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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:I'm 15 and my vagina lips and labia hang farther down than most girls. I've read about this online because of my insecurities... And so far, most of the results say that it's normal. But i'm still scared that I will be judged for it (I refuse to have any appearance-related surgeries done to my body, so that's out of the question). I know that my boyfriend shouldn't ever care, because by the time we ever have sex, we will be in love and everything... But it still scares me. I want him to be excited and happy, not disgusted. I know I could never just tell him... That would be weird. But, when the moment comes, I don't want him to be turned off or anything. Advice? Please? /:
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (2 January 2012):
 Down South the saying goes:"There's 2 kinds of pussy; good ol' big-uns and Big ol' good ones!" Don't worry about it it's that much more to suck on. Guys love long lips
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2012): As a man in his 30's that has had quite a few sex partners I can tell you in that moment in doesn't matter a damn to us.I personally love big labia. More fun bits to play with and I just love how they look and feel. I;m not the only guy either OP.OP I don't know where you go this idea that most girls don't have long labia, they do. Most women I've been with have, maybe you're just judging girls your age group who have not yet fully developed or something.OP vaginas come in all shapes ad sizes we guys are aware of that and the majority of the time we're just happy to be allowed access to that area in the first place.The only two things that will ever turn us off a vagina poor hygiene and too much hair. They're the only two. Poor hygiene is something that is a major turn off and too much hair can get in the way of the bits we're trying to get at. As long as you're clean and tidy down there then the last thing you have to worry about is your labia. We guys are more concerned when we're close enough to see them about how good we're being and whether we're pleasuring you.Let me just summarize, a clean, healthy and tidy vagina is never a turn off, ever.
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reader, BettyBoup  +, writes (2 January 2012):
 Yeah I used to worry about the same thing. I guess there are a few of us huh? :) I think porn has a lot to answer for. It tends to show a certain type of woman with a certain type of "designer" vagina and MOST women do not look like that downstairs. We are all different and that is a good thing that should be celibrated and enjoyed. Any man who disagrees is brainwashed and not worth your time. A decent bloke would appreciate you as you are, and accept and love every part of your body, because it is who you are, a real, beautiful woman :) Don't accept less than that.
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reader, niiik  +, writes (2 January 2012):
dont you worry.....these are some of the things which we guys dont notice mostly and it really dosnt bother us cuz we dont have a bit of idea how exactly it is.....so in my opinion dont you worry about it
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2012): how do you KNOW it hangs further than most girls? You don't - unless you've been up close and personal to 100 vaginas or more, which I doubt.
Trust me, as long as it's clean, guys don't really give a crap - and those who do, aren't worth your time.
Don't have sex until the legal age in your state, btw.
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reader, fi_the_tree +, writes (2 January 2012):
 I wouldn't worry about it, i used to feel the same about my downstairs area, one of my labia is longer than the other and hangs down lower.
I used to think i would be called a freak, and i was by a couple of no-bodies who considered themselves gods gift to women!! But the bf's i had who loved me for who i was said that i was beautiful down there and everywhere else for that matter.
So, the bf who is going to fall in love with you, won't be phased at all, it's just the jerks that will try and tease you, but they wouldn't be worthy of your time or effort.
All the best :)
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reader, bearN  +, writes (2 January 2012):
 There is nothing to worry about . Even my right side lip is fleshy and longer than the left hand side . I have been with guys they didn't even take note of it. And even if they have , they didn't say anything about it. Never spoke anything about it. Rather they would play with their fingers and lick them more. lol.
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