My girlfriend says a condom is enough, I don't agree
Q. Me and my girlfriend are wanting to have sex, is a condom safe enough on it's own. She doesn't want to go on the pill, she says a condom is safe enough but I am a little concerned....
A. 3 June 2012: A condom is fine to use on it's own as long as you use it properly, but if you both want to be extra careful then there are other options. If he does not want to take the pill then maybe look into other contraceptives. There is the implant and the ... (read in full...)
Can I get pregnant if he only puts it half way in?
Q. Hi everyone well I have this sex situation well here it is I have a boyfriend that I been with for 1 year and 3 months we only had half way in sex 4 times that was on april 1st and on and we used lubrication for some reason it feels good when he ...
A. 29 December 2011: of course you can still get pregnant!!!!! Yeah it feels nice to do that, but he can still cum inside you from doing that, not to mention pre-cum that can also get you pregnant. As you are both young too think about STIs! There are so many of them ... (read in full...)
Toys for a lesbian couple?
Q. what toy is best for a lesbian couple?...
A. 29 December 2011: depending on what you are both into, there are a wide variety of different toys. If you want to feel really intimate try using a strap on dildo. You can get a double dildo too, so it means that while you penetrate your partner you are also being ... (read in full...)
How much do you mind a partner's human side (bodily functions?)
Q. This might sound like a ridiculous question, but in all seriousness, when you're with a new boyfriend/girlfriend (one you've been with for some time but have never lived with, that is), how much do you mind being aware of their... umm... more human ...
A. 7 December 2011: i always find that when you first start dating someone bodily functions are like a huge no no. But once you get to know them and feel relaxed around them farting turns into abit of a joke.... (read in full...)
Why does my ex post a photo of his ex from 2 years ago on facebook?
Q. I split up with my LDR boyfriend because he wouldn't commit to me and he was messing me around. I told him he had to let me move on if he wasnt prepared to commit, but we could remain friends. He was horrible back to me so I deleted his number and ...
A. 4 December 2011: he's just trying to play games and make you jealous. Just ignore it and do not send him any messages asking why he has done that as he will know it has got to you. Just ignore and let him get on with it. It's his loss afterall. Just forget about him ... (read in full...)
Urgent help needed!! I am meeting the creepy pervert who has my papers, in an hour and a half. How do I handle him and get my papers back? What can I tell him to offend him the way he deserves to be offended?
Q. Little urgent help please!!! I am a student and my financial situation is pretty bad at the moment. Things begun to look up when I landed a pretty decent part time job. The catch is I need to be a member of an association in roder to be able to ...
A. 4 December 2011: take a male friend or relative with you. If not take a whole gang of your girlie mates and make sure you tell one of the other friends where you are all going. Don't go on your own at all. If you are really creeped out by him at anytime tell the ... (read in full...)
I was just wondering what I could do to spice up our relationship without actually going to the private zone?
Q. Hello everyone. This is not really a dilemma but just some suggestions. I've been with my girlfriend for 20 months and the most we have ever done is making out. There has been no like touching of boobs or anything private due to her morals which i ...
A. 3 December 2011: massage is very good. You can be intimate with eachother without actually being sexual.
If you do want alittle bit more of a kick and if she is ok with it try dry humping. I know it sounds awful, but while you make out with eachother just rub agai... (read in full...)
Should I change myself for him or stay the way I am?
Q. So my man is 9 years older than me, he is stuck in his ways n believes women should act n be a certain way. I'm conflicted because I'm falling in love with him and I am nothing like what he believes in. My question is should I change ways and be ...
A. 3 December 2011: don't change for him! don't you dare! You would be sooo weak if you were to turn yourself into his ideal woman. If he don't like who you are then tell him to get stuffed and move on to someone who likes you for you. 9 years can be a big age gap and ... (read in full...)
We're both virgins, should I expect him to be somewhat skilled?
Q. Okay, this might be a little odd and maybe shallow, but I was wondering: guys, how were you the first time you had sex? And girls, were you pleasantly surprised or not? I ask because my boyfriend and I are planning to have sex for the first time and...
A. 3 December 2011: lads at that age will never be as "skilled" as you would like them to be. They are still learning, just like you. What they think may feel nice for you normally just hurts as from what i remember they don't understand that you have to be a bit more ... (read in full...)
Do you prefer sex with the lights on, off or dimmed?
Q. Just out of curiosity, I'm interested to find out, and would like to know: Sex with the lights on, off or dimmed? What do you prefer? What do you typically do? And why? Thanks! ...
A. 3 December 2011: i don't think it personally makes a difference if there is lights on or not. Sure you can create a romantic mood with candles,etc which is always nice, but then sex during the day is always good too.
If you are consious of your body however then... (read in full...)
Should I wait for the right one to lose my virginity or find a complete stranger on Craigslist?
