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Archived questions from: July, 2016 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

How do I stop feeling so alone when every single friend is coupled up and I have no family?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3038 days ago

31 July 2016 (M) - I have two different friendship groups who I socialise with regularly plus a few friends who I see individually on a regular basis rather than as part of any group. I have known all of them for between 4 and 10 years. They are all aged between ...

Is she just an attention seeker? A flirt? Where so I draw the line with her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3038 days ago

31 July 2016 (M) - Where do you draw the line when you're a very flirty person and like the attention? What I mean is my work colleague is a very flirty person, the touchy feeling type. But where do you draw the line without making the person your flirting with g...

I don't think I can hide my feelings for my step brother much more. We are not blood related. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3023 days ago

31 July 2016 (F) - When I was 8 years old my parents divorced. Me and my sister decided to live with my mum. My dad met his ex girlfriend and they fell in love again, when I was 9 she introduced us to her children. Lets call them N (he is 11 now) W (he is 17 now) and ...

What are signs a girl wants me to move the conversation to asking her out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3039 days ago

31 July 2016 (M) - How do you know if a woman is into you? I'm a 23 yr old virgin and have had one girlfriend only. It lasted two years. Shyness/lack of confidence gets in my way. Whether I think I'm too short/not good looking/charismatic enough. When...

How do I approach my husband about his flirting and asking women for photos?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3038 days ago

31 July 2016 (F) - My husband has a history of massive flirting with the opposite sex. This was taken to another level once upon a time where I secretly checked his phone and he asked this particular girl for some sexy photos of her a**e. (Bearing in mind she'd al...

Will moving to another state bring me to a happier place than all the drama I've endure here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3039 days ago

31 July 2016 (F) - Hey I need some advice Lately I've been going through alot of bad things. I know it's life and everyone goes through things some point. But I feel like it's only me at the moment. I'm extremely frustrated!!!! I've never been this frustrated bef...

He demonstrated flakiness in the past. Yet now he's given me his number? Can I trust him, this time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3038 days ago

30 July 2016 (F) - The first time he was supposed to call me after he gets off work at 3pm to finalize our plans but I didn't hear from him untill 10:00pm, something had came up on his end. He apologize profusely and asked how he can make it up to me. Subsquently,he...

Is it fair that I don't want my boyfriend to go drinking with his female colleagues?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3039 days ago

30 July 2016 (F) - Hey guys :) so I've boyfriend for 6 years now, we are usually very happy, and we've been living together for 1 year. Neither of us go out drinking a lot (we are both very homely). Well recently boyfriend started a new office job, and his team has...

Why do so many men believe they have a right to sex without a condom?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3035 days ago

30 July 2016 (F) - I'm sorry if this comes across as a rant but I'm really annoyed at the moment and looking to hear opinions around whether I've been unlucky or if what I'm experiencing is the norm. Why do the men I meet seem to think it's their right to get to ...

How can I stop my trust issues from a past breakup from ending my new relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3037 days ago

30 July 2016 (F) - I had a really bad break up with my ex, and I'm worried the damage it caused me will end in me sabotaging my new relationship. The relationship ended by my then boyfriend of 6 years bringing home a girl he managed at work. I found them curle...

What's his problem? My father is rude and abrasive to me. Yet treats my sister with respect and helpfulness?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3040 days ago

29 July 2016 (F) - I am a young adult still living at home with my parents. I get along with my mother, she is like my best friend and a wonderful mother and she sees what my father has been doing to me and her. My father is just horrible to me for no reason. I ha...

Its come down to my parents or her...whom do I chose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3041 days ago

28 July 2016 (M) - I have been betrayed by people around me all the time. There haven't been many people who supported me. My mother was sometimes abusive towards me (hitting mainly) during my childhood. I was always scared to be in a relationship due to my trust ...

Is his attitude cause for concern?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3041 days ago

28 July 2016 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 18 months or so now and having some doubts about our future together. I currently am stuck renting accommodation with very little money to save each month but my boyfriend owns his own place. We recently had a c...

