Why is my height so unattractive?
Q. I have been rejected by hundreds of girls offline and thousands of girls online and have lost heart and all sense of my 'physical' self-esteem. It is very difficult to remain confident after that. My track record keeps me from trying now as I have ...
A. 4 September 2013: I feel short at 5.8... and it kind of gets me down... but I've got a shorter mate who has got a stunner of a Mrs who is taller than him... (read in full...)
Do I give this girl another chance? I don't want to waste years of precious history!
Q. Ive had a girl friend for 7 years and I am still quite in love with her. roughly 4 years ago we broke up as she wanted space and wanted to see someone else for a while Typical “Grass is greener on the other side” situation which I totally agreed o...
A. 21 August 2013: I know how you feel.. had a similar thing happen to me.. call me old fashioned but if you love love somebody.. you.don't wanna be with anybody else.. I wouldn't mate . Your setting yourself up again.... (read in full...)
Is being tan really considered to be more beautiful?
Q. So lately, everyone has been commenting on how pale I am. I mean its the summer time and I work as a lifeguard so you'd think I'd be super tan but nope, I have to wear a lot of sunscreen and when I don't, I get badly burned very easily and the burn ...
A. 20 August 2013: Be what you wanna be.. to fair I don't like tanned girls that much.. and prefer pale girls so each to their own... (read in full...)
What are the chances of me finding a man who has never had a one night stand or casual sex?
Q. What are the chances of me finding a man who has never had a one night stand or casual sex? No offence to anyone here but I find that kind of behaviour revolting and it makes me see them as a lesser. I'm 26 now and this worries me. I was appalled ...
A. 5 August 2013: I've never had a one night stand, and the thought of it disgusts me too, sometimes I feel that I should of been born in the 50's . I am Like you trying to find a woman that hasn't slept about, or had flings up town. And I'm 25 so on the plus side... (read in full...)
If a guy 'likes' a photo of a woman in a bikini, does that mean he likes the woman?
Q. This is likely just me over-thinking things again, but a little input would be lovely anyway :) So, a social media question - I recently put a photo of me in a bikini at the beach on Facebook (which I found tremendously difficult to do. I've had...
A. 31 July 2013: Lads can like photos for different reasons.. she looks nice, she looks cute, Aww bless her etc.. take it a good thing you got likes :)
It doesn't mean they fancy/like you when they do.. but go for it with him don't get drunk at the party be... (read in full...)
After a night of passion he told me he isn't looking for a relationship but wants to continue meeting up for sex. I was embarrassed and hurt so I liead and said I wanted the same thing but I don't.
Q. I had a night of passion with a regular in the bar where i work. He is very nice and i really liked him. Then i met him again twice more. Im so embarassed because he said to me this morning that he hopes i dont expect anyting from him as he doesnt ...
A. 30 July 2013: He sounds like an arse..3 times then told you..
Like people said above you made a mistake.. don't beat yourself up about it hun, but simply say , sorry I can't be bothered with this I've got other things to do .. failing that every time he ... (read in full...)
Does my ex have feelings for me, or is he just messing with my head?
Q. So this question is about my ex. We dated about 2 years ago for a very short period of time. We went to the same school for 4 years and remained friends after dating. He didn't seem that into me and we were both young. We would still text and flir...
A. 30 July 2013: Sorry to be blunt.. I read the first few paragraphs and thought what an absolute Dick!! He is talking, feeling you up, kissing you when ever he wants.. hun if you want someone you go for them when ever you can. Also your not with him and his ... (read in full...)
Played or too clingy?
Q. Am I just being played or am I clingy . Right I met this girl at work a month and half ago, she was new.. we got chatting on email and she seemed keen to meet up, she wanted to go a rave I was going to, I invited her but said we should go on a d...
A. 22 July 2013: Thanks guys for your help, back to the drawing board then lol... (read in full...)
Would writing to him help me get over the breakup?
Q. My ex of 4 years dumped me out of nowhere. It's just too harsh for me then. I keep myself busy and move on and I think I'm doing better though I still cried to bed some nights. I think I forgive him in my heart and wish him the best. Does anyone ...
A. 18 July 2013: Hun no it won't, it will just repeat the pain process for you, you go through anger,hurt,denial,forgive and a few more,but if you get in contact your just repeating the process of these emotions, just focus on your from now on please.... (read in full...)
Why is it the people that you find VERY attractive never feel the same way towards you, yet the people you don't find attractive obsess over you?
Q. Why is it the people that you find VERY attractive never feel the same way towards you, yet the people you don't find attractive obsess over you? Does anyone else get this? ...
A. 6 July 2013: Yes it does and its frustrating..then when I do meet a girl I find attractive and she does find me attractive.. there is no conversation and I struggle to keep interest ha. I hope the lady above is right!... (read in full...)
