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26-29,
anonymous
writes:There's this girl I like. I always text/talk to her when I can, and she asks me for homework help pretty often. Today, I was going to ask her to a dance, but my friend wouldn't leave us alone, and she left before he did. I decided to call her and ask her, to which she replied "maybe, we'll see." She was half laughing, I could tell... a little. Then a few hours later, she texted me "Did you call?" I thought she meant "did you dial me after 3-ish (when I called her)?" so I replied "no...." and she immediately texted back "wtf". Then, she (or her friend) texted to me, on her phone, "She doesn't want to talk to you. Stop texting?"So now I'm lost and have no idea wtf just happened. My friend thinks shes messing around and using me, or playing hard to get (since he thinks she's a manipulator). Should I call her and ask her what's wrong, or just not talk to her until she wants to talk to me?
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reader, Xearo  +, writes (23 October 2011):
Talk to her in person to get straight answers....I don't even know what is going on there. Your friend might be right actually but you need to decide that for yourself.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (22 October 2011):
Hmm. Seem, I'm inclined to agree with your friends. This does seem like a Drama Queen act. And if there's one thing I really cannot stand, it's the Drama Queen Act! When I was a teenager, this sort of thing happened to me a few times. It's boring and immature.
However, this could be a big misunderstanding, so I'd say try calling her to see what has happened. If she doesn't speak, or has a go at you, or does anything that suggests she's a damned Drama Queen, then say goodbye to her.
Remember, a Lady is only worth chasing if she acts the Lady. If she just acts like a immature girl, she's not worth your time.
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