His ex got engaged just yesterday. Since they were still on social media together, is her engagemet likely to bother him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3042 days ago

27 July 2016 (F) - Hi Ive been with my boyfriend 2 years, when we first got together, he had only recently broken up with his ex, they were together 10 months. They still have each other added on social media but as far as i know they dont talk. She got enga...

What are some good tips and ideas to help get started on repairing the trust I broke with my husband when I cheated?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3039 days ago

27 July 2016 (F) - I have cheated on my husband and I told him about it, it broke him completely and he is just hanging on by a thread with what little piece of heart he has left. He feels that our whole marriage of 2 years has been a lie because I broke that vow a...

My married BF says I worry too much that he is going to be unfaithful to me. Is it all my fault?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 3022 days ago

27 July 2016 (F) - Hi. I've been dating a married man for 3 years now. We have incredible sex together and lots of fun. We get along very well and are sexually perfect for each other. I care a lot for him. He cares for me. However, my insecurity issues ...

Major trust issues. I feel that if I like someone, that I'll get disappointed. How should I address these trust issues?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3043 days ago

27 July 2016 (F) - Hi there. I am in my early 20s. I have this bad fear of men and a fear of liking someone, more of an attachment. Before, I'd thought that it was a phase that I was going through and I'll get it over with but nothing seems to change as I grew int...

Why do men act the way they do ? Not replying? Changing plans at last minute?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3043 days ago

26 July 2016 (F) - Im hoping a few men will reply to this. I want to know why men do and say things the way they do . If a woman asks a basic question like how you doing fancy meeting up next week ? and the man has seen the message but doesnt reply and its been 5 d...

Is there anything wrong with liking and crushing for a cousin? My cousin is hot..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3041 days ago

26 July 2016 (M) - so I have this problem i don't know if it wrong or not but , i knew i had a cousin, but never knew how she looked like. Later she went to my college and saw her , but i didn't know she was my cousin, and well nobody told me or showed me a picture ...

I do love him, but was I right to break up with this man who is childish and one sided in his behaviour towards me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3045 days ago

25 July 2016 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over 6 years and he recently broke up with me. He has a total of 6 kids and I have only 1, all of his kids are grown except for 2 whose ages are 16 and 9. He gets them every other weekend, so I thought I would ...

I feel we have a blessed life. Yet due to his responses I ask, am I married to a narcissist?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3044 days ago

25 July 2016 (F) - I am wondering if I am married to a narcissist? I have been with my husband for ten years and I have never cried so much in my life than I have in these ten years. When someone says you are lucky to have the wife you have or your wife is bea...

Porn and masturbation and the ex. How can I raise these issues with him with it escalating to his usual angry response of, none of your business?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3016 days ago

25 July 2016 (F) - My bf have been together for 4 years on and on, mostly just seeing each other on the weekends. With in those 4 years I have been on my edge with him knowing he Jacks off every morning watching porn or some sort activities with porn on his computer...

Does my obliging nature cause women to think I'm too boring a guy, for them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3044 days ago

25 July 2016 (M) - Am I boring in relationships, I like going out dancing to live bands, taking walks in parks, going shopping,going to movies, holding hands, nice places to go eat, I like cooking, if a woman needs help at her place, I can do a lot when it comes to ...

Did he really want to date me? Or is it the cable that he wanted to watch? How do I hint that I want to go out with him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3044 days ago

24 July 2016 (F) - Help .... I'm dating a guy who only wants to sit on my sofa and watch tv... How do I hint to him that I want to go out ??? We have been dating a month I have known him for years he is a friend of a cousin , in one month we have only gone out 3 ...

I like my best friend. Should I tell him I have feelings for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3038 days ago

24 July 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid, There is this guy i like. I have known him for a long time. I have had feelings for him for awhile. The thing is that i dont know if i should tell him or not. I think he likes me but im not sure... Can you please help me? And it is also ...

