feel comfortable just show her how much she means to you. it seems shes still badly scared of the past man and is still hurting emotionally and needs you to heal things with her slow. you seem sweet enough to wait so ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and I are both 13 and I'm scared in case I want to have sex.
Q. Hi, I Need Help. Im 13 And Have A Boyfriend The Same Age. I Dont Know Whether it is Just My Age Or Not But I AM Scared In case I Want To Have Sex. If That Makes Any Sense. Please Help Me Im Confused. ...
A. 29 April 2007: i agree with you ! you are not ready just take things slow and look life as you being older will come fast enough enjoy being young ... (read in full...)
Would you contact an ex boyfriend who you have not spoke to in 3 years to set the record straight?
Q. Would you contact an ex boyfriend who you have not spoke to in 3 years to set the record straight? The thing is that he thinks that i cheated on him when i didnt. I broke up with him because he was very controlling and abusive. Regardless of what he ...
A. 29 April 2007: i say go for it more power to you just long as you do not put your self in that situation again than you didnt better your self just making things worse but if you got the will and the way i say give him a call and a piece of your mind much luck
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Is the size of my penis okay to satisfy a girl?
Q. my penis size is about 4.5 inches and i masterbate a lot, i'm afraid of sex. Is this size ok to satisfy a girl?...
A. 29 April 2007: well some girl do lie and say size doesnt mater but it does and it really has to depend on the girl, i say size doesnt mater i wouldnt want anything to big gosh but i say 5inch is fine but as for you i think its really how you use it and to be proud ... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with him?
Q. hi im julia im 14 from uk. i have not been sexually active in a term i can relate to (if that makes sense) when i was 13 i was abused and raped and left naked in my own bedroom while my parents had nipped over the road to see a friend, i said i w...
A. 29 April 2007: i think you should talk to your bf and take things slow as you were raped it can be hard the frist time or anytime after something like that has happend but if you do choice to have sex than just remember its with the person you love try saying hes ... (read in full...)
What if I've got it wrong and I really do love him? What will I do then? Can someone help me please?
Q. I am married with 3 children. My husband and i have been together for 10 years. Last year he started a new job which meant he had to spend a lot of time away from home. Meanwhile i was pregnant with our 3rd child, running a business and moving ...
A. 29 April 2007: i wish you all the luck and for him to say i dont love you anymore and then come back it gots to be hard im sorry if i seem mean i dont mean to i just seen my sister go thru it and i say just dump him where he stands and say hey i dont love you... (read in full...)
What if I've got it wrong and I really do love him? What will I do then? Can someone help me please?
Q. I am married with 3 children. My husband and i have been together for 10 years. Last year he started a new job which meant he had to spend a lot of time away from home. Meanwhile i was pregnant with our 3rd child, running a business and moving ...
A. 29 April 2007: the answer isnt something we can give no mater how much you want it the answer is inside you and if you love him than you need to forgive but never forget and it is hard to forgive but i say this and not trien to be mean i think your husban is full ... (read in full...)
He says he likes me like a sister but I want more than than from him, I want a proper relationship with him!
Q. okay..i like this guy hes only 9 days older than me and were extremely close. we always talk to each other online and hes been to my house with friends. A few days ago he said you're like a sister..and im like your brother, that really hurt me coz i...
A. 29 April 2007: tell him that you really are close to him but would rather him not call you hes sister because it kinda makes you feel uncomfortable because you think of him a little more than that and say its ok if you dont feel that way but you do want to be ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend of 4 years has been acting really unusual lately!
Q. pls.help, i need to know whats really going on with my gf. we've been dating for about 4yrs and lately she been acting unusal, for example she just cut her hair very short and added a dye, and during sex, which has decreased dramatically, she tries ...
A. 29 April 2007: well i think she just wanted change maybe try some for your self like do something with her you always said you wouldnt do be a little romantic but kinky try buying her a toy for the bedroom maybe a vibrator she might just be her old self with a ... (read in full...)
How do you delete a post you wrote?
Q. Hiya, can you delete posts you sent? I want to delete one please help if you can?! =] Thanks!...
A. 29 April 2007: im not sure if you can but if you find out let me know! good luck xoxo... (read in full...)
I have a straight friend who has a girlfriend but I'm curiously attracted to him but he's not interested. Help!!!!
Q. i have a straight friend who has a girlfriend but every time i visit him at home when his girlfriend is out i tend to talk male sex and i feel that i'm curously attracted to him and would like to kiss him but he's not interested. help! ...
A. 29 April 2007: that might end badly he might not be your friend any more or worse smack and im not trien to be funny, just accept things as they are hes not gay and doesnt like you so i really think theres no chance but if theres something still there you may try ... (read in full...)
I really like this guy and sleep with him but I want to keep our relationship secret.
