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writes:I was seeing a guy I really like for about 6 months. but we had to break up because my parents found out that I was seeing a boy which is not allowed in our religion. although he is the same religion as me. but since we broke up just recently like a month ago my ex started to call and text me saying that he misses me and wants to get back together, the thing is do I told him I need some time to think about it but now that I want to tell him that I want to as well. he's stopped texting and calling me so I don't know whether he really wants to give it another go or not!? But I'm a bit overweight so I don't know whether he actually liked me or not while we were in a relationship or was he just using me for the time being?? So could you help me and give me some advice about what to do or not to do
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (9 January 2012):
 Leave him a message, tell him how you feel and tell him if he is interested to contact you and if he is not then you accept that and you will move forward. Maybe he has giving up on you, I am not sure, but soon time will tell. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionokay so I called and text him but no reply. now I don't know what to do!
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (8 January 2012):
He stopped calling and texting you because you told him you where unsure about what you wanted so he is giving you space to make up your mind, you should give him credit for this not doubt him. You need to make the next move by calling him and telling him that you want to be with him as well. Why doubt he was just using you because you feel over weight? You need to have more confidence and self belief in yourself. Guys love confidence so learn to love yourself and ring him before it is to late.
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reader, bearN  +, writes (3 January 2012):
 Just because he stopped text-in and calling you all of a sudden. Doesn't mean you should assume he has lost interest.Not until he tells you so. Please make an effort to call him. And let him know your ready to take things further.
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