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Why did he act the way he did?

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Question - (26 February 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 8 August 2008)
A female Aruba age 30-35, *ilyflower.n writes:

I really like this guy and we are in good terms with each other mutually. We met last year and have been good friends ever since. He says I love you to me and all that. He continually stares at me when I walk by his area. We never talked much to each other. He is a football player and is well known for it. I was vice president and is well liked. The first two times he said I love you, I got the feeling he was joking.

The third time was alarming. Here is what happened - he comes up behind me, puts his hands gently on my shoulders and pulls me back towards him carefully and whispers I love you Vice President in my ear. Then after he told me that we have never spoke to each other since then. Now my friend tells him the truth and he says he doesn't remember me. How do I approach him, now that he knows? There were hints he gave me. He would talk to me after seeing me talk or hang with another guy. What do I do? help!!!!

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A female reader, lilyflower.n Aruba +, writes (8 August 2008):

lilyflower.n is verified as being by the original poster of the question

I don't know this guy and I are well liked by our groups. We are not what some people call a compatible couple. Most people I think would be super surprised if we got together. Which is now a possibility because I think he likes me back. I admitted I like him at the end of last year in school terms. He stares at me a whole alot and he acts really sweet towards me, nicer then he would act towards other girls anyway.

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A female reader, jenna34 United States +, writes (26 February 2008):

I agree that there's not a whole lot going on here to know. He's flirting but guys that age flirt a lot and he's saying he loves you is more just trying to get a reaction and it's not serious at all. I can tell you really like him but you guys don't even talk. He knows you like him i think and he'll ask you out if he wants to. I know it's hard cause you have a crush but i'd start thinking about other guys and not let it be so easy for him.

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A female reader, Aylarsh United States +, writes (26 February 2008):

Aylarsh agony auntI think that he is jealous so he'll come to tlak to you after other guys do. It's rather confusing because face it guys really are Ignorant. I would say wait until the next moment he does that to you and then jump at your chance. Just ignore what he says and act like nothing happened. He may get annoyed and try even more but just act like normal and hide the love feelings you have for him. He should ask whats up or it'll make him like you more. It really depends on the guy.

I'm sorry I wasn't much help but if anything else happens between you two than maybe that'll help me give you better advice.

I wish you luck love!!

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