Broken trust... please help!
Q. My boy friend and i have been dating for almost 2 years and are almost alwasy together. To avoid doing anything stupid we always only drink when were together. Last night my boy friend and i were hanging out with some people from his new job. I had ...
A. 13 July 2009: you need to talk it out to him and then maybe have some space.... (read in full...)
Help with SADS.
Q. I suffer from a mental disorder called Reverse SADS, which basically means that during the summer I become rather depressed, withdrawn and have trouble eating or sleeping. I hate going out during this time but don't like being left behind by my ...
A. 13 July 2009: its going to be hard but trust me it'll be best for in the long run. i have experience with this.
if you need anymore help, questions, etc message me :]... (read in full...)
Been with him 6 years but he says I'm not ready to be his wife yet!
Q. We have been together for 6 years I'm 24 now almost 25 and I'm ready to get married and have a baby. He wants a baby too but says I'm not ready to be a wife yet. He says I don't keep the house clean all the time and I'm supposed to be his best ...
A. 13 July 2009: Looks like he doesn't appreciate you. Keeping a house clean and etc. is very hard work. After Six years he should want to commit to you, this is just plain bull shit. He is to comfortable, you need to leave him because he does not appreciate you. Go ... (read in full...)
Help with SADS.
Q. I suffer from a mental disorder called Reverse SADS, which basically means that during the summer I become rather depressed, withdrawn and have trouble eating or sleeping. I hate going out during this time but don't like being left behind by my ...
A. 13 July 2009: therapy. force yourself to go out, its the only way to get over this.... (read in full...)
How can I change her back?
Q. I've been best friends with my best friend for 5 years now. I love her and she has always been a great best friend. Except for this past year or so. We've never faught or anything. But this year she's changed dramatically! I can barely even trust ...
A. 13 July 2009: You simply can not change her back. You need to distance yourself from her so that you do not end up like her. If she realizes that she is going to lose you then she will quit this toxic relationship IF she is a good friend. if she continues her ... (read in full...)
She's bi, I'm not...and feel she's interested in me
Q. There's this girl i knew in my old school. I was in 7th grade and she was in 8th grade. We were just acquantinces. In 8th grade, i went to this freshmon for a day program, where u go to a highschool tht ur interested in and a current freshmon ...
A. 2 March 2009: You're just paranoid since you found out she is bi. just ignore them and act normal. you never know you guys could be best friends in the near future i wouldn't blow her off. if her advances do continue and get to the point where you feel ... (read in full...)
Are all men forgetful? Or do they just not care?
Q. Are all men forgetful or do they just don't care?!? Ok, today I've been with my bf for 1 month!! And many more to come!!! He hasn't said anything. Should I mention it? Or is that really not an important date for a guy?...
A. 24 February 2009: it is important but I wouldn't say anything until you guys get really serious and you have been together for awhile. But don't say you don't remember just say o it's our anniversary or something you know. ... (read in full...)
What "season" am I?
Q. What season am I, so to speak? I think this has to do with looks but i'm not sure... just curious i have long, wavy, medium brown hair with a reddish tinge dark brown eyes very pale skin (pink undertones) ummm... need i include anything else...
A. 26 January 2009: I don't think anyone here could really tell you.
Things like this are also based on personality and other characteristics. I guess you would be a spring or possibly a winter maybe but you would need to provide more info really to get something accu... (read in full...)
My partner slapped me on the arm--and now I'm worried
Q. My partner and I have been together for a year and living together for 7 months. We are going to have a child. Just before, I was a little stressed about something and he was asking me questions, trying to help me and I started to raise my voice. I...
A. 26 January 2009: Just let him know how it made you feel.
Sit him down one day not now but later and just tell him how it made you feel and show him and slap his arm so that he can feel what he did to you. But only demonstrating what he did never hit your other it's... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for me to be attracted to her?
Q. Hey guys its me again. Just have a quick question to ask and all replies are appreciated. Is it wrong for me to be attracted to or date this girl? The problem is, i'm in high school, (10th grade) and she's in the middle school still (8th gra...
A. 25 January 2009: I actually feel that it is fine for you to date the only thing that probably freaks you out is that you are in 10th grade and she's in 8th. I say go for it but, wait awhile and see how her family reacts to you too being together and all. For example ... (read in full...)
My male friend left me standing on a dark corner at 3am!
Q. one of my guy mates (we have been seeing each other on and off and hes been really confusing me) well last night we were walking to his house and he said "wait two minutes" and LEFT me standing in a dark street corner :( he NEVER came back. i ran...
A. 11 January 2009: ignore him and dont talk to him. let him come to you and only when he has realized that he is an asshole.... (read in full...)
I'm the myserious texter! Did he figure it out?
