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writes:My live in man of 20 yes he is addictied to internet dating and sex sites.his treatment of me in last couple months he says not doing anything but he is I am a worthless I have tried everything just to get him to come bed with me he say ok then never stop talking to other woman h I'm just can't take anymore I want the old him backMm Reply to this Question
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reader, CMoon  +, writes (21 May 2018):
If you haven't confronted him, do so. If he is unwilling to acknowledge his issues, leave him.Leaving him may actually prompt him to realise that he has a serious problem. If you leave and if he says that he is willing to change,the ball is in your court as to whether you let him back into your life but you need to take great care if you are going to make the decision to let him in- Make him PROVE to you that he is worth a second chance. See if he gets therapy, see if he tries to show that he loves you and only you. He has to give up all elements of his addiction before you can step forward in this relationship. He owes you a lot so don't settle for anything less than this. If he doesn't want to change and won't acknowledge his problems, you know what you need to do. Leave, move on and have some fun in the process.
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reader, femmenoir  +, writes (21 May 2018):
 This doesn't sound good at all.
Your man is "addicted" to online dating and online porn unfortunately.
Addictions can be very hard to overcome, but they can be overcome, if the person with the addiction, really wants to put effort into trying and ultimately giving up.
You should "confront" your man about his addictions and be honest with him, regarding exactly how you feel.
If your man is not prepared to cease these activities, then i'm afraid, you'll have to leave this relationship.
What other choice do you have?
If he is not prepared to help himself, to help you and your relationship, then he's showing you/letting you know, that he's clearly not interested in changing for the better and isn't interested in working on your relationship.
You know, it's never about the "quantity" but about the "quality" of your relationship.
If you live with a person, who day by day by day, leaves you feeling stressed, unhappy, worried and rejected, then where is the quality?
You are much better off "alone" than within an "unhappy" relationship.
I wish you all the best!
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reader, N91 +, writes (21 May 2018):
 Why would you waste your time trying to win back a disrespectful asshole? He lives in your house and takes the piss out of you daily. Get rid.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2018): Get a new man. He's long over the relationship; so it's time to move on. You're not getting the old one back.
Your 20-year warranty has run-out. Time to kick him to the curb!
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