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Any way I can stop it from happening so fast?

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Question - (6 February 2009) 9 Answers - (Newest, 7 February 2009)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi

When I have sex, I come so fast that it just kills the mood for me and my girlfriend as soon as we start to get into it. I’d like to let her enjoy it longer than I do now. It literally takes like 1-2 min for me to come.

Is there anything I could do to fix this problem?

Appreciate the answers

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A male reader, sonny0732 United States +, writes (7 February 2009):

sonny0732 agony auntdude you never heard the saying "first one aint free"? if you have probs with lasting a long time try "rubbing" one out before you have sex.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2009):

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alright guys, thanks alot for everyones reply, i guess i will keep my strategy.

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A male reader, aman United States +, writes (7 February 2009):

If your second time you last 20 minutes you have nothing to worry about. Who cares if you are short your first time? It doesn't really matter as long as you can go again soon.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2009):

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"ArmyMedic" this is exactly what i do, i do alot of foreplay at first, and then after i come, i change the condom and go again. the second time i dont come for like at least 20 min or so. which is good, but id just like to have that first one go for that long if possible.

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A male reader, MyDestiny United States +, writes (7 February 2009):

MyDestiny agony aunt like atleast once or twice ever day...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2009):

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and " MyDestiny " how much is "masterbating alot more " ?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2009):

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Thanks a lot guys, we have been doing it for a long time now, so I do try and control it at first but I just can’t help it. She like it hard so if I tone it down its not gona be as pleasurable for her, is there a safe pill or something I could take to slow it down? lol sorry if I’m making such a big deal if it’s not.

Thanks for the replies again.

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (7 February 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntMake it about her, lots of foreplay. and if cum, put on a fresh condom and go again!

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A male reader, MyDestiny United States +, writes (6 February 2009):

MyDestiny agony aunt try masterbating alot more and beying intimite withher more often...the more you do it, the better it gets, the better you'll be able to control it

and when you're intimate with her and you feel like you're about to climax, juss tone it tone a little, go a little slower and change ossitions...

as they say..practice makes perfect..

gudd luck bro..you'll be fine

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