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Archived questions from: May, 2018 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

His daughter and I are close in age she hates me, but I love her father so much help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2370 days ago

31 May 2018 (F) - I'm 24, my boyfriend is 42 and we met 9 months ago on a cliff while he was on holidays in my country. At the time he was talking to his buddies about how amazing the scenery was and we locked eyes for the first time and smiled at each other. ...

Been dating for 4 years but an old flame has returned, and so have the feelings.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2371 days ago

31 May 2018 (F) - Hi everyone, I've got a serious relationship problem I really need some help with! I have been with my boyfriend for four years. He's caring, kind, affectionate and I really do love him. However, our relationship lacks passion and we have little s...

How to deal with breakups when you suffer from anxiety

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2371 days ago

31 May 2018 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for several years. We love each other very much but probably aren't the best match for each other. I would like to consider breaking up, but I have anxiety and it makes everything difficult 10x harder. I'm scared of ...

I’ve made an ultimatum for my cheating husband. Is it reasonable?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2372 days ago

30 May 2018 (F) - Hello Cupids, Short question. My husband, who I have been with for 13 years, compulsively cheats on me. Last time, I kicked him out and begged him to get therapy, which he said he would. He didn’t, but kept telling me he planned to. Things got b...

Would I be a complete cow if I don't help my ex boyfriend with his drug problems?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2371 days ago

30 May 2018 (F) - My close friend has recently let me know that my ex boyfriend is going wild with drugs and alcohol and that he is worried about him. When I was with this boyfriend, I managed to convince him to only do drugs every so often and just weed, nothing ...

My boyfriend wont spend quality time with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2371 days ago

30 May 2018 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been in a relationship with this guy for a little over 2 years now. We both just recently graduated high school. We have always been the couple everyone said will last forever and the couple everyone looked at as perfect. Lately ...

My sister’s husband is my ex from high school and he is rude to my boyfriend! And my boyfriend is frustrated by this and that he has to deal with an ex of mine!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2372 days ago

29 May 2018 (F) - Hello my sister is now married to my ex boyfriend. We broke up in our early 20s. I'm not trying to make myself out to be God's gift to men but he was fixated on me since high school. Flash forward to 2008 and they get married. My sister has isolated ...

A baby usually brings a family closer but I’m just thinking that now that I’m really “growing up” my mom and I are becoming as estranged as we’ve been before. Can anyone please give me perspective?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2372 days ago

29 May 2018 (F) - Hey all! I’m twenty six and recently married, having my first baby. I’m excited, scared and also, so grateful that he’s coming. Our families are excited but at the same time, there’s discord. My Catholic mother wants the baby baptized, we do ...

Why am I never a man’s first choice?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2372 days ago

27 May 2018 (F) - Hi good people, I’m feeling a bit down today and was hoping you might be able to offer me some advice or even just words of comfort. I’m 32 (33 in July) and I’ve been single for 3 years now. My previous long-term relationship was rocky and I’m de...

Should I lie and say the baby is his?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2370 days ago

27 May 2018 (F) - Ive made a mess but now ive got to grow up and sort it out. Me and my 'ex'boyfriend had a break , we didnt say what each other can or cant do and if we were going to get back together. I had a feeling he was seeing someone else but just left him to ...

I kissed a girl and my boyfriend didn't like it, what do I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2358 days ago

26 May 2018 (F) - My partner and I have been together for 2 and a half years. During this time we've both expressed desires and fantasies in the bedroom and things we want to do. My boyfriend asked if I would have sex/be sexual with a girl while he watched, or have ...

It drives me nuts! I can't live like she does.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2377 days ago

25 May 2018 (M) - Does anyone else avoid thier partner? When I have time off I don’t mind, but my job has got really intense recently, I been working 10-11 hour days, and can’t sleep at night because of stress that I might lose my job. I don’t live with my partner, ...