Q. I am a 21 yr old male and I am a virgin. I am thinking about using Craigslist and having sex with a complete stranger to lose it. I know craigslist isn't the best place to go. . . My question is should I have sex with a stranger or wait until I ...
A. 3 December 2011: i think you should wait untill you find someone who you actually want to share that experience with. After all sex that actually means something feels sooo much better then just a quick romp with a random. It's more intense and you want to make your ... (read in full...)
Is ejaculating in a woman's mouth more degrading than on her face?
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for 6 years now, and really want to ejaculate in her mouth, she can't stand the taste. She wants me to ejaculate on her face, but I feel that's degrading....what do you guys suggest....?...
A. 28 November 2011: personally the thought of either of those options is just a big NO NO to me. But then some girls love it. You can't force her into changing her mind about the cumming in her mouth. It's not nice at all and there is no pleasure in it. Unless you like ... (read in full...)
Should I tell the 26 year old I like how I feel? Do I even stand a chance with him?
Q. ok so here is how it goes.im a 16 years old teen who has feeling for a 26 years old guy with me in a department..ive always ignored what i felt because this is weird and stupid..but its just that the guys is amazing and i really get along ...
A. 28 November 2011: you need to keep away from this guy romantically. the age gap is far too big for your age and there is a huge difference between the maturity of a 16 year old and a 26 year old. At your age you should be going out with your mates and having fun, ... (read in full...)
I don't feel the spark for my boyfriend whom I am in a long distance relationship with, and I have cheated on him three times now!
Q. Dear cupid, I need your help. I have been dating my boyfriend for 1year now. its a long distance relationship. Of late my boyfriend does call me as usual and all but lately I feel like he's kinda changed he is too busy for me, he doesn't give me ...
A. 27 November 2011: Sounds to me like it may be time to call an end to your LDR. It obviously is not working for you as you have cheated on your bf a couple of times. LDR's are very hard and sometimes you just have to except that it;s not working. Why put yourself ... (read in full...)
A 24 year old dating a 17 year old?
Q. I have a question about a 24 year old dating a 17 year old. I'm 24 and 7 months, and I do have a crush on a 17 year old highschooler. I'm wondering is it ok to get to know her and become close friends? I know I can't have sex, but would casual ...
A. 6 November 2011: the only problem that you may come across is the maturity side of things. Being a 17 year old she will be interested in things that you may no longer be bothered about. Her way of thinking will also be alot more immature then you and this could ... (read in full...)
Poll: What do you believe is synonymous with losing your virginity?
Q. Ok, I want to know. I randomly thought of this today, and I wanted to hear everyones opinion on this, because I'm interested in what other people think. What, in your mind, is the loss of virginity? For girls: Is it breaking your hymen? I...
A. 6 November 2011: only when you are penetrated by a penis in your vagina have you lost your virginity. ... (read in full...)
Does not texting mean lack of caring?
Q. So I've been with my boyfriend for only 3 months, but it's a really meaningful relationship. I have an excellent judge of character and I now he isn't playing games with me. So I've voiced to him a couple times the importance to me of letting me ...
A. 2 November 2011: wow slow down abit. I really wouldn't worry if he does not text you 24/7. It's only been 3 months so what's the panic? My own bf likes to text "morning" etc to me, but he does not do it every day. I don't worry about that as i know sometimes he is ... (read in full...)
Too strong a hymen???
Q. I'm 26 and I've been married for 8 months now. I was a virgin when I got married and still am. No matter how hard we try, we just cant seem to be able to break through my hymen. I think probably I am having elastic hymen. Whenever my husband try to ...
A. 30 October 2011: It's probably to do with you being nervous and thinking about it too much, this then causes your pelvic muscels to tighten and this makes penetration very hard. You need to really relax before you even try and have penetrative sex. Talking to a ... (read in full...)
How do I get a British girlfriend?
Q. British girls fascinate me a lot due to their hot British Accent. I have tried several dating sites find a British girl friend for myself but it hasn't worked since I am not located in UK thats why I guess. Even I tried to go to UK on visit visa ...
A. 30 October 2011: Being a British lady myself i must say thank you for the compliment. But you shouldn't pin your hopes on finding a girl from Britain. An accent may be nice, but it does not mean that the person may be nice. Not all Brit girls are perfect, like any ... (read in full...)
Do other think this looks hot on guys? I think shaved legs on men are amazing
Q. I saw a guy at the gym the other day with shaved legs and it looked amazing. He was on the treadmill and I was on the stationary bike, so he didn't see me but I couldn't keep my eyes off of his sexy legs. Is there any other females that like a man ...
A. 30 October 2011: I think a man should have hair on his legs. For me personally a man should be a man and that means hairy legs. ... (read in full...)
First time sex...what can I do so that it wont hurt?
