She made out with her ex and it turned me on!
Q. A week ago, my girlfriend of almost 2 years and I took a "break", which lasted three days. We both sort of agreed to the break after a series of little fights, though I was the main proponent of the break. We both said we love each other and want to ...
A. 7 September 2010: @Newbie31, I think you are right that she is not really wanting to make out with anyone else, which is why I would allow her to do it. I also think you are right that it is not the act of making out that turns me on but other things around it, i.e. ... (read in full...)
My boobs are small
Q. my boobs are a 30/32 AA i have started my period and they havent grown at all. i just want boobs because all my friends have big boobs and i am so jealous. i have ried chicken fillets. socks and even tissue ! please give me some advice !...
A. 20 February 2009: Try to be happy with your breasts no matter what size they are.
The only real alternative is breast implants, but are you sure you want to go that route? Try to learn to love your body for what it is. There are plenty of men who will love it too.... (read in full...)
Are guys vocal when they get pleasure?
Q. me and my boyfriend are both 14 nearly 15. last night i gave him oral sex and after about 6-7 minutes i gave up and started wanking him just licking up his penis occasionally. he ejaculated a small amount but im worried what he likes, as he just had ...
A. 20 February 2009: Ask him about it.
Personally I'm very quiet, and I have to consciously remember to tell my partner what I like.... (read in full...)
I don't think he should eat lunch with his co-worker, even if she is just a friend.
Q. My boyfriend of 6 months has been having lunch with a girl he works with. They only work at the same office one day a week and when that happens they ride together to Subway or Quiznos and eat together. He insists that they are simply friends and ...
A. 20 February 2009: Do you really want to tell him that he is not allowed to eat with 50% of the human race just because they are female? Guys and girls can be friends and just friends.
Also, as others have said, trust is key in any relationship. You are never go... (read in full...)
My g/f thinks it's weird when I cop a feel of her breasts a little, do other girls think the same?
Q. quick queston for all the girls out there: my gf thinks its weird that ill always want to randomly cop a feel on her breasts here and there. say for example we're laying down watching t.v and i notice shes not wearing a bra under her shirt, ill put ...
A. 20 February 2009: My GF doesn't have a problem with it. I've done it in the past randomly while cuddling, and I've also expressed how much I like doing it. "They just feel nice." haha.
Every girl is different, though. Try explaining to her that you like they way... (read in full...)
How do I stop myself from snooping?
Q. Put simply, I know my girlfriends password for her email and facebook accounts. I saw her type it in to her computer yesterday and memorized it as its only short. How do I stop myself from looking at her facebook? The temptation is so strong but...
A. 20 February 2009: As others have said, tell her you saw her type it in and know it, and that she should change it.
You might divert attention off yourself, by saying you're concerned that if you could get it that easily by accident, so could strangers and you don'... (read in full...)
Chance of pregnancy from this?
Q. If an underwear was ejaculated on with sperm then washed off with water and then a woman wears it, is there a chance she might get pregnant?...
A. 20 February 2009: It depends... if the sperm was left to dry before you or after washed it, 0% chance. If it was washed with water far above or below body temperature, and put on while wet, I'd give it a low chance.
Since I doubt the girl would put on wet underwea... (read in full...)
How can I "be there" more for her?
Q. How can I be there for my girlfriend? I go to school about an hour away from my girlfriend and we can't see each other that often. She feels lonely and that she has no one to talk to. I assured her that I am always there for her when she wants me...
A. 20 February 2009: Oh, also it might help to give her a few things to remind her of you... such as a sweatshirt/hoodie that you wear and has your smell on it, or a piece of jewelry like a necklace (does not have to be expensive) that she can wear all the time.... (read in full...)
How to prolong the climax?
Q. Okay I am about to have sex for the first time. I want to know if there's anything I can do to make myself not finish fast. Any advice would be great. Oh and yes I am being smart, I'm using a condom so don't worry about that. Thanks...
A. 20 February 2009: If you feel it building up, slow down or hold for a second. Don't wait until you are at the precipice before slowing down, though, then it's too late. Also you can think of turn-offs. Haha, for me thinking about the Ken doll with its smooth crotc... (read in full...)
How can I "be there" more for her?
Q. How can I be there for my girlfriend? I go to school about an hour away from my girlfriend and we can't see each other that often. She feels lonely and that she has no one to talk to. I assured her that I am always there for her when she wants me...
A. 20 February 2009: I'm in a long distance relationship (3 hour drive). We chat on AIM and text throughout the day, and usually a few short calls when both of us aren't busy, and then a longer call (10 to 50 mins) before bed. We also have webcam which we use in ... (read in full...)