My boyfriend has naked pictures on his phone, am I not pretty enough anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2373 days ago

25 May 2018 (F) - I’ve been with my boyfriend about 5 yrs , and I recently he got cought having naked pictures on his phone , he was showing me a picture that he took and by accident ly I saw those , he said that his friend send those to him , so I said would u like ...

He’s been giving porn more attention than me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2379 days ago

24 May 2018 (F) - Hey. So me and my boyfriend have been going together for 6 yrs now. Our relationship is pretty good for the most part. However the past couple of months he's been giving porn more attention than me. It's made me a bit insecure, and I'm starting...

Me vs his ex, is his behavior a red flag?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2378 days ago

23 May 2018 (F) - To keep it short, my bf was showing me some pictures of him, and when he was going through different albums I happen to see an album cover which had the picture of his ex wife,besides this picture they send text messages to each other/communicate on ...

Sister didn't invite me to her birthday but instead asked me to watch her kids. Advise please.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2377 days ago

23 May 2018 (F) - Sister didn't invite me to her birthday but instead asked me to watch her kids. Advise please. So recently, i got a text from my sister asking me if i could mind her kids on a Saturday night for her birthday (which at the time was about 6 weeks aw...

Has anyone completely moved and drastically cut everyone off because I want to do just that

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2378 days ago

23 May 2018 (F) - Has anyone felt this way in their thirties? I love in a major city in the east coast (US) and I want to so desperately leave my job my family my everything behind - I almost want to disappear and go missing - a lot of things in my life have turned ...

I'm constantly worried my boyfriend has/will cheat on me and I'm going insane thinking what on earth happened while he was on that cruise without me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2379 days ago

23 May 2018 (F) - My boyfriend went on a cruise ship with his (male) friends last week. I expected it to be hard. I was a bit moody during the first day he was there, but the remaining 6 days I felt fine about the fact that he was having fun. He kept in touch wi...

I just learnt that my girlfriend was sexually abused by her stepfather and his friend but I can't seem to move past this information

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2379 days ago

22 May 2018 (M) - I’ve been dating this amazing girl for two years. We took our relationship very slow because we both had been in long term relationships that ended badly. Our relationship is close to perfect we’ve actually talked marriage recently. We were talking ...

Why does this COO treat me in such a manner? Why not just fire me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2380 days ago

22 May 2018 (F) - I've recently decided to quit my job. I'm torn because I truly love my job... I just don't love the management team at my company. My direct boss, the COO of the company is a poor manager. Basically she micro manages and enjoys putting me down. He...

How do I support my husband in his business stress?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2381 days ago

21 May 2018 (F) - Hi all Im wondering how i can support my husband in his stress. He runs two businesses that could be successful but due to outside factors, things arent going well. He literally cannot catch a break. He most recently said: "if i have to deal wit...

Recently there is a lack of trust from both sides!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2381 days ago

21 May 2018 (F) - I'm in a relationship and have been with the boy for 6 months. We had a very good start to our relationship other than a few anger issues he had where he would get too angry too easily. Beside this it was pretty much perfect. Recently he found out ...

My youngest children have fallen out with my oldest child!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2375 days ago

21 May 2018 (F) - I have 3 children who are now young adults and 2 of them have fallen out with their eldest sibling. I have tried for almost a year now to get them to talk and they’re all willing to talk to each other as long as the other party says sorry first. ...

He's addicted to sex sites and internet dating. I want my old man back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2383 days ago

20 May 2018 (F) - My live in man of 20 yes he is addictied to internet dating and sex sites.his treatment of me in last couple months he says not doing anything but he is I am a worthless I have tried everything just to get him to come bed with me he say ok then ...

Our sex life is non existent

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2382 days ago

19 May 2018 (M) - Me and my gf sex life is non existent. Sometimes I look forward to it and it can be over so soon. No foreplay happens, she doesn’t let me go anywhere near her for foreplay. She used to be really wild, and now it’s gone to nothing. I’m still up for ...