Q. hello for a month i have been texting my crush and he keeps asking who i am. as i feel its better and more mysterious he doesnt know who i am the other day he text me saying "i know who this is " he then straight after text back saying " i hav...
A. 11 January 2009: nah hes bluffing just be like
then who do you think this is??
he is pretty much trying to jedi mind trick you into telling him who you are don't tell him anything and mabe just stop texting him.... (read in full...)
How can I take a restraining order out on a family member?
Q. Well let me explain my situation. I'm 16 years old and i live in a house with my dad, mom, little sister and brother. My father has verbally attacked me and has struck me. He's even blacked my eye before. He doesn't take his aggression out on my 2 yo...
A. 19 August 2008: I know what you are going through, and I sympathize for you. There is a hot line you can call, it's toll free so know one can know that you called.It's 18004484663
they will help you any way they can that you want them too.
Please call this num... (read in full...)
My teacher was always there to help me through difficult times, now that he is leaving I do not know what to say to him! I'm losing as best friend!
Q. Hey, Well, a great friend who is also my teacher is leaving my school tomorrow to move far away and I don't expect to see him again. He has helped me through so much. He talked and encouraged me when I needed it most and when no one was there fo...
A. 3 July 2008: Well if you worry about forgeting or not knowing what to say then why don't you write your feelings down in a letter. You can give it to him or, you can read it to him and just explain why you had to write your words down.
It doesn't have to be the ... (read in full...)
But how do I know he doesn't want her and I'm just a step in for the time being?
Q. I've been married for almost a year now, in fact in just a few days. My husband knew someone before he met me, he loved her, but she wouldn't let him be with her. I found out that he's still talking to her, telling her a few times that he loves her ...
A. 6 June 2008: I would say that you should have a sit down with your Husband, because really you don't know what he could be doing. He could still be talking to her and just doesn't want to tell you. Before you do anything rash reasearch her numbers and get his ... (read in full...)
I'd really appreciate some advice on how I can improve my social life, and get an attractive girlfriend before it is too late.
Q. Hi everybody. I'd be grateful for some advice on my problem. I am a 28 year old virgin. I have never had sex in my lifetime. I feel like I am getting old and that I am missing-out on things like girlfriends and sexual experience in general. I d...
A. 26 February 2008: Do what makes you happy and just be confident with yourself. Emit that you will get a girl today and even if it doesn't happen just shrug it off. You have been persuaded but if all fails just talk about Tv,Music,etc.
Good luck love message me if y... (read in full...)
I felt so hurt, used, betrayed by this man, whose son I gave birth to. There is also another man in my life, whom I actually love but I'm very confused!
Q. Hi, I need some advice, a different insight, well i'm sure you will understand... Well my question is basically who should I choose? You will understand why in a minute... I'm sorry if this long but I have been pondering this decision for som...
A. 26 February 2008: WHat you have gone through is very hard and my heart goes out to you! I would do the same in your position. You do love rich and he's the father of your Son,you can't help wanting a functioning family.You aren't going mad at all. You are smart for ... (read in full...)
HEEELLLLPPPPPP!!! 19 year old guy!
Q. Heeeellllppppppp hi, I am a 19 year old guy. There is this girl I like, she is 16 nearly 17. Well, we met at work a few months ago but she had a boyfriend at the time. We never used to text much, but lately we have text each other loads. ...
A. 26 February 2008: I think that you should just wait a while.For now just do things with her but make a sortof connection that you care for her and really like her. Stay true to her and don't act all macho or ignore it. If she wants to talk about it then talk about it ... (read in full...)
Why did he act the way he did?
Q. I really like this guy and we are in good terms with each other mutually. We met last year and have been good friends ever since. He says I love you to me and all that. He continually stares at me when I walk by his area. We never talked much to ...
A. 26 February 2008: I think that he is jealous so he'll come to tlak to you after other guys do. It's rather confusing because face it guys really are Ignorant. I would say wait until the next moment he does that to you and then jump at your chance. Just ignore what he ... (read in full...)
How do I get through to my older lover?
Q. I am dating an older man. HI am 30 he is 43 he has not had a relationship for 12 years and is frightened of getting hurt. I have now told him i love him and his response was well love is not a word to use lightly and he doesn't beleive me...i would ...
A. 26 February 2008: You shouldn't have to convince him that you love him. He should believe that you care for him deeply and love him. You should talk to him about this. If nothing works out then just go on with someone else after awhile of being single again. If you... (read in full...)
I have just found out that my boyfriend of 3 years kissed a guy before we met and I don't know how to take this...
Q. I have just found out that my boyfriend of 3 years kissed a guy before we met but I have just discovered that he is on a swingers site and his profile is very detailed about him wanting a threesome and he wants to be in the middle. It also said he's ...
