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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi everyone thanks in advance for your help and for listening.I really like this guy, but I'm not sure if he likes me. We text each other from morning to night and also talk on the phone. We have been for lunch etc and bought each other Christmas presents.We joke about being together and doing stuff like proper dating together but it never really comes to anything.He is shy and in my own way I am too, I don't have any confidence when it comes to men at all. I am scared to put myself forward and find out if he likes me it kind of feels like we are in a relationship even though we haven't even kissed! I have tried to stop the contact with him a couple of times but I can't I really care about him.Should I ask him what is going on with us, find out once and for all how he feels or should I just leave it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2012): No, a relationship is when you spend a lot of time together and relationships don't happen until you've been dating awhile.
Going to lunch is something friends do, definitely not romantic. I think he would be shocked if you asked what was going on in your relationship because most men wouldn't consider themselves even dating you at this point.
Ask him out to dinner or something more romantic than lunch. You'll know then how he feels but his actions (lack of) should already tell you that.
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reader, bearN  +, writes (4 January 2012):
 Yes, of course!! you should ask him whats going on. And the best would be to ask him upfront about where is your friendship leading into. I did ask one of guy friends. I asked him what kind of relationship are we into ? He gave me his opinion. There is nothing to feel shy, As its better to know the truth at the earliest rather than feeling awkward later if it a'int what you want.
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