I don’t want to cut off this friend, but his behavior feels selfish and manipulative? Or is it me who is being childish and needy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2384 days ago

18 May 2018 (M) - I have a friend who I used to consider a best friend. He isa very charming person but also totally hypocritical and self interested, at other times eh can be selfless. We used to spend a lot of time together. Recently, with no notice to me his ...

I know I should divorce him but I have no energy to do it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2381 days ago

17 May 2018 (F) - Hi, i feel very extremely frustrated with my marriage at the moment. We had 30 years together, many of them filled with tragic events and heartbreaking moments. I did have many years of counselling and friends help. But less and less understati...

Why does my married boyfriend love me one day and hate me the next?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2379 days ago

17 May 2018 (F) - Hi. I have been in a "relationship" with a married man for approximately 5 years. Before I begin, I am asking not to be judged. I truly and honestly go through enough pain because of the situation I put myself in. And I know what everyone here will ...

Should I keep in touch and message him from time to time? Or leave it to him? And how long are we on hold for?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2382 days ago

17 May 2018 (F) - i met someone in february at a friends party and we hit it off immediately, only he suffers from mental health issues because of a past abusive relationship anyway recently my mum had a go at him through Facebook for going to see his friend instead ...

Boyfriend ignores me for computer games, should I be upset?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2365 days ago

16 May 2018 (F) - Hi, I feel like this is a bit of a strange question and I'm not sure if I am allowed to feel this way or not. Hopefully you can shed some light for me. I've been with my boyfriend for 10 years and recently moved in together 3 years ago. I fe...

I don't think this party girl is girlfriend material. Should I break up?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2384 days ago

16 May 2018 (M) - I'm 32 years old my girlfriend is22. We're dating for four months and I still have doubts about her if she is gf material to me. Bottom line is she's a party girl, to me a girl who likes to party and drink and have sex with a lot of dudes is not ...

How to change her behaviour and thinking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2385 days ago

16 May 2018 (M) - I have been in a relationship for 3 years now and I have the known her very well but sometimes still our thoughts,thinkings are very different and I think she usually takes a situation negatively and I mostly get angry while handling situation and ...

Should I send snapshots to his siblings and his mother?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2386 days ago

16 May 2018 (F) - Recently after another classic domestic between hubby (59) and me, I was at the end of my tether... I asked hubby how he would like me to talk about his mother in the same manner of profanity he speaks to me day in day out? Later I did apologize, ...

Do I give my ex with a drinking problem a second chance?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2387 days ago

15 May 2018 (F) - Do I give my ex with a drinking problem a second chance? I had been with my boyfriend for about 11 months now and I recently decided to end our relationship because of his drinking habit. I wasn't happy about his drinking early on but I t...

Is serial grumpiness a warning sign or just a stress reliever?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2387 days ago

15 May 2018 (F) - This is probably going to be a long one. Past: Was with my teenage sweetheart. Dated at 15, engaged at 20, moved abroad for originally 2 years...he failed at his exams and so i said i'd stay 1 more year since he had to study alot and he was ok wi...

I wish he would look at me and see I'm drowning, instead of calling me lazy, or belittling my parenting, cooking, whatever.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2387 days ago

15 May 2018 (F) - I have a laundry list of concerns that I have really no one to turn to with. So I moved across the country to be with my bf and so our family could be together. 2 and a half yrs and 2 babies later, I'm unhappy. It hurts to admit. I have a roof ove...

How do I work on this trust issue and two, should I be with someone who is a diamond in the rough?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2387 days ago

15 May 2018 (F) - Hi all, After years of not feeling much for the opposite sex after a long, miserable marriage, someone I met as a child courted me for a few months before I agreed to meet up. I was almost convinced I'd never fall in love again It was an instant,...

