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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:this is about a guy I met in Spanish classes (something I do for fun it's not at school or something, just a hobby). After classes, he's asked me out for a drink 2 times. We really had a nice time. After the Spanish course ended he said to me that we should go to the movies together sometime.so I sent him an email to invite him to the movies and we went to the cinema last friday. It was really nice and at the end of the evening he kissed me. so far so good you'd say right? These things make it sound like he does like me. There are some things that makes me doubt this however...he's always been very touchy feely right from the start (like touching my arm when he talked to me and putting his arm around me when he made a joke). The thing is, he was also touchy feely with another girl in language class (not in a perv way, just touching the arm or laying his hand on her shoulder while saying something to her). What do you guys think? Is he just a touchy feely person in general or is he flirting with different girls?What also worries me, he always takes days to reply to my emails, for example when I sent him that invitation to the movies, it took him 5 days to reply! Maybe he wasn't sure he wanted to go with me and needed a lot of time to think about it? Maybe I'm not that important to him so he didn't care about replying fast? He always carries his smartphone so I find it hard to believe he just hadn't read my email yet.what's your view on this, does he like me or not? I'm really confused. Is it ok to just ask him about his feelings and what he meant by kissing me? Maybe he just felt like kissing, but maybe he has feelings for me...
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reader, bearN  +, writes (4 January 2012):
 Guys at this age are very fickle minded. Same goes to Girls too. I think the best would be to ask him out. Only if you have got the guts to do. Otherwise, you will be going on wondering whether he likes me or not. And concerning the fact whether he is flirty with all girls or not. The way you have written , i feel he was just trying to be friendly with the girl.Well,it depends how well he knows her as a friend. So he feels no harm to touch. I don't think there is anything wrong in it. It would be nice of you to speak to him about your feelings. You should have asked him why did he reply your email so late. I mean, any friend can ask that casual Question. Hopefully you understand!!!
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