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writes:ive been dating a guy named matthew for over two months now.my best guy friend,andrew , who is also my ex, tried to kiss me on new years knowing that i have a boyfriend.that night he txt me.and he never txts me.hardly ever at all.i was surprised.he told me that i was really beautiful and asked if i thought he was hot.he is adorable, but i also didn't want to hurt his feelins so i said yes.he just smiled and txt me until 4:30 that mornin.i just couldn't tell him bye. for some reason i just felt closer to him.he told me he was reconsidering if he should ask out a girl.i couldn't figure out if he was talkin about me or for another reason.i do love my boyfriend.i wouldn't cheat on him. i do love andrew.i just couldn't do that to matthew.andrew would brake my heart again.i just know it.what should i do?should i stop talking to andrew?or break up with matthew.its driving me crazy i cain't sleep im so frustrated and confused.advice?!?!!?
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reader, IHateWomanBeaters +, writes (2 January 2012):
 Why did you and Andrew break up ?What actions of Matt's would make you want to break up with him? How is he not the perfect boyfriend? If you were to ask these questions to yourself, you could find and answer.If you and Andrew broke up, because he wouldn't communicate, cheated, was an asshole, was abusive, etc. do not get back together. If Matthew won't communicate, cheats, is an asshole, is abusive, etc. dump him.If they both are/were any of the above, do not be with either of them.
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reader, bearN  +, writes (2 January 2012):
 Please concentrate on you're current bf Mathew. I guess Andrew hasn't able to move on. Please take it slow and think before you break up with Mathew. I surely should say. It Ain't fair to break up with Mathew for Andrew. Andrew has been your past. You should be a strong girl and let him know. You are already involved with Mathew .Andrew shouldn't confuse or divert your thoughts. Hope you will take the right decisions. Seriously you can never understand a guy . They too are very fickle minded at this age.
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