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Archived questions from: October, 2017 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How do I tell someone not to touch my boyfriend?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2611 days ago

31 October 2017 (F) - Dear Cupid I'm with my bf for almost two years. We have a good relationship, not much drama, we both prefer that way. He is introvert but in social situations he can have fun if he wants to. I'm an introvert who is socially shy and Don't have m...

I hate the person who I used to love for his std and promiscuity

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2613 days ago

31 October 2017 (F) - I'm in love with my partner , we've been together for a year and a half, we've been through so much, specially at the beginning. The truth is, even though I thought I knew him ( we were friends for years before falling in love ) the fact is I did ...

I broke up with my fiancé after 5 years together, she is begging me to come back!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2614 days ago

30 October 2017 (M) - Hello, We live in one of the bigger cities on the West Coast. Met my ex-fiancee (wow, writing that still hurts) 5 years ago. I run a couple successful tech companies so for the last two years I've been traveling back and forth (spending together...

Our 7 year relationship is in shambles. Is it over? Should I accept defeat?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2613 days ago

29 October 2017 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 7 years, and throughout the relationship we obviously had ups and downs like any other couple. However, one huge problem with us was that I had suffered some sexual trauma in my past which left it difficult for me ...

Am I seeing something that isn’t there and maybe she is just making excuses so I won’t hate her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2614 days ago

29 October 2017 (M) - After about 4 years my girlfriend and I broke up. It wasn’t one that I wanted at all as I was ready to purpose She has distanced herself but not totally as we still have some contact I have informed her that I am moving and we are supposed to ...

Why have I started despising my married lover?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2617 days ago

29 October 2017 (F) - Is it normal for the other woman to start hating or resenting the married man she's been seeing for a while? How does it go from him being able to do no wrong to thinking less of him over time? So, from love to hate? Seems like such a drop in her f...

We are falling out of love and I don't know what to do

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2614 days ago

29 October 2017 (F) - After being attached to his phone the TV and napping all day I asked my husband if he would spend some time with me. He suggested we have friends over I replied I would rather spend the night with just you since we haven't had a night alone in a ...

I'm interested in a separated man but don't like some of his actions. Advice?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2614 days ago

28 October 2017 (F) - Hello, I recently joined a dating site, and I found someone I know, I actually was at his wedding. But his currently separated from his wife of 2 years and has 2 kids with her. At first I contacted him and told him that I know him and that I was at ...

A guy keeps sending me mixed signals.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2618 days ago

28 October 2017 (F) - Last month I met a guy, he's a friend's(F1) friend's(F2) friend.. We were a few girls and him. We had dinner and drank alcohol so we were all kinda drunk. F1 would continuously tell me that she feels like this guy is coming on to me really strongly ...

Why doesn't my mother believe what I am telling her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2618 days ago

27 October 2017 (M) - I''m a male who has aspergers syndrome, something I had when I was born which is considered a form of brain damage, ive had some form of therapies to help and been to doctors, my parents are at the end of their tether with me. I forget things a...

How do I explain to my fiance that I want to go out dressed up as a female without hurting her feelings?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2618 days ago

27 October 2017 (M) - I'm engaged to a wonderful girl. I've always considered myself a female in my heart. I have been crossdressing secretly in the past but I can't anymore. I really want to go out and be feminine once in a while. I explained my fiancee my situation. I ...

He's left me yet again but what wrong have I done to be treated like this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2618 days ago

26 October 2017 (F) - I need help please I Feel patheticI met this guy two years ago. He was great he was always guarded we went out on dates for three months didn't sleep together til then. He was great to my son. I have a Lil boy. I ended up moving in with him, and it ...

My boyfriend took small amounts of money from my purse! What should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2619 days ago

25 October 2017 (F) - I was dating a guy for 3 months, who I love, and knew was broke/unemployed. 2 weeks ago, $15.00 was missing from my wallet. I thought I miscounted, so the next time he came over I took a pic of my wallet, so I knew for sure. $20.00 went miss...