I am upset at how he dealt with Mother’s Day! What would you do in my shoes?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2387 days ago

15 May 2018 (F) - Hello. My bf and I are 35, cohabitating. We have kids but not with each other although I am quite close with his. I was really upset on mother’s day because I woke up to an empty, messy house but a gift and cards left out. Apparently he thought the ...

Does he love me? Or not? Is he worth the wait or is he spouting empty words? Must I risk it all and take a chance with him? Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2384 days ago

15 May 2018 (F) - I am hoping to get perspective on an issue more to reflect on it and process it before deciding what to do. This is the situation: My first love and i were together for a year and a half before a very silly solit. He thought he wasn't ready as ...

Am I being used? I believe deep down that he is a good person but I am worried that I'm just there to teach him how to be in a relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2388 days ago

15 May 2018 (F) - have been seeing someone new for 4 months. When we first met, it was unlike anything I have ever experienced – I felt a real chemisty with this person and we hit it off straight away. Despite the distance (he lives in the south of the UK and me the ...

My 16 year old daughter wants to spend time with these older men! What do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2386 days ago

15 May 2018 (F) - My 16 year old daughter has recently made some new friends. At first I let them come round to our house only. My issue is they are in their late 20's. They talk about music as my daughter plays guitar. But now she has been wanting to go see their ...

He ended our friendship because I loved him as a friend only. He sent me a message yesterday after 3 months. Do I reply?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2388 days ago

15 May 2018 (F) - Me and my ex guy friend have been friends for years. He started to have feelings for me and he did confess to me that he wants to be more than friends. However, i don't see us being together and i dont share the same feelings with him. I rejected ...

We texted and chatted but when his parents came to town he didn’t!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2389 days ago

14 May 2018 (F) - Dear cupid , Ive met this guy at work (im from the middle east he's American ) we exchanged numbers but he was flying back to the us the day we met so we disnt get a chance to go out , he texted me Everyday and even video chated almost everyday ...

How can I deal with my upbringing ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2389 days ago

14 May 2018 (F) - Hello aunts How can I forget my childhood? I come from a communist country (Europe) was basically raised here my whole life so I am Americanized but my parents had an arranged marriage - I still live with my folks as I am saving to buy a ho...

He wants to get married and I just feel he isn't the right one. What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2389 days ago

14 May 2018 (F) - So I've been dating this guy for a little over a year. He is a good guy, makes me coffee in the morning, opens the door for me ect. I believe he wouldn't ever cheat on me. He helps out around the house a little. He even moved to another state with ...

I was abandoned by my mom, my dad's girlfriend has managed to put a wedge between my father and I and I'm hurting

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2390 days ago

13 May 2018 (F) - Hi I'm really upset, I hope you can help. My dad when I was younger was horrible to me and my mum, I won't got too into things but when he was drunk he took is anger out on me, I was 6 year old and constantly covered in bruises ( my body not my ...

I only hear from him when he is on leave ... I don't want to be his booty call.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2390 days ago

13 May 2018 (F) - to start me and my ex were together for years he joined the army we were together for 2 year of the 3 year enlistment he has, and once he went on deployment, 1 month before he got back he ended it and said it was because he didn't want me waiting ...

How can I stop thinking about him and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2389 days ago

13 May 2018 (F) - Hello! I'm sorry if this is not the right place to vent, but I feel like I can't talk to anyone about something that is bothering me so much right now and just need to hear others' thoughts. I fell for a guy who is a good/long-time friend of mi...

At what age would young couples move in together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2388 days ago

13 May 2018 (F) - Hello. I am 21 years old and already wanting to settle with my boyfriend. We have made plans in the future to settle and live together as in get an apartment and eventually a house. I am in university full time and seeking part time jobs. We both ...

My boyfriend and I have very different views

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2390 days ago

13 May 2018 (F) - I have very different views of life to my partner. We get along great, I am very comfortable with him, he goes out of his way for me, we like each other's company, he makes me feel attractive and is into me. However, sometimes he says things t...