Q. I'm a vigin and me and my partner want to have sex I'm scared that it might hurt from other girls I've heard it hurts I need to know what I can do so it won't hurt . ...
A. 29 October 2011: it will hurt whether you use extra lube or not. But it will help! Just remember that if it really hurts you don't feel that you have to carry on untill he cums. Stop if it becomes too much. You may experience a little bleeding afterwards, but don't ... (read in full...)
Personality vs looks?
Q. Hi, So I was wondering... Is personality or physical attraction more important? Any thoughts would be appreciated!...
A. 17 October 2011: you need both. but then good looks are different to each individual. Usually a great personality makes someone even more attractive. Just think if a person was gorgeous looking but boring as hell, what sort of relationship could you ever have with ... (read in full...)
I was his rebound girl....how do I get over this?
Q. I was his rebound girl. I cannot believe it. I definitely knew what I got myself into, but the god-damned feelings kicked in. I fell for him, quite a bit. I wanted more, and I thought I could do it. The honest words he said, does hurt....
A. 17 October 2011: look at it like this..you are probably the best thing he can never have now that he has made a boo boo and ruined what could of been a nice relationship, as you seem like a nice girl. But HIS LOSS!
so get your friends together and go out for a girl... (read in full...)
Boyfriend going away for six months and I'm pushing him away when he hasn't even left yet
Q. Im in bits. my boyfriend goes away next month to south africa for a placement and i cant even imagine being without him. we got together 6 months ago and he is leaving at the worst ever time ever...the run up to christmas. I feel like i keep pushing ...
A. 16 October 2011: my bf is in the forces and this means that he does have to go away for 6months on tours. It's really tough, but if you are a strong woman and a strong couple you can both get through 6 months. Keep in contact via email, skype, phone,etc. Make sure ... (read in full...)
Never reached orgasm through penetrative sex!
Q. Hi everyone, I've slept with 3 men in my life. My current partner is 30 next month. I'm 22 years old and have always had a very active and healthy sex life. The problem is, I've never been able to orgasm through penetrative sex. I've tried all d...
A. 19 September 2011: not many women can orgasm through penetrative sex. Sometimes i find i get to the tip of orgasm but it just does not happen. But i actually love the feeling you get anyway before having an orgasm. So why worry about getting the big O? Sex shouldn't ... (read in full...)
After she gave birth she is not tight like before! What can I do?
Q. Hello all cupid users Can you please help, since she gave birth sex is not like before. Her vaginal wetness is not the same. its dry. And how can I get the vaginal tightness she had before? Thanks...
A. 10 September 2011: of course she is not going to be as tight down there as she was before! She just gave birth to a baby!!!! You shouldn't be worrying about this at all, it's her body and if she is happy with how it is then why should she change. Stop being selfish ... (read in full...)
Why did I bleed after being fingered for the first time?
Q. Hello So, I am a virgin but was fingered for the first time, and it hurt a lot whilst it happened, in fact it was really, really painful(Yes, I know, I should have said something). However, the strange thing is, two days after this, I started b...
A. 6 September 2011: thinking back to when i had my first proper boyfriend i was around your age and from what i remember, guys that age don;t always no how to be gentle. They think that ramming fingers in to you is the way to turn you on. It was probably your hymen ... (read in full...)
Why does my BF have my name listed as "Christopher" on his phone? Could he be cheating on me?
Q. I just discovered that my boyfriend has me listed in his phone by a male name - Christopher, when clearly that is not my name. My name doesn't even start with the letter C. This is sooooooo very strange, and I was not happy about this. I asked ...
A. 6 September 2011: he clearly is hiding you from another person. He may have another girlfriend or even a wife for all you know. Becareful and just ask him to be honest.Ask him why you are down as Christopher and if he tries to change the subject ask him again. ... (read in full...)
I got badgered into sending nude photos, my dad found out and is now transferring me to another school
Q. Okay so there was this guy and at first I liked him. He would tell me I was special and make me feel good about myself, and he would act like he liked me too. And to be honest I think he did. He would come to my games and watch and cheer me on. He ...
A. 6 September 2011: Clearly this horrid boy is after nothing other then sex!!! So look at it this way, you said no to sleeping with him so you should be patting yourself on your back for that as you didn;t give in to him and regret what would of been a very bad ... (read in full...)
I hate doing the thing that is his number one turn on! What can I do?
Q. I hate being fingered/fingering myself and I know it's the biggest thing that turns on my bf as that's the sort of porn he watches. We have sex a lot and stuff. However, I feel this kinda pressure to finger myself for him [he doesn't ask] because I ...
A. 6 September 2011: don't do anything you don't like doing. Most guys probably have a fantasy of having anal sex, but i don;t force myself to do it so my bf is happy. You're not even sure if it;s his big turn on. You can get him going with many other ways, like wearing ... (read in full...)