He forgets about me when he is away
Q. Hi readers! I just need help on this situation right here: My boyfriend and i are in a long distance relationship, i'm very much in love with him and he's in love with me... Well atleast he tells me that everytime we talk. Now he's been currently ...
A. 19 February 2009: As others have said, Try doing what he does to you. Let HIM be the one to call/text you. Be hard to get a hold of for a few days. If he starts calling you more, trying to bridge the gap, then he cares about you. If you don't hear from him, or he ... (read in full...)
I read about sex all the time but actually doing it terrifies me!
Q. I am a virgin at 21. Am I a freak? I read erotic fiction books, own several toys and think about sex all the time but actually doing it terrifies me!please help....
A. 19 February 2009: Are you actually scared of it, or just extremely nervous? Being nervous is perfectly normal, you may feel extra pressure since you are older than some people that are not virgins. You just need to find the right person who you can be comfortable ... (read in full...)
Is my penis small or does size even matter at all?
Q. I am a 6' tall male i am slender/athletic. at times i feel like my penis is small but other times i think it is a good size. My penis size is around erect 6" long, 5 1/2" thick and flaccid 3 3/4" long, 4" thick. Is that small or does size really ...
A. 19 February 2009: First, you are slightly above average.
Some women care about size a lot. Some might refuse to date someone who wasn't the big enough for them.
Some women care, but not a lot. It won't be a deciding factor in a relationship.
Some women coul... (read in full...)
I snogged him and am now worried in case I have HIV!
Q. I am a virgin and worry and stress about things in general, also Stds, I recently met a guy and snogged him loads, I never had sex or anything but now I'm worried I've got HIV cause he isn't a virgin. ...
A. 18 February 2009: You are being a little paranoid.
First off... you don't have anything to worry about. It is extremely hard to catch AIDS from mouth-to-mouth contact. As others have said, it would require an open wound in the mouth.
That said, if you are worri... (read in full...)
I feel like a bad person for watching porn, how do I stop?
Q. Im a 22 year old female with religious values and am a virgin, and in March 08, a friend of mine jokingly told me to watch some porn, i laughed it off, i never really cared for it. but i got curious and saw it, was disgusted but then liked it, i ...
A. 18 February 2009: Most guys... almost all... look at porn at least from time to time. Plenty look at it many times a week. And plenty look at porn AND have a girlfriend. Guys see tons of perfect girls that way. Models with makeup, special lighting, etc... and yet ... (read in full...)
Is excessive masturbation the cause of his lack of love-making?
Q. Hi, I have a sex problem. My boyfriend of five months is unable to have sex with me. We get to the stage, past all the foreplay, and then he loses his erection. Sometimes he fails to get one at all. I hate to sound sex mad but the lack of "action"...
A. 17 February 2009: Only one way to find out... get him to stop masturbating for a few days and see if things work out better.
Also, is there a condom involved in this? Some guys have a problem with losing their erection when they put it on... it's somewhat common.... (read in full...)
How do I make my man really hard?
Q. I want him to become very hard and so he could be the happiest.. Any tips or ideas? I'm willing to do anything and i'm always in for something new! Cheers...
A. 17 February 2009: It varies from guy to guy. You've got to find what he likes by trying different things.
Try kissing/licking/sicking/biting his ears while making out. Try the same on his neck. Put your hands through his hair. Rake your nails across his back. Pu... (read in full...)
Lack of oral stimulation!
Q. dear cupid, my fiance and i have been together for 3 years now and have 2 kids. i love him to pieces,but, i cant get him to give me any oral stimulation.hes only done it 3 times since we have been together and i have not given him any any oral ...
A. 17 February 2009: Have you asked him to do it? If you have just hinted at it, it's possible he isn't getting your hints. Be explicit and tell him what you want.... (read in full...)
How do you know if a woman wants to have sex with you?
Q. how do you know if a woman really likes you and how do you know if she wants to have sex with you? ...
A. 17 February 2009: You can't ever really know until you try. If you like a girl, tell her and see how she responds back. Ask her out.
As for the sex, when you are being physical with her, there's a natural progression... she'll stop you if she doesn't want to keep ... (read in full...)
I feel like a bad person for watching porn, how do I stop?
Q. Im a 22 year old female with religious values and am a virgin, and in March 08, a friend of mine jokingly told me to watch some porn, i laughed it off, i never really cared for it. but i got curious and saw it, was disgusted but then liked it, i ...
A. 17 February 2009: Feeling guilty about making yourself feel good seems pretty silly.
Are you a good person in society? Do you do your work? Are you nice to people? God cares more about how you treat other people than about what you do in your spare time.
