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writes: i was with my ex for a year and we had our up's and downs of course. I believe i treated good with some stuipd mistakes. We were friends since we were kids but she moved away. a friend of mine one day met her at a bar and began to date her this only brought us close again. i feel in love with her right away and did everything i can to hide my feelings for her. Our familys have known each other for years and everything just seemed destined to be. She is the most beautiful girl in the world and well i'm not the best looking flower in the garden. About a month a go after 1 week of fighting about nothing but crap she broke up with me on the phone. I miss her more then anything in the world and love her so much when we were together and everything was good i was the most happy person in the world. One night i decided to call her about 2 weeks after the break up to notice her cell number was changed i never tried once to contect her untill that day. It's been over a month now and I still haven't talked to her she hasn't called me. we broke up before but never this long or never did she change her number on me. I wonder everyday why she changed her number on me. she knows that i could easily find her at home or work or friends. This is a girl who only a couple of months a go was so in love with me and me with her we would talk about our future all the time marriage and everything. I want her back so bad but don't know what to do considering i don't even have her number what can I do someone please help any advice would help thanx J.p
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reader, Aylarsh  +, writes (24 February 2008):
 Hi JP
I'm so sorry about what happened even though this was over a year ago. You should try to find er and tell her how you feel about her. What happened? Was it good.
I'm totally curious let me know!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2006): Hello,Experiencing a major break up is something that a majority of us will experience the first thing to realize is that you are not a lone in this twisted game of dating. Our first instinct is to harass them with calls, emails, text messages, IMS and etc but little do we know that by following the above you are only limiting yourself more.What you need to do is the old time cure that is time and distance you see right now she is frustrated, hurt and a bit confused so by going around, calling her and doing the little things that you feel is best will only get you farther in the dog house, what you are going to do is lean back, not contact her for at least a week if not longer.Now where is it that these arguments come from? Typically they are a accumulation of spending to much time together and lack of security so you should have taken some space instead of going at it like a pack of wild dogs.Did you tell her that she looked fat in her pants? That would have put the icing on the cake, you see when you are in a relationship you need to build a solid foundation and if you are lacking the basic fundamentals than you are going to experience this up and down feeling a lot.The best thing to do is find a person who knows the fundamentals and can walk you through exactly what it is you need to do in order to get the most out of your current situation, right now you are in a panic and your thought process is blind sided I am just the person for the job I offer a unique dating program found on my website manenoughpros.com.Confused? How would you like to be able to unravel the truth behind what really happened if you are tired of excuses and want to get the most of dating visit my site for more information.
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