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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I am in a long distance relationship with this guy and i dont know what to do anymore. i'm young and afraid of love and have trust issues and i dont know why i have broken up with him so much. I am so confused, he used to call me and would always treat me wonderfully but then he started dissapearing and still hasnt called in like a month and we are losing communication. He always says i overreact and i dont mean to but what do i do? I have repeatedly tried to leave him but i am attached... i have fallen in love with him and he talks about marrying me but i dont think he cares anymore!! Any advice????
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (3 January 2012):
 If you havent heard in over a month yo may need to realise that he doesn't care anymore.
My advice?
Block his number, delete and block his email account, remove yourself from any sites he is a member of, block his facebook ID, change your hairstyle, buy some new earrings, check out the courses being offered at night school, develop a hobby, and move on from this going nowhere fast non relationship!
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reader, bearN  +, writes (3 January 2012):
 Did he or you say anything which led to no trust issue ? Even I am in a LDR with a guy . And usually if any argument takes place. We try our best to solve it ASAP via emails. And whenever he is out of his city or busy for the day. He always makes and effort to write me an email as its free. I guess you should either call him or email him. Stating how you are feeling right now. That will help ease the matter. Because I cant and don't want to give negative thoughts to you. I don't want you to think negative about the situation. Not until he replies an email concerning what exactly he wants from you.
Me and the guy have made an agreement to write emails early in the morning before we leave for office. And have fixed timings when we can spend an hour of video chatting .
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