As long... (read in full...)
I don't want to be a turn off! Shave or no?
Q. this is for all the guys out there. do u prefer it wen a girl shaves down there or do u like the hair? neva had sex before and i guess i'd neva really thot of shaving till today. my b/f only commented once about it but he doesnt seem to really mind. ...
A. 17 February 2009: It's a personal preference for guys, though I think most would prefer shaved or at least trimmed. After your first time maybe you could ask him what he would like.
No the length of clit doesn't matter. Even if it did, what would you do about it... (read in full...)
When I ejaculate the fluid is very thin?!
Q. My fluid when i ejaculate is very thin and there isnt much compared to what you see in most porn films. Does this mean there is something wrong and if not then how do I help it?...
A. 17 February 2009: How many times a day do you do it? Generally when you do it a lot it becomes much thinner. I think I read somewhere that after 4 days not doing it, it will be back to full strength.... (read in full...)
Worried about the cigarette I smoked!
Q. hi I'm a 14 yr old male and i have a very serious question to ask ok i smoked 1 cigarette and feel really bad. I'll never do it again, it made me sick. Is this one cigarette going to stunt my growth or hurt my body in any other way. Please help i ...
A. 17 February 2009: One cigarette should not cause any lasting damage. Don't worry about it, but don't do it again.... (read in full...)
Domination in bed - any tips?
Q. ok i was just wondering.... i want to get into more domination like stuff with my boyfriend we both like being aggressive in bed and we need/ want to spice it up a little bit... i was wondering if anyone had any suggestions? fun toys costumes?... ...
A. 12 February 2009: Well domination is all about one person controlling the other. So the dominant one has to control the other, and tell them what to do. The submissive one might either obey their 'master' or try to resist/disobey. If the submissive one disobeys then ... (read in full...)
Domination in bed - any tips?
Q. ok i was just wondering.... i want to get into more domination like stuff with my boyfriend we both like being aggressive in bed and we need/ want to spice it up a little bit... i was wondering if anyone had any suggestions? fun toys costumes?... ...
A. 11 February 2009: Buy a pair of handcuffs.... (read in full...)
I'm sick and tired of carrying my husband
Q. Where do I start? My husband and I have been married only a few short months. He is twelve years older than I am. I am a very successful in my line of business and lately I feel like the work mule. I feel instead of a hug when I walk through ...
A. 10 February 2009: Almost every answer starts this way... Tell him how you feel. There is very little to nothing you can do to make things change by yourself. The only way you can get him to make big changes is by talking to him and getting him to agree. Maybe ... (read in full...)
How long do I finger my g/f to give her an orgasm?
Q. We want a bit more sparkle in are realationship, but dont want to have sex yet or my girlfreind doesnt want a lickout or doesnt want to give a blojob. We are both 15. We've been goin for 15months. I respect her alot and ive sugested sex but she seem...
A. 10 February 2009: It vastly depends on the girl. Some girls may never orgasm from you fingering them, while others may orgasm very quickly. Listen and watch her as you do it and use her reactions to know what she likes best. If she isn't giving you clues, ask her ... (read in full...)
Could my boyfriend be gay because he watches she-male videos?
Q. i`m 22 years old i have a 2 year old daughter and im 6 months pregnant and my boyfriends goes on porn alot but when i recentley check what videos hes been on it says chicks with dicks and shemales does that mean he could be gay?...
A. 9 February 2009: If there is a problem in your relationship, TALK TO HIM. There is nothing else you can do. Tell him how you feel.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend's porn makes me feel betrayed
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for around seven months, it is my longest relationship and it seems to have been going better than usual recently.I love him and am happy in the relationship. However, the topic of porn came up recently...
A. 9 February 2009: I agree with Cerberus, I please with you (and women in general), never once think that there is any competition between you and porn. There is no comparison. It's just something guys do that you have to learn to live with or ignore. Don't... (read in full...)
How can I be more aggressive?
Q. Hi. I have been with a girl for a long time now, and things have always been fine up until recently. Lately she's been saying that she needs more aggression from me, but I am not an aggressive person and I get nervous being aggressive around her ...
A. 9 February 2009: Possibly she is asking you to be more dominant... Try these: - When you are in bed, command her to do things (beg for you, spread her legs, whatever) - Hold her hands above her head while having sex. Some girls like to be held down. - See ... (read in full...)
Using a condom makes me lose my erection and it's happening every time!
Q. I'm a 24 years old guy and I have a 25 years old girlriend. Nowadays I'm going through a stupid funny thing which is becoming a very annoying thing. I had a very much normal erection but whenever I wore a condom and when I get ready to insert m...
