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writes:Ok ..so..my new gf and I have had sex several times..she has a very small vagina..I'm an average size fellow..6 to 7 inches somewhere in there..it hurts her a lot..not the girth but the length..is there anything I do ...I would like to not have to be so careful..any ideas
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reader, Onieros +, writes (27 August 2011):
As a woman with a similar problem, let me just say that the suggestions involving positions are good. Also using your hand or her hands as a vagina extender. There's also the fact that vaginal intercourse isn't the end all be all of sex. Experiment outside the vag and have fun with it. Hands, toys, boobs, ass, etc. The less pressure there is on her to "perform" all the time, every time in that way, the more likely it is that she will relax and have less pain when vaginal penetration does come into play.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2011): You can use your fist, wrapped around your base, to prevent deep insertion. You can use positions that limit insertion (spoon, flat missionary, etc). Most women can accomodate 6 or 7 inches and more no problem if they are eased into it. She will most likely adjust. Guess you'll just have to practice
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reader, auntyR  +, writes (24 August 2011):
posistions!!!! here is a very good one for your problem. Both lay on your side as if u r going to spoon. She then puts one leg over you so you enter her from the side. This gives her control of how much of you can enter her. It's very erousing too, as you can both kiss and you can caress her breasts to add a little spice, not to mention you can stimulate her clit while penetrating her. Have a look on some sex info websites for other posistions that will make her sex life as enjoyable as it should be. Also buy extra lube and maybe have a lot more foreplay so she relaxes. good luck!
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (24 August 2011):
 More patience. Insert very slowly and just a bit at a time. Be sure that she is thoroughly turned-on and therefore lubricated (wet). This usually requires plenty of foreplay, which may include cunnilingus (licking her vulva and more). Generally speaking, any vagina can accommodate most any size guy, without additional lubes, if adequately aroused. Any additional lube, if required, should be water-based to prevent vaginal problems.
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