How did I get involved in their drama?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2621 days ago

25 October 2017 (F) - Well I'm feeling kind of embarrassed. I reach out to my old friends probably once a year. I reached out to who seemed like a little brother because his parents were like surrogates to me for 6 years. He never saves my number so I said can you save ...

Was he trying to deceive me?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2615 days ago

24 October 2017 (F) - Was he trying to deceive me? There are two aspects to an action. What was the intention behind something (the mental part) and what action was taken/not taken (the physical part). What is bugging me on an issue is what was the intention behind...

I'd like to help them save their marriage!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2622 days ago

24 October 2017 (F) - Oh boy. I have two friends that have been married for ten years. The husband has been having an affair off and on for three years with a chick he refused to ever completely sever ties with. The wife has taken off with other guys during their splits ...

Do I keep trying to contact him? Or cut contact despite his debts to me?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 2606 days ago

23 October 2017 (F) - Dear Cupid. I think I know the answer but I need some advice... So, I have been helping out an ex from seven years ago with rent while he's jobless for the last six months (He rents out a room in a house) (I offered to help him) on top ...

The relationship I am in has become exhausting

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2622 days ago

23 October 2017 (F) - So I need to preface this by saying I am not a second-chances person. Basically once someone loses my faith or trust, they usually can't get it back. That being said, I dated this guy for about a year, from September of last year to earlier ...

Why was he was so mad because I answered his phone?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 2620 days ago

22 October 2017 (F) - Hi. Last night my bf got so mad at me and left my place at 2 am. He fell asleep on the couch while I was watching a movie, around 130 am I noticed on his phone maybe like 10 phone calls then like 10 messages, his phone is always in silence so he ...

The guy I'm seeing is always getting mad at me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2615 days ago

21 October 2017 (F) - The guy I'm seeing is always getting mad at me? We have an odd relationship, we say we love each other all the time. He says he's not ready to date (we've been in a like-dating stage for 3 years). I have fallen in love with him. But I feel like I'm ...

He is not being supportive and I am literally broken because of what is happening!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2623 days ago

21 October 2017 (F) - Hi, me and my boyfriend have been going out for 6 months and a few days ago I found out I was pregnant. We both currently live 100 miles apart and only get to see each other once a week. We decided an abortion was the best option for us as it wou...

Why did she keep that key ring for so long?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2624 days ago

20 October 2017 (F) - I have a friend who flirts with me all the time.We used to have a great friendship until one day I heard her saying I'm annoyed.We had an argument and have each other cold shoulders.However,recently I wrote a letter to her saying that I really don't ...

My boyfriend revealed a secret and my question is how do I deal with what he told me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2622 days ago

19 October 2017 (F) - My new boyfriend of almost 5 month has been suffering from ptsd i knew this when we first got together , he decided to be open tonight and told me a shocking secret he had kept from me , he admitted he sometimes smokes weed to help him relax and ...

She takes more than she gives and I know part of the problem is her low self-esteem!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2626 days ago

19 October 2017 (M) - Hi, when I told my girlfriend that I love her she replied, for the first time, that she does as well, although she doesn't know if it's really love. She justified this with saying that she discussed the matter with her mom and when her mother asked ...

Being used by my boyfriend and I don't know how to get rid of him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2618 days ago

19 October 2017 (M) - I will try to make it short as possible, I am 35 years old gay and I dated a guy few months ago, specifically in May and I really liked him, everything was great , although he is way younger than me 24 years old, but I felt that he loves me, he ...

Family squabble upsetting my new relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2625 days ago

18 October 2017 (F) - My boy friend and I r relatively a new couple. He lives with his twin brother and a friend. I was staying in their place for the first time and just to clarify. Before that night me and his brother were getting along real well that I would call him ...

Was I out of line and is my boyfriend right in not trusting me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2626 days ago

18 October 2017 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about 5 years now. A few months ago I met a guy at work who I messaged after I left the job. He was quite flirty with me in this conversation but I didn't think it meant anything. About a month later he messaged...

