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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes: I am in a relationship with this girl for the last two years . I have one problem and that is that I don't know how to conduct myself in front of her 3 girlfriends when I confront them in her presence . When I talk to them sweetly then afterwards my girlfriend taunts me saying wow you were hitting on my friends huh? When I just say hello to them and start mind my own business in other room, then here too she gets tough on me saying why you didn't treat my friends well. Now you guys tell me what should I do? I swear if she does this next time, I will dump her and will hit on of her friends in real. Please tell me why girls are like this ? I would appreciate if someone could guide me out of this messy thing. Regards to all! Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Shadow Rose +, writes (17 October 2011):
I'm sure she was just teasing you about hitting on her friends. I do that to my boyfriend all the time when he stops to talk to salespeople!
I'd say just treat her friends nicely with a smile and a hello, then kiss your girlfriend, or show her she's the one you care about most in some way, set her apart from her friends by treating her even better. Then, you can make sure she wont think you're rude, and she wont tease you, and if you dont want to hang around, just say something like "I'm gonna go _____, ok?"
Hope that helped!
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