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writes:I was in my cousins garage and it was just the two of us she asked me if i wanted to dance or pingpong and i chose dance then she decided to kiss me on the neck what should i do
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reader, Beanscat +, writes (11 January 2012):
figure out if you like her and if you do tell her your feelings for and if you do tell her. its fine to date your cousin if she likes you back. if she doesnt just find a way to stay friends
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reader, bearN  +, writes (1 January 2012):
 I do feel sexual attractions towards my cousin brothers at times , Especially when we are somewhat close to each other. I guess you should just chuck it off your mind. And dont think much about it. I guess hormones are playing their role here.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2011): Depends how you feel about her. If you find her attractive then you might as well take it further. There's no harm in having a bit of fun with her. Doesn't matter if she's your cousin regardless of what other people say.. but make sure you tell her it's just a bit of fun because taking it further than that could lead to lead to more deeper problems. Also make sure you use protection if it get to that stage. Good luck
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reader, VSAddict +, writes (31 December 2011):
 Tell her that you thought what she did was inappropriate and that it shouldn't happen again. She's your cousin, so she crossed the line. Just tell her you didn't like that and ask her to respect the boundaries you have as family. Hopefully she will and you'll never have to bring up this incident again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2011): It sounds like she has feelings for you. The question is, do you have feelings for her? If you don't then you have to figure out a way to gently express your feelings without hurting her or making family events awkward. What is the age difference between you two? If she's younger than you must be especially careful. If shes older or the same age than she will most likely be able to handle a breakup better. We are around the same age (13-15) and at 13 I would probably be very sad and maybe a little angry, at 14 I would've been sad but understanding, at 15 i would be a little sad but would be able to handle it. Maybe you should say something about how you love her, but as a relative. Now what interests me is that you chose dance. Do you have feelings for her? If so, go to www.cousincouples.com its a very supportive website for cousin couples. You need to figure out a way to be together and one day tell your parents. What type of cousins are you (ie 1st cousins, 2nd cousins, 1st cousins once removed)? This might be a little too far into the future but i know 2nd cousins can marry. And cousin couples are not considered incest. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2011): it sounds to me we are talking love and marriage and maybe children some day. (Time does hurry along.) If it's first cousin, that may be a bit close, but don't take my word for it. There is a scientific study that shows how fertile a couple is likely to be depending on their kinship. Roughly speaking the best match is third or fourth cousin. Non relatives are a poor choice (from a biological standpoint) but not many people are aware of that. You can get a copy of the study by going to sciencemag.org and spending a few bucks for "An Association between Kinship and Fertility in Human CouplesA. Helgason et al., Science vol. 319 page 813 (2008)" The journal is put out by the American Association for the Advancement of Science, so it is very highly respected.Best wishes.
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