A. 26 February 2008: You two have been together for 3 years and you love each other. I wouldn't be mad at him at all or anything, it was his choice to do this and it's before you met so it's not like he's cheating on you. He could be doing worse. He needs you now and ... (read in full...)
Is my husband having an affair?
Q. My husband has been working with his female assistant for about 8 months now. Up until the last month, I had not had reason to suspect anything that their relationship was anything other than professional. However, last month, one week he called her ...
A. 25 February 2008: I think that this is very serious and if he does this to you while you are carrying HIS child that he will be a horrible father to your child. He's getting defensive like he has something to hide so I would bring this up you two do need to talk. ... (read in full...)
Will this man marry me, or am I wasting my time?
Q. I have been dating a guy for over 3 yrs - He says he loves me - My b-day just came and went and he jokingly told others his gift to me was that I could be his friend for another year - I am so sad - this is the same man who says he loves me - I ...
A. 25 February 2008: He may commit but I'm saying that he is also scared. you should confront him about the gift of you two being friends if it bothers you so much. You aren't a fool to think this because you love him. You should probably just step up to the plate and ... (read in full...)
If you use a condom when having sex, areyou still classed as a virgin?
Q. I've got one curious question to ask you. If you use a condom when having sex, areyou still classed as a virgin? Please tell me, I asked my mum, she said ask your dad so I did but he said ask your mum etc etc. I can never get anywere with my famil...
A. 25 February 2008: It's a shame that you can't go to anyof your parents feel free to ask anymore questions whenever.
Good luck Love!... (read in full...)
How many more nights am I going to have to go home alone?
Q. How many more nights am I going to have to go home alone? I've been out tonight and have had a very fun evening. But every time I go out and have fun, I always end up alone in the end. Tonight I ran into a girl who used to fancy me. We even kiss...
A. 25 February 2008: I understand what you are saying now. Could you probably be saying something or talking smart to any girls? The girl you kissed could maybe have hinted that she wanted just sex from you and she gave up and went with that guy.
Try thinking of othe... (read in full...)
How do you know a married man is sincerely in love and not pursuing an affair?
Q. My question is how do you know if a married man has fallen for you and whether his love is honest and not just looking for an affair? with an age gap Good advice needed and alot of advice needed...
A. 24 February 2008: A Married man won't leave his wif for you!! No way honey.
He'l just want a little play thing and use you up until he finds someone thats youger than you. Stear clear of this man! Find yourself someone new that loves and cares for you.
Good ... (read in full...)
She broke up with me again, this time maybe for good
Q. i was with my ex for a year and we had our up's and downs of course. I believe i treated good with some stuipd mistakes. We were friends since we were kids but she moved away. a friend of mine one day met her at a bar and began to date her this only ...
A. 24 February 2008: Hi JP
I'm so sorry about what happened even though this was over a year ago. You should try to find er and tell her how you feel about her. What happened? Was it good.
I'm totally curious let me know!!
3 Aylarsh... (read in full...)
How does someone get to a size zero????
Q. heyx i was just wondering how u can get to size zero, and dont tell me that its bad for you, i already know. And looking so skinny isnt even attractive. I just want to know for my bestmate, she is really skinny now and she tells me that she is a ...
A. 24 February 2008: Some peoples bodies are just like that. I eat crazy and don't excercise and I'm a 0. It all depends on the way the pant or the clothing is made. Everythings fine but if you see certain symptoms like she goes to the bathroom after every meal or ... (read in full...)
Does anyone out there agree with staying a virgin until they are married?
Q. heyx I was just curious, is there anyone out there that agrees with me when i say i want to stay a virgin til im married? Does anyone think thats good? Im 15, and believe that you shouldnt have sex untill you have had your wedding. do you think th...
A. 24 February 2008: I think this is a good Idea. Why have sex with someone you don't care about. Better to give it to the husband that you love.
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How long can someone last without food?
Q. heyx I am 15 years old, and just out of curiosity, how long would you say i can last without any food? And dnt tel me about how its bad for me, i already know that. Im just curious how long a girl like me, about 5 ft 3 weighing in about 9 and a ha...
A. 24 February 2008: If you are going to do this then I would say Drink plenty of water. This will cleanse your body of toxins but don't go past 3 days please.
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She wants my first medal, what does she mean?
Q. Hi I'm 15 and I like my 16 year old friend. We've been friends 4 about 4 months but she has a bf. We're both in track and field have 1 class (with her bf). lately we've been talking a lot. She was supposed 2 go 2 a track meet but she pulled out at ...