Q. I sorta hooked up with this guy last night, and we were both drunk, and like we were going to have sex but i said no cause we didnt have protection and we were both drunk and i didnt wanna wake up the next morning having him forget all about it. But ...
A. 28 April 2007: not at all you want to have fun with out the questions and drama nothing wrong with that long as no one gets hurt! so have fun
good luck xoxo... (read in full...)
Should I continue seeing this guy online? My dad would go mental if he knew!
Q. I'm 13 turning 14 and he's 18 turning 19. I have known him for a while now then a little later we started dating. Sounds stupid but we met over the internet, and haven't met face to face yet. I love him and trust him, that he's being honest with me. ...
A. 28 April 2007: first your father has every right to know and flip and any one can be anyone on the internet he could have told you hes 18 and is in fact in hes 40's and even a picture isnt the best to go by. im not trien to put you down but i dont want you to be ... (read in full...)
I'm scared he wants to have sex with me because I'm only young.
Q. My Boyfriend and I Have been seeing each other for a couple of months. Im really scared he wants to have sex and because im only young, im scared that i feel like i do to, is it because of my age or not?...
A. 28 April 2007: ok you sound real confused and stressed frist things frist, you got to calm down take a breath and look at the situation and be ready if it comes up. but for now im not real sure what to say because i dont understand your question all that well but ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend texts me and I know he loves me but he never tells me how he feels on the phone, only in texts.
Q. hi every one i just want to know if any one out there can help me with my bf the thing is my bf dont talk that much and i dont know why that is really he will text me all the time and tell me how he feels about me but when it comes to talking to me ...
A. 28 April 2007: your young and so is he so he just probably a little scared about what you'll respond to how he feels and some guys can say what they feel better in words and writting than actually saying them. he might get tounge tied but you just got to ask him ... (read in full...)
I'm only 12 years old and I'm pregnant. I did it with 27 year old man. I don't know how to tell my mom.
Q. Hi Help I'm only 12 years old and I'm pregnant. I did it with 27 year old man. I don't know how to tell my mom. Help!...
A. 28 April 2007: first sweetheart you need to say mom can i talk to you for a min. and then when its just you and her you need to tell her you had sex with a man that is 27 years old and explain what happend not what all you two did together but how it came about ... (read in full...)
This long distance relationship didn't work due to costs! But I still feel I was just dumped..can anyone help me with this?
Q. I was with this guy, in a long distance relationship, he said that it wouldn't work i knew it wouldn't. He said that we couldn't afford to see each other, which is true. But it doesn't seem much of a reason. I feel so weird about this i miss him ...
A. 28 April 2007: This is a hard one ok sweetie you did what you shouldn't have but it's not the end of the world, you fell for something that wasn't going to work and now you feel as you have been dropped? am I right, ok frist you loved him and you miss him but you ... (read in full...)
Is she pregnant?
Q. ok when i first met my new girlfriend she dated a guy who lived pretty close 2 her and they had sex she told me she had a period after him (which i say is good means shes not pregnant) and we have sex 5 days before the end of march with a rip...
A. 28 April 2007: I think that she could be pregnate but at the same time she needs to do a test, you did how ever put your self in a situation where it's hard to tell she could be pregnate with her ex baby for the period she had could have been her last; so there is ... (read in full...)
I don't like small talk when I meet someone! Have I got poor people skills?
Q. I think I have bad people skills, so I'd like some opinions on what everyone thinks about small talk and chit chat. When I meet someone new, I always think to myself that I should say something more than "Nice to meet you" and/or "How are you doi...
A. 27 April 2007: your fine some ppl are differnt and some don't like the small talk but hey always actions speak louder than words so talking isnt everything ! good luck... (read in full...)
Do gals prefer to give oral sex or do they prefer to recieve it??
Q. Do gals prefer to give oral sex or do they prefer to recieve it??...
A. 27 April 2007: me both i like to give and recieve but my sister only likes to recieve isnt she selfish lol but my good friend only likes to give so really it depends on the person ... (read in full...)
My husband and I have been married for 2 years and we fight CONSTANTLY.
Q. My husband and I have been married for 2 years and we fight CONSTANTLY. He is verbally abusive and very moody. He was raised in a "broken home" could that have something to do with this. Should we seek marriage counseling? We have an 18 month old ...
A. 27 April 2007: im sorry this is going on and im not sure what to say but that it isnt good for your child and maybe you should ask him if he is unhappy and wants a divorce also tell him how you feel if he wont listen i dont think he'll go to seek relationship help ... (read in full...)
What is the best sunscreen that has whitening effects that will make my skin lighter, and not make it tan?
Q. This has been happening for several years. I have oily face. No matter how much I wash it, my face gets oily during the afternoon. What should I do? I have acne right now, but I am taking pills and creams for it prescribed by the dermatologist. ...
A. 25 April 2007: well here you go its called this
(neutrogena heathy skin )face lotion aha with spf 15 and then theres (solbar zinc sun protection cream with transparent zinc oxide) spf 38 broad spectrum uvb/uva sunscreen non-comedogenic non-irritation very wate... (read in full...)
Not sure if i could be pregnant!
Q. ok PLEASE please help ... not sure if i could be pregnant.. i had unprotected sex on the 13th of april... i was freaked, but had my period the following day and was delighted... only i had unprotected sex the day after... he didnt cum or anything...
A. 25 April 2007: may be you need to wait and see, go to the doctors after your next period if missed and ask for a blood test. good luck... (read in full...)
Due to a divorce and other problems, my mom feels like giving up and cries a lot. How can I help her cope?
Q. hey im writing for me mum she is 50 somethink she has been married for 35yrs but is going threw a divorce its a really bad one because no one knows where my dad is and no one can get hold of him not even the solicitors and she has also found out ...
A. 25 April 2007: your mom is depressed and heart broken all i can say is let her talk and listen and tell her how proud of her you are and how much you love her and shes so beautiful no mater what and that he was lucky to have her all these years. just be close by ... (read in full...)
He made this comment when I was giving him a handjob! What did it mean?
Q. I was giving my boyfriend a hand-job today and he smiled and said "if you carry on like that you're going to tip me over the edge" any ideas on what he meant? x...
A. 25 April 2007: that he liked it and you were doing a good job. lol keep it going your keeping him happy... (read in full...)
How can i change so that I treat guys better?
Q. hi, just wanted some advice. last year i was working at this place and there were five guys who all wanted to go out with me. One was married, the other engaged to a girl who lived abroad, another was divorced and two single guys. out of all of them ...
A. 25 April 2007: you need to get out of this situation hes married and you dont want that drama. keep your self busy and work on you. when you look in the mirror you should see you self as beautiful if you dont no one will and beauty is in the eye of the behholder ... (read in full...)
Is he interested in me?
Q. I was wondering if the Guy is interested in me, I gave him this musical birthday card and it plays Happy Birthday at the beginning on April. He has it up his office so everybody can see it. He also thank me for it and open the card so it would sing ...
A. 25 April 2007: i say this if you like him try a flirt incent one but a flirt and see if he flirts back and if you like him than ask him out for lunch or coffee what could it hurt the last thing he could say is no and if he does than laugh it off and say something ... (read in full...)
I've been sick for a week, and the doctor is totally stumped!
Q. Okay so i've been sick for a week. the doctor is totaly stumped at what is wrong.. but here are some of my symptoms: headaches, dizziness, nose bleeds, achiness, just NOT feeling good, no energy, very tired, when i think of food i feel like i'm ...
A. 25 April 2007: i had mono and i dont think you have even thow every one has there own effect from get a sickness but i think you should get a pregnace test and if you did and it neg. than im not sure when i was pregnate i had sever nose bleeds and head aches and ... (read in full...)
He is blaming me for everything and not seeing what he did wrong! . How can I make him ses that he is at fault too and not only me?
Q. My ex and I were suppose to be working things out. He told me to seek for anger management help. So I actually went out to buy health insurance on my on cause I have none through my employer. So last weekend we spend together and had a great one ...
A. 25 April 2007: listen my sister came home from a bad marrige and ran stright to me she has a 5 year old son name chance and i have always told him that it wasnt hes fault and you got to remind your son that no mater what you love him and just do what your heart ... (read in full...)
Had unprotected sex.and scared I might get pregnant! How do I tell my Mom?
Q. Hi..I've done somethin really really stupid. Ive had sex..unprotected. I'm scared I might be pregnant and I don't know how to tell my mum. Please give me some advice :( Kaya x...
A. 24 April 2007: well if your not pregnate than if it happends again go get the morning after pill at the free clinic and i think you need to go see an obgyn doctor and get checked out for stds and just to make sure and you might have to just tell your mom or you ... (read in full...)
She cheated on me and we broke up! So tell me...why on earth does she call me every single week?
Q. We broke up maybe a month and a half ago. It wasn't an easy breakup for me as she was the one to dump me. I didn't want to break up at all but she thought it was necessary. When she broke up with me she still told me she loved me though and gave...
A. 24 April 2007: change your number tell her to leave you alone you dont want anyone like her in your life and thats really what u need. lots of luck hun xxxooo... (read in full...)
He is blaming me for everything and not seeing what he did wrong! . How can I make him ses that he is at fault too and not only me?
Q. My ex and I were suppose to be working things out. He told me to seek for anger management help. So I actually went out to buy health insurance on my on cause I have none through my employer. So last weekend we spend together and had a great one ...
A. 24 April 2007: really give him time and just be ready to take the worse. may be u should tell him you want to get away with out him and think. some guys think they can say any thing and as long s you love him you'll be there well you got to tell him your hearts in ... (read in full...)
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