My husband's coworker made some very odd comments and I'm wondering if there is something going on!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2627 days ago

18 October 2017 (F) - Recently on a ride home my husbands coworker needed a ride home. While we were driving his coworker begin to flirt with my husband, He repeatedly said how much he liked my husband, saying my husband was one of a kind. How he had never met anyone ...

Why am I hopelessly infatuated with this man?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2472 days ago

18 October 2017 (F) - Hi, I was just wondering if someone could give me advice I'm with my husband for 16 years married 6 and have two wonderful children we had out up's and down's over the years I've been in and out of counselling due to child abuse and suffer with ...

I'm being taken for granted and wonder if I should marry him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2628 days ago

18 October 2017 (F) - I have been with my bf for 9 years now and we both dicided to get married, and we had registered. Just lately I have been very uncomfortable with my fiancee, i dont fee like i am being loved, i am only his comfort. It has been probably my faul...

My boyfriend and I argued again, this time over laundry

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2626 days ago

16 October 2017 (F) - I suppose this might be my fault but my boyfriend and I haven't spoken in the last 24 hours because of...laundry. Enter scene: I'm a 25 year old working two jobs currently (soon to quit one to go back to school). He is a 29 year old working on h...

I can't bear to let him near me since I discovered he is still watching porn!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2619 days ago

15 October 2017 (F) - During our recent holiday, my partner and i were in our room and i decided to have a shower. To my surprise i saw my partner change channel on the tv to a porn channel! I could see the tv reflection in bathroom mirror...i alerted him to the fact i ...

Why can I not see things how they are?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2628 days ago

15 October 2017 (M) - Why can’t I get over this crush? This guy I’ve fancied for 3 years now, his done my head in. I’ve never had such deep feelings for someone before, this guy matches me banter wise, future hope, likes and he just feels right! We’ve spoke on ...

Torn between my man and my family

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2628 days ago

15 October 2017 (F) - I understand that this is a difficult topic for strangers to give me advice on, but worth a try. I came on holiday to Australia from England 4 years ago and met a man. Being only 25 at the time i took the 'go with the flow approach' and we have had...

My husband and I feel trapped and it's taking a toll on our health

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2629 days ago

14 October 2017 (F) - I feel that my husband an I are both unhappy and have been for a while. I don't think that we are dissatisfied with each other and our marriage per se, but the difficult situation we have been living in for over a decade has taken its toll and we ...

My 'best friend' isn't much of a friend at all

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2629 days ago

14 October 2017 (F) - I have had a friend for about 30 years. We met as small children and have been "best friends" since. She has actually been fake and shady toward me since childhood. She would treat me differently depending on who was around. I was not strong ...

I'm struggling with wanting more attention from him through texts!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2613 days ago

13 October 2017 (F) - So I have posted about this previously, but I’m starting to get that feeling of neglect again. I feel terrible as I know my bf is working very hard and I hate asking him for more attention. The situation hit a breaking point a couple weeks ago, he ...

My mother in law is an egoist and evil woman!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2633 days ago

12 October 2017 (F) - I hate my mother in law. She is an egoist and evil woman. She is a cynist and speak badly about me behind my back. She keep posing a sullen face whenever im around. She used to be nice woman several years ago. But since this recent year, she changed ...

It was going great and now she has stopped responding ... I guess its over!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2615 days ago

11 October 2017 (M) - Hello everyone! A few months ago I started exchanging Facebook messages with a girl I knew in high school about ten years ago. I'm 30 and she's 29. Things went really well and she agreed to meet up as soon as we could (she was moving back to h...

Do any girls here go to bars alone?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2631 days ago

11 October 2017 (F) - I have been on my own for a long time now. It has been bothering me for a while but it has only become a problem recently. I don't have particularly great coping skills and the feelings of loneliness have become overwhelming. I really need to make ...

We are getting married soon and I'm tired of family living with us

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2635 days ago

11 October 2017 (F) - Hello, I've been with this man for almost 6 years we have a solid ground relationship as to knowing to take care of the important things like bills and kids. He proposed to be in 2016 and we haven't actually started planning our wedding together, ