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writes:Heeeellllppppppphi, I am a 19 year old guy. There is this girl I like, she is 16 nearly 17. Well, we met at work a few months ago but she had a boyfriend at the time. We never used to text much, but lately we have text each other loads.ummm... yeah, well, she broke up with her boyfriend a few weeks ago. I really like her and asked her what she would say if I asked her out. She said, I'm sorry, I really like you, but I don't want a relationship at the moment, I need some time. I just wanna stay single for a while. Well, I didn't know what to say. We still text loads and she wanted me to watch a dvd with her some time. Well, the questions I suppose... Do you think that I asked too early?Do you think that she just trying to say no, but trying not to hurt me?What do you think I should do?Please help me, if you need more info, just askthank you.
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (26 February 2008):
 its not that she doesnt like you, its just exactly wat she said - she has just gotten out of a relationship and is not ready - completely understandable. by letting you know, she is being fair to you, if she did say yes things probably wouldnt end well as she may still have had feeling for her ex. just spend more time with her and get to be friends with her, wen she is ready it will happen. just give her some time for now, she needs it. it probably was a bit too soon, so dont mention it for a while and just enjoy spending time with you. thats probably wat she wants to do by asking you to watch a movie with her. she probably jsut wants to feel more comfortable with you before she lets anything happen
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reader, xapathyxrebornx +, writes (26 February 2008):
 Noooo its not she doesn't like you, shes just come out of a relationship and needs some time, be a friend and be there for her and something may bloom...give her at least 2 weeks =] x
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reader, Aylarsh  +, writes (26 February 2008):
 I think that you should just wait a while.For now just do things with her but make a sortof connection that you care for her and really like her. Stay true to her and don't act all macho or ignore it. If she wants to talk about it then talk about it don't doge the conversation when it comes up again.
Good luck love but a little more infromation would help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2008): to me it just seems like you asked a bit too soon give it a week or two.be there for her ask how she is doing and generally be a really good friend so when she relises it's time to move on she has you.good luck-michael
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