A. 9 February 2009: I had this problem too... My first time ever, it was dark and late, and I was able to put it on without it going down, and had sex-- twice in fact. But then, the next 2 times we tried it on the futon, soon as the condom went on I went down. R... (read in full...)
Any way I can stop it from happening so fast?
Q. Hi When I have sex, I come so fast that it just kills the mood for me and my girlfriend as soon as we start to get into it. I’d like to let her enjoy it longer than I do now. It literally takes like 1-2 min for me to come. Is there anything I co...
A. 7 February 2009: If your second time you last 20 minutes you have nothing to worry about. Who cares if you are short your first time? It doesn't really matter as long as you can go again soon.... (read in full...)
My husband wants to act like my ex in bed!
Q. Greetings What do you say to this! My husband wanted me to pretend like he was my ex while we were having sex. And my husband said it was harmless fun role play. And I said Role play is nurse/doctor, cops/robbers, etc. Not the ex. I told husb...
A. 7 February 2009: I doubt he is insecure about you and your ex... more likely he is excited about the thought of you being with your ex. Some men get off on other men having sex with their wife. It is possible he is too afraid of your reaction to express that, and so ... (read in full...)
6 year boyfriend, an angry drunk. Should I leave or talk it out like adults?
Q. Okay so i have been with my boyfriend for 6 years we have 2 kids together and i love him so much. he gets me what i want and what my kids need. So part of the problem is he started to drink everyday since he lost his job, he turns to a whole ...
A. 5 February 2009: You should talk to him. Let him know you are really worried about his drinking. If he can't stop by himself he should get help. It sounds like he has become an alcoholic, and he may need outside help. He may be depressed from losing his job and has ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend turns off the radio in the car while I'm driving!
Q. Hi it's a petty relationship question, but I just want to know if I'm off base here. Scenario: I'm driving in my car with my boyfriend(he is the passenger) and I happen to be listening to my favorite radio station. All of a sudden he leans over a...
A. 5 February 2009: How does he feel about your music? If he doesn't like it and you are always listening to it in the car, I can see how he might want to turn it off once in a while, though it was a little rude not to ask.
Talk to him... if he really doesn't ... (read in full...)
Does he want me just for sex?
Q. Hi I am 27 years old, and it has happened to me many times, that guys only want to have sex with me, I am very atractive but I also have a great career, i am profetional and finantially stable, i am also very selective to pick my partners, so I can ...
A. 4 February 2009: It's really not possible to tell, in the end. You could wait 6 months without sex, but maybe he's willing to wait for the payoff.
If you really like him and you think he really like you (not just your body), you can't let these thoughts get in t... (read in full...)
Should I wait 5 years for him to leave his wife?
Q. I have been seeing this man for almost three years now. He is perfect. He is kind, caring considerate, attentive, loving, great in the sack the problem is he is married. He has a child from the previous marriage and states he can't leave his new ...
A. 4 February 2009: What makes you think he won't leave YOU for another woman. He was willing to do it once already. He is NOT perfect if he is cheating on his wife.... (read in full...)
Odds of pregnancy when on pill and withdrawal?
Q. Last weekend I had unprotected sex (no condom) with my girlfriend. She is on the pill, and I pulled out before I came, but the possibility of pregnancy is still a little worry. I was just wondering if anyone knows the odds of pregnancy if the girl ...
A. 4 February 2009: Thanks for your replies!... (read in full...)
Odds of pregnancy when on pill and withdrawal?
Q. Last weekend I had unprotected sex (no condom) with my girlfriend. She is on the pill, and I pulled out before I came, but the possibility of pregnancy is still a little worry. I was just wondering if anyone knows the odds of pregnancy if the girl ...
A. 4 February 2009: Just to be clear... failure rates are per year (as on wikipedia), not per-go?... (read in full...)
Where can we go outdoors?
Q. I know it says 13-15 but I am 17 I thought you had to be a certain age to join this. Me n my boyfriend do a few sexual things but not sex as yet. We have only fingered and wanked. How do I really drive him crazy outside as we cnt be indoors because ...
A. 4 February 2009: Have you considered using a car? Park it somewhere private.... (read in full...)
Could my boyfriend be gay because he watches she-male videos?
Q. i`m 22 years old i have a 2 year old daughter and im 6 months pregnant and my boyfriends goes on porn alot but when i recentley check what videos hes been on it says chicks with dicks and shemales does that mean he could be gay?...
A. 4 February 2009: It could just be a fetish. I wouldn't even bring it up unless there are problems in your relationship or the bedroom.... (read in full...)
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