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writes:Hello, So I guess I'll tell my story. I am 16 and my boyfriend is 20. (yes, i am aware of the age difference please do not comment on it)We've been dating for 7 months. We are both very in love with each other. I'm very insecure. I always believe I'm not good enough or pretty enough and i am chunky. My boyfriend, let's see. He's like really thin, good-looking, has a great smile, everyone loves his hair.. well yeah he's Mr. hotguy. But he says that he believes I am beautiful and I'm worth more than any other girl. And he doesn't like anyone else. Also that he has never loved anyone as much as me. ever. Well, I, sometimes without thinking, put myself down a lot. Hard. And he gets so upset with me when I do. He wishes I saw how pretty I really am. Well, anyways, I have trouble with dealing with thinking about his exes. Mostly his first ex which he's given his virginity to. I despise her. Even though I don't know her. Most people say I don't want to know her and that she's a "s^^t". Which kind of upsets me because it's so out of his character to go out with someone who is stupid and a s^^t. I guess he did it to get laid... which is gross and dumb. Well, he regrets ever meeting her. He really does. And I can't really blame him. I have to get over the thought of them.. together. ew. Well, on the good side, he thinks I am better than her in every way he can possibly think of. I have jealousy problems. Badly. I've never been this jealous ever. And ever since I met him I've been ten times more emotional then I've ever been. Right now I barely get to see him and it makes me sad. Between college, work, and homework, i barely get to see him. :( It makes me sad. I know, I know. I can't do anything about it. Also, I always feel like he is cheating on me. All the time. He gives me NO reason to think it though. This is all in my head, but I always think of "what ifs" and stuff... but what also really bothers me is that he confessed to watching porn twice and.. he still did it afterwards.. then i told him i think its stupid and im really against it. He told me "no more i promise" but he'll probably do it again. It really bothers me. A lot. What should I do?
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reader, girl8867 +, writes (24 October 2011):
girl8867 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks for your advice, i really appreciate it
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2011): uhm well I think you should stick with him he could be a good guy :)
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (23 October 2011):
 If you carry on being so paranoid about stuff that doesn't matter you will lose this guy.
Get it into your head that he is with YOU he loves YOU he thinks YOU are the bees knees. Get on with this relationship and concentrate on moving it forward instead of dragging the past up all the time. He wouldn't be with you if he didn't love and want to be with you so know and understand that!!!
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