A. 23 February 2008: She's just nervous about you two watching her probably.You should go anyway. It's just best if you would ignore her and make it clear that she has a boyfriend and shouldn't be flirting with you.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's mother hates me!
Q. Boyfriend's Mother HATES ME I suspected my boyfriend's mother hated me when she repeatedly sang praises about his ex-girlfriend (two girlfriends ago) and how much the whole family loved her. It was confirmed when she began calling me NOT by my act...
A. 23 February 2008: Grin and bare it sorry love it's ust something you gotta go through for your love. 3 Good luck ... (read in full...)
If you use a condom when having sex, areyou still classed as a virgin?
Q. I've got one curious question to ask you. If you use a condom when having sex, areyou still classed as a virgin? Please tell me, I asked my mum, she said ask your dad so I did but he said ask your mum etc etc. I can never get anywere with my famil...
A. 23 February 2008: You used a condom so you aren't it just protected you from Disease and pregnancy. You are not a virgin after contact with someone elses genitalia.
3... (read in full...)
I am in a relationship and I am thinking about oral sex with him what should I do?
Q. I am in a relationship and I am thinking about oral sex with him what should I do?...
A. 23 February 2008: If you feel the need to and your into the realtionship where you feel comforatable with doing this.
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I feel threatened that if I tell this guy my feelings he will ignore me...
Q. hi guys need an answer asap explanations are below please help - I'm in grade 8 now ... and 1/2 First off, I moved to a different country when I was in grade 6. I was very very very quiet and shy then, and Ii don't usually talk to anybody, I spent...
A. 23 February 2008: You aren't neing selfish but if you don't want to go for it don't. He's going to lose interest in you and all you'll do is wonder.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's friends and family are beginning to dislike me...
Q. my boyfriend’s family and friends don’t want him to be with me anymore because i don’t have a job and i’m not in college, they don’t understand that i have a hard time going out and doing stuff on my own and it’s hard just getting out of bed ...
A. 23 February 2008: You must be depressed, but with this time try to find things that will make you happy. You should deal with this head on and try to feel better. There are many ways you can get better just call your doctor or someone. Get your self out of bed and ... (read in full...)
I feel threatened that if I tell this guy my feelings he will ignore me...
Q. hi guys need an answer asap explanations are below please help - I'm in grade 8 now ... and 1/2 First off, I moved to a different country when I was in grade 6. I was very very very quiet and shy then, and Ii don't usually talk to anybody, I spent...
A. 23 February 2008: I'm saying that he likes you. Your friend though has recently said she likes him but pretty much ask him to hangout maybe or get him alone and tell him. Stress that you have liked him for awhile but that you don't want your friend to know that you ... (read in full...)
She wants my first medal, what does she mean?
Q. Hi I'm 15 and I like my 16 year old friend. We've been friends 4 about 4 months but she has a bf. We're both in track and field have 1 class (with her bf). lately we've been talking a lot. She was supposed 2 go 2 a track meet but she pulled out at ...
A. 23 February 2008: Means she wants the medal that you win. She is seeking attention from you even though she has a boyfriend. You must ignore her feelings, if anything ever happened between the two of you then she would do the same thing to you with some other guy. ... (read in full...)
I want that whole boyfriend girlfriend thing but it feels that it's never going to happen for me.
Q. I have not had a boyfriend yet, I am 16 and I went out with someone because I felt sorry for him, I had one bad experence with a guy that was older then me when I was 12 and I haven't gone out with anyone since. I want that whole boyfriend ...
A. 23 February 2008: You are just in a state of sadness.You don't need some guy to complete you stay happy with your friends and people who love you. I understand how you may feel depressed and you will get through this. Focus your energy on productive activities and ... (read in full...)
I've had a lot of sadness in my life recently and have a fear of lurking doom constantly. Will I ever feel normal again?
Q. 4 years ago I lost a baby girl at 5 and a half months, a couple of years later my mother died of cancer and a year later my daddy died suddenly after a 6 week illness. I had a beautiful son before my mother died. I've recently become homeless and ...
A. 23 February 2008: I feel bad for you and you have my sympathy!! Concentrate on what you have now and the positvies. What good things are in your life, not the bad ones. Bad things have come your way and you have gone through much heart ache. Have faith and you will... (read in full...)
How many more nights am I going to have to go home alone?
Q. How many more nights am I going to have to go home alone? I've been out tonight and have had a very fun evening. But every time I go out and have fun, I always end up alone in the end. Tonight I ran into a girl who used to fancy me. We even kiss...
A. 23 February 2008: Well at least you got some kissing in. If you feel so strongly about getting some sex in then go find someone at a bar maybe and get some meaningless. The only good sex you will find is with somoene that you like and that likes you back. Just keep ... (read in full...)
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