How should I act around my ex who just finished our relationship?
Q. We were together for a year and a month, a few days before our anniversary (a month ago) he told me he was planning on ending it, he came to mine we both cried he said he hated the arguing and I promised it would stop, he said I'll give it 2 months ...
A. 6 July 2013: I had a thought and just to say I might be completely wrong on saying it sound like he's met someone else as I said my own experiences..he might be putting on a brave face because he knows it's best. but you do need to just focus on you now.. have ... (read in full...)
How should I act around my ex who just finished our relationship?
Q. We were together for a year and a month, a few days before our anniversary (a month ago) he told me he was planning on ending it, he came to mine we both cried he said he hated the arguing and I promised it would stop, he said I'll give it 2 months ...
A. 6 July 2013: Look I'm not gonna lie, it sounds to me like he has met another girl.. by him saying he only loves you and there is nobody else and also him not wanting you to go to the party.. he texts you on the night for either 2 reasons, 1) being he feels ... (read in full...)
I ejaculate immediately after penetration, am I a virgin? What do I do?
Q. i dont know if i should say i broke my virginity or not because each time i try to hav sex i ejaculate the moment i put on a condom. I started having sex 3 months ago and in most cases i ejaculate immediatly after penetration.am scared to make l...
A. 6 July 2013: Erm I can't remember the actual name but do you dry hump, I had it happen. Once and I done that and as soon as the girl touched me that was it ha.. but its just nerves mate.. main suggestion masterbate a few times before you meet her.. Erm I find ... (read in full...)
I have strong feelings for two women, not sure which way to turn
Q. I've been with a girl (Lisa) since Uni, for just over 7 years. She's really a great girl who I have semi moved in with. She's a country girl who's quite shy but made the first move on me back when we started, and from that point on things were gre...
A. 6 July 2013: You're being unfair to Lisa, personally you need time away from both of them.. but come on dude you've snogged this other girl a few times that's not at all good.... (read in full...)
My ex dumped me and hasn't been in touch since, but I miss him and want to contact him
Q. I was with my ex for four years. He dumped me two months ago. I was mad and hated him the first month, but I started missing him like crazy recently. He never contacted me after the break up, never asked what I'm up to or how I am. I don't have the ...
A. 6 July 2013: NO !! DON'T DO IT!! I went through that crap for nearly 2 years and you know why. Because I kept in contact with her and its killed me, you go through stages on a break up.. anger, grief ie missing them, denial. And some others ha but if you get in ... (read in full...)
What's up with me and my friend? Am I gay?
Q. I am caught up in a situation which I'm confused about. Basically I was married and my husband left me since then i have got really close to my best friend (who is a girl) she has a boyfriend that treats her like crap and they constantly argue and ...
A. 6 July 2013: How long was the split with your husband and was he close with you in a friendly way, personally you answered your own question by saying you don't find doing anything sexually with her interesting.. maybe your missing some of the things your ... (read in full...)
Should I pay towards my girlfriend's second holiday this year despite other important financial commitments
Q. become less dramatic after some close calls in terms of our relationship that neither of us want to repeat. In short, we’re able to deal with and adapt to each other’s dominant personalities and the problems they produce between us much better. ...
A. 6 July 2013: No stick your ground mate, I think she is acting a bratt.. shoudnt she want to go on holiday with you? Spend it together I mean..
But yeah your makin it worse for yourself with the sky diving thing.. then again its your money ha ... (read in full...)
She asked me to take her home but then wound up blowing me off. I thought it was rude!
Q. I met a girl in a bar last week and we hit it off - I am 25 and she is 22. I gave her my number and she got in touch with me. We had dinner on Tuesday and she said it was the nicest date she ever had. I stayed at her house after and took to work...
A. 6 July 2013: If I arranged to meet a girl, and when I got their she said oh its ok i can get a lift off a mate, I would think oh right thanks for letting me drive here for no reason.. but did you tell her that night you was on your way? Also if I met a girl at a ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend dumped my because I wouldn't add her as a friend on Facebook.
Q. My Girlfriend dumped me because I wouldn't add her as my friend on Facebook. I don't understand what everyone's obsession over Facebook is. I like to keep my private life private. I think she is just too jealous. I don't feel I should have to add ...
A. 6 July 2013: How long was you dating and how old is she? I feel it isn't the only reason she ended it she either feels you are ashamed or embassrd by her or indeed she feels you may have somethin to hide.. in all fairness you prob should off added her to make ... (read in full...)
How can I show him I am interested without appearing too eager?
Q. I met a guy last Friday at a bar.. we had mutual friends so we chatted - at one point he even implied i was too pretty to be at the club and asked if i was there with my boyfriend. When I said no we continued to chat and at the end of the night he ...
A. 6 July 2013: In my rules if you sent the last message, he should reply and visa versa if he sent the last message.. me as a lad I don't want to. Chase too much for 2 reasons 1 being top eager and 2 I don't want to feel a Pratt.. not all lads like a chase... (read in full...)
He does not trust me and always accuses me of cheating! And advice on how to change this pls?
Q. Hey guys, so my boyfriend of about almost two years and I for the most part do pretty great. The problem is he has had a pretty bad experience with one of his ex girlfiends cheating on him now he is almost always accusing me of cheating when I'm not ...
A. 6 July 2013: In relationships they say the one that does the cheating is the one who accuses the other, I had a gf of four years who always thought I would cheat and I never really had girl mates and if I did she got jealous, anyway I trusted her with my heart, ... (read in full...)
Why do people think that women are more emotional in relationships, more clingy, needy and attached after sex?
Q. Why do people think that women are more emotional in relationships, more clingy, needy and attached after sex? Why do women have this stereotype when so often I see men becoming engrossed with their female partners after a sexual relationship has ...
A. 6 July 2013: Well they do say women fall in love quicker than males so that's maybe why BUT personally when a man falls in love its a deeper love because we take longer to do so.... (read in full...)
Do all women play the chase game?
Q. Do all girls/women play the hot or cold game, or indeed like the Chase? I feel its cropped up a few times where I've had a girl interested, giving hints then they go cold? I must admit I don't strike when the irons hot so I'm missing chances...
A. 6 July 2013: Cheers cheers guys for the answers, .... (read in full...)
I am lost and just wandering through life
Q. Hello this is a typical story but I'm feeling lost and like I'm just wandering through life.. about 3 years back I split up with my first love. We was 2gether for 5 years. I did love her but didn't feel I could look after .. she was wealthy I ...
A. 18 May 2013: Can I get free therapy or help for this? I'm getting sick of punishing myself.. maybe it would help.. thanks again.... (read in full...)
I am lost and just wandering through life
Q. Hello this is a typical story but I'm feeling lost and like I'm just wandering through life.. about 3 years back I split up with my first love. We was 2gether for 5 years. I did love her but didn't feel I could look after .. she was wealthy I ...
A. 18 May 2013: Thanks guys.. yeah I know I b^^^^ed up on something special, but I did push her away, but I did try after , I spent 6 months chasing her after I found out, she kept sayin she loved me and wanted to get rid of him but was scared lol.. but she still ... (read in full...)
I am lost and just wandering through life
Q. Hello this is a typical story but I'm feeling lost and like I'm just wandering through life.. about 3 years back I split up with my first love. We was 2gether for 5 years. I did love her but didn't feel I could look after .. she was wealthy I ...
A. 16 May 2013: Sorry it cut me off, basically I feel as though I give up on an oppOrtunity to being happy, or being a better person. Because when I was with I didn't feel I could give her the best.. I feel its a chance I won't get again.... (read in full...)
I love him but we're not on the same page about marriage and kids
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for five years now and I love him very much. But we started on the topic of the future and he dropped the bombshell that although he wants to same things as I do, he wants them on a completely different time scale to ...
A. 13 May 2013: Do you want kids? Or do you want kids with this chap? When I was in a long term relationship my partner wanted kids, and our own house. Unfortunately I didn't feel i could financially give her what she deserved, also I couldn't raise a kid as I ... (read in full...)
What's a good way to make friends?
Q. Hey everyone. This may sound silly but what's a good way to make some friends? I'm only 18 and I've never really had many friends. Some of the friends I did have are no longer my friends. I go to a community college and nobody seems to really talk ...
A. 13 May 2013: Be friendly, and polite.. more importantly be yourself don't feel you have to adapt or change.. like the other person said join clubs, ones that interest you which in turn means you will meet people who share similar interests.. I've stook with ... (read in full...)
I can't seem to meet another girl I like. Is it a confidence thing?
Q. I had a long term relationship end about 4 years ago. It ended not the best, and I was silly enough to stay in contact with the ex. Anyway I know she has changed and also I couldn't see her the same again. But I can't seem to meet another girl...
A. 25 April 2013: Thanks guys for the input.. maybe one day I will be able to move forward. Thanks again!... (read in full...)
Over three years and I still can't get her out of my mind?
Q. Hello, right this is an ongoing thing really, about 3-4 years ago a long relationship of 5 years ended pretty bad. We hadn't been talking for about 3 months because I locked my self away because I didn't feel I could give her what she deserved. ...
A. 28 April 2012: Heya aunt honesty, thanks for answering, I guess I spent a lot of time thinking we was meant to be, because she couldn't resist keeping in contact with me, and also visa versa. ( I'm not usually a SAP into. Them things ) but I read somewhere the ... (read in full...)
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