Is this relationship really going to work?
Q. I've been seeing this guy for about a month now and I really like him. I think he likes me too. He's texted me every day since day one. I take that as a good sign. We've been on a few dates like movies, bowling and dinner. His work schedule makes it ...
A. 4 September 2011: I think you need to stay positive. My relationship with my bf has been the same. He is in the forces and we don't get to see eachother all the time, but we text and talk everyday. We've been together nearly a year and yes there have been hard times ... (read in full...)
I want the husband and family. Am I too old now?
Q. I am 27 and my partner of 4 years has just left me for a younger woman. I was meant to get married to him and have a family and no near my 30s I find myself single. Is it too late for me to have the husband and kids? ...
A. 31 August 2011: you are only 27! the way you are talking you's think you were in your 50's. Maybe you are feeling older just because your other half went off with a younger girl. Don't give up on living your life and having the things you want. You are only young. ... (read in full...)
My ex moved in with his new girlfriend so quickly!
Q. Its so hard to explain how I really feel.. I just recently found out that my ex bf of five years, just moved in with his new gf.. We broke like a year and a half.. He's only been with with this girl a couple of months and he's already living with ...
A. 31 August 2011: forget about him and his new girlfriend. Why put yourself through it and make yourself get upset. Forget him and move on with your life. ... (read in full...)
Are all woman like this? Or are some more faithful and genuine than my ex?
Q. I'm just wondering if I'm too trusting or maybe too innocent. I've only been involved in a relationships, on two separate occasions, each time with the same person. In each case she cheated on me with an ex boyfriend. In fact it turns out that s...
A. 31 August 2011: not all women are cheaters. You can't tarnish every woman with that brush. Yes it does hurt like hell when you learn that someone you have been with has been unfaithful, but you have to put it behind you and move on.
Some men are just as bad when... (read in full...)
Newlywed virgin not had sex yet. Shall I just 'get it over with' even though it hurts?
Q. So, my husband and I are recently married (only married about a month and a half, so far) but we're still dealing with the issue of my...ahem...virginity...I've never engaged in full intercourse/penetration and we have tried numerous times already, ...
A. 31 August 2011: your first time is a painful experience, but after that it is very enjoyable and does not hurt at all. So i think you have to bite the bullet and just try to relax during your firs time. Don't worry if you don;t want to carry on for him to climax, ... (read in full...)
I dreamed of having sex with fat men
Q. For two nights I dreamed of having sex with 2 different fat men. They were of average attraction and one a doctor and the other a celebrity. Both were of different race. Can you tell me what this means?...
A. 25 August 2011: means that your mind was thinking of something to bring fat men into your dream and you were horny at the time. hormonal even. I wouldn't worry about it. I dreamt that i kissed my gay guy friend once. See wierd. Just ignore it and don't worry about ... (read in full...)
Dating and sleeping around
Q. I need some advice just like everyone else does. My girlfriend and I started as a one night stand and quickly progresses into a relationship. We met on a Sunday and went out for drinks that Wednesday and then to the movies that Friday. Each tim...
A. 24 August 2011: Just remember when this guy was in the picture, you both were just dating and not official. So just try and forget about him and move on with your relationship. What's the point in going over the past all the time when you should be thinking ahead. ... (read in full...)
How can I make sex less painful?
Q. Ok ..so..my new gf and I have had sex several times..she has a very small vagina..I'm an average size fellow..6 to 7 inches somewhere in there..it hurts her a lot..not the girth but the length..is there anything I do ...I would like to not have to ...
A. 24 August 2011: posistions!!!! here is a very good one for your problem. Both lay on your side as if u r going to spoon. She then puts one leg over you so you enter her from the side. This gives her control of how much of you can enter her. It's very erousing too, ... (read in full...)
I masturbated on shemale porn. What does this mean?
Q. I have been watching straight porn quite lot for the last 2 years or so but of late gay thoughts striking my mind but when I looked at gay porn , it didn't turn me on but Shemale porn did and I masturbated like three times on watching Shemale porn. ...
A. 24 August 2011: i wouldn't get worried about it.Alot of people find different things exciting and erousing. Just because you like shemale porn, does not make you gay. It's fantasy and the reality of it would probably be very different. ... (read in full...)
Male, 20 and still a virgin
Q. Just as the title says. I absolutely hate myself for it too. What a loser i must be. Worse, everyone's always telling me how good looking i am and what a good sense of humour i have. So why the HELL cant i make it work for me?? Im a useless failure. ...
A. 23 August 2011: my friend is a virgin and she is 25 years old, but do you see her going around crying about it....No. When the time is right it will happen for you. Don't think you are the only 20 year old virgin. Come back and complain when you are 40 and a ... (read in full...)
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