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writes:I broke up with my boyfriend of 9 months a month and a half ago. I guess you could say... I fell out of love. I was miserable, unhappy. Kisses and hugs felt... absolutely empty. I wanted to stay to make him happy but I started reverting back to feeling too distressed. So I ended it.He wont stop texting and calling me still yet and begging to see me. Now we broke up for a short period about 2-3 months before breaking up officially. During this period I became friends with a guy I met at my nephews birthday party. We've been talking for a long time and the break up has nothign to do with him. But recently we've started to become extremely close. I'm afraid I'm letting things move too fast in our relationship but... it doesnt feel wrong. My ex was my opposite in everyway. This one is like me... just different in other ways. But I'm also 19, he's 23 with a 3 year old daughter and an ex wife. I'm not sure if I'm getting myself into something I should be worried about. Though i absolutely love his adorable daughter. I love kids.But all in all... I'm twisted because my ex wont leave me alone. no matter what I tell him. I argue and I fight and he wont leave me alone. I will agree to be friends but... he's making it hard to be friends. Also this guy is my nephews uncle. Yes.He's my nephews mommas half little brother. So no blood relation.I'm related to nephew by my half brother, the boys father.
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reader, stressedandtired +, writes (22 October 2011):
 I don't think you're moving too fast. It would be different if you were only dating this new guy to get over your ex but you've made it obvious that the feelings for your ex are no longer there. You should do what makes you happy. You stuck in the relationship for him and you were miserable. Now it's time to do what makes you happy. You're young so you shouldn't waste your time in a relationship that you're not happy in. If you no longer love your ex then you have no problem moving on and being happy. You should let your ex know that you've moved on and you're happy. Let him know that you can still be friends but he has to except your new relationship. Really, until he's over you, there's no way you can be friends at this time. It's going to take a while. If he can't except what you are doing, you should just ignore his calls and his texts. I hope this helps. Good luck!
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