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*efertariramses
writes:Dear readersI still love my ex boyfriend. Its been 10 months since we broke up. Lately he has been chatting with my cousin sister on a social network site. She is 3 years our junior and is more attractive than I am. He finds her to be an interesting person. Every time he chats with her, he would compliment her or say nice things about her to me.It hurts but I have to put on a cool and composed facade before him, in order to hide the pain and jealousy. She had not contacted me since we met at a wedding. Even then she told me she had a lot of stories to share about him, which she didnt. Yesterday when we chatted as usual, he asked me how is she doing? And he termed her as "his"And I couldnt bear anymore I just told him not to ask about her as I know nothing. He knew I was jealous and he was hurting me further. Why is that so?...What does he want from me?. :'( ....Help me?
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reader, nefertariramses +, writes (17 October 2011):
nefertariramses is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all for your constructive advice....our break up was mutual...he wanted it more than i did....I let him go because i didnt want to confine him in this relationship despite still being in love with him....now i dont know why is he tormenting me this way....?...Ive tried maintaining no contact with him but it did not work....he gets back in contact in either way if I remain silent for a week or so.....what am I supposed to do?...
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2011): Hello there, I think that you should move on.Theres no point of you hurting yourself by pretending to be friends.I dont believe you can be friends with someone that you love and used to date unless you have neutral feelings.Give yourself time away from him cut yourself off from him completely and get back into contact when you know you can deal with just being friends.Good Luck
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (16 October 2011):
 He knows you still have feelings for him, no matter how much to try to conceal it from him. He's using your cousin to try and make you jealous and to get back at you for the break up.
Why are you still in contact with this loser? If you've broken up with him, then keep away from him. What's the point of being in love with someone, breaking up with them and still keeping in touch with them? Its not helping your case in any way. An ex is an "ex" for a reason; keep him at a distance. He's deriving a sadistic satisfaction out of this. Put an end to it. You don't need him. Please move on with your head held high
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (16 October 2011):
 First of all, he's a moron for staying in your family to date.
Second of all, I'm sorry you're feeling like you are. Remember, he's an ex, and from his crap in asking you about your cousin while knowing that you're hurt, he's a toolbox.
You need to avoid him at all cost and every turn. You need to stop pining, hold your head up high, and think about why he is your ex. You're better off without him, and you're free and single and your life is an adventure in front of you.
You're young and beautiful and you do not need him! Time to drop him from your regard once and for all.
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