Why am I undecided about the sort of guy I'd like?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3045 days ago

24 July 2016 (F) - Hi Agony Aunts, I really need your help. I'm about to be a sophomore in college and I'm so unsure about what I want when it comes to guys. I feel as if all of my friends have had hookups and seem so sure of themselves when it comes to sexual ...

Has his interest in me lessened? Or has he just become used to dating me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3046 days ago

24 July 2016 (F) - Hi everyone, Just need some dating advice please. (Backstory) I have been seeing a guy for about 2 months.. Everything was going well, he texted me daily and we go on a date usually every Friday night. So after 2 months we had sex and everything w...

How can I best manage my (someyimes) desire to cross dress? I

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3047 days ago

23 July 2016 (M) - I'll start off by telling you I'm a crossdresser (I think). My life seems to be in a loop where I go through phases of wanting to dress up 24/7 and then phases when I don't even think about clothes or being feminine. I feel really comfortable ...

I only attract men who focus on my physical appearance. How do I change this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3045 days ago

23 July 2016 (F) - I've never dated, and it makes me insecure that I might not be good enough for dating. I'm a very attractive girl, and everyone loves my looks, I had 3 guys purposed for me this year, and it's just because of my looks. Don't get me wrong but, I hate ...

Cheating. How do I respond to this? I really loved this girl, and was going to propose to her

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3045 days ago

23 July 2016 (M) - Well me and my gf are both 26 years old and have been with each other for the past 4 years. Met her in my last year of College and have been with her since. We started living together about 3 months of getting together and everything was lovely, ...

How should I tell my boyfriend about this kiss with a girl while I was drunk?? I feel so guilty

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3044 days ago

23 July 2016 (F) - Hi, I am seeing someone for the past year(my boyfriend)but yesterday I stupidly got drunk and kissed a girl nothing more than a kiss and she was cool about it said it's not a big deal and it was obvious that we are both straight cuz I felt nothing ...

What help is available for a man who feels "lost"? Loving wife and family, and yet I feel so very alone and isolated

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3044 days ago

23 July 2016 (M) - I am at the apex of my career. I have a wife who loves me and three great kids. Everyone sees a picture that is so far from what I feel inside. I feel increasing disconnected from everyone and everything. I have no one whom I can ask for help, or...

Job centre compliance officer meeting. Has anyone else ever been in the same situation? Think the ex may have maliciously tried to undermine me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3048 days ago

22 July 2016 (F) - hi everyone im a single parent to 2 young children i split up with there dad as he was useless and didnt bother with them i received a letter from the dwp to go for a meeting at the local jobcentre in 2 weeks time it was from a compliance office...

How many times can I keep bringing this to his attention before he gets that he's hurting me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2954 days ago

22 July 2016 (F) - I've been going out with my b/f for 3 years. He makes plans to do things with me then changes the plans if something else comes up. He'll say I don't do it on purpose but I feel like i'm only good enough if something else doesn't come up. When I ...

Should I be worried about my boyfriend's comment to his female friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3048 days ago

22 July 2016 (F) - Should I be worried about my boyfriend's comment to his female friend?. They work in the same place. He did a shift before she started work. He had done something wrong and she had to sort the problem out. It was some mistake he made while working....

Could this be the end of our marriage ?.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3045 days ago

22 July 2016 (F) - I love my husband. We've been together for almost 15 years. We are in our late 30's now and don't have any kids (we both agree on that). We have weathered many storms (financial difficulties, moving away from our country of origin...) and s...

Should I ask him what's happening, and if it's just sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3048 days ago

22 July 2016 (F) - I started seeing a guy in September last year. We do work together and have done for a few years and always get on. Another colleague told me that this guy quite liked me so we started talking and went on a couple of dates and started seeing e...

Was it heat of the moment, or serious?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3045 days ago

22 July 2016 (F) - Brief description... My FWB and I bought feelings for each other. We have both been working a lot of conflicting hours. He asked me to be his and I thought it was a joke. We took FWB off the table. It can't work NSA if feelings are tied into it...

Is it wrong that my distant cousin and I share passionate times together? She has a Bf.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3048 days ago

21 July 2016 (M) - I love my distant cousin. We have made love and it feels like the most beautiful thing I have ever done in my life. I don't even feel guilty about it. I have had meaningless sex with other girls before but with her its just amazing and I cuddle her ...

How I get back to enjoying my favourite activity of fellatio, because currently, I gag when I try it ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3048 days ago

21 July 2016 (F) - Ok first is I have been with my fiance for going on 5 yrs, will get married in 2018. I have been previously married, and the reason I say this is I love the taste of cum. My previous husband was very sweet and tasted so good I can handle swallowi...

Haven't integrated into this new area. Should I move back home or stick it out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3049 days ago

21 July 2016 (F) - Hi, I moved to from one county to another to be with my boyfriend 9 months ago and I'm feeling a little lost. Since being here, i've found it hard to make freinds, mostly becuase I don't feel there's a great deal here that I want to get invol...

Does he really not realize he was wrong to take off without coming over my house ? Does he believe his own lies?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3049 days ago

20 July 2016 (F) - I have been dating a guy for a month and 1/2 who told me right from the start he is bipolar. At least once a week he will do something such as make plans with me and then just go off with somebody else and not even call me to let me know. He wil...

Recently found out about a fling my Bf had. Is it wrong to want to know these things?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3051 days ago

20 July 2016 (F) - I recently found out my boyfriend had a fling with a girl on holiday not long after we started going out. We had been together for a couple of months, and we were still in the early stages of our relationship. We have been together for 3 y...

I had a crush on my Teacher while at School. Should I tell him about that crush when we meet for a catchup?.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3050 days ago

20 July 2016 (F) - I had a crush on my Teacher while at School. I recently came across his Facebook page and added him as a friend and we started chatting online. What have I been doing since I left School, (ten years ago). He is in his 50's now and still as han...

How can I find someone else at my age? Why is she ripping my family apart ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3051 days ago

19 July 2016 (F) - I think my husband of 12 years is having an affair. Myself and my hubby are in the same job but work at different locations. One of our colleagues told me she was concerned about how much help and time he was spending with a client. Anytime s...

He's shy. Was he hinting towards going out together and wanted me to take the hint?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3050 days ago

19 July 2016 (F) - This shy guy has a major crush on me. We don't talk much because he gets nervous talking to me. So One day while nervously talking to me he suddenly bring up the food topic ...telling me about his favorite Mexican food he gets from this Mexica...

Previously I messed up. What should I do differently this time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3051 days ago

19 July 2016 (M) - Hello. My story is pretty simple. I messed up. Bad. I was with my woman for 6+ years, since we were sophomores in high school. Truth be told I cheated on her. Why? For the longest time I felt like I didn't matter. Like even the littlest things ...

What needs to be done? I am so ashamed. Should I hold back from going into detail about all the online sites I visited?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3046 days ago

19 July 2016 (M) - Hello! so I have this problem. I've been with my girlfriend for going on 6 months, I really and truly care for her. I've gotten close to not only her but her family! She left for Costa Rica a month ago and since then we are alright but my t...

My close friends are saying he doesn't like me....what do you think ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3051 days ago

19 July 2016 (F) - I work for a big retail food company. I have a shy male supervisor who has a crush on me .He smiles at me and stares at me, notices little changes in me , gets jealous when guys talk to me gets all nervous and blushy around me but very talkativ...

Were his family opposed to me? Or did he just want me for one thing? We broke up but he said we could still be FWB.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3051 days ago

19 July 2016 (F) - Hi, I met this guy nearly 2 years ago, we were really good friends. He then became flirty with me and I had an attraction to him, but then he said we could just be fwb I guess I couldn't go through with this idea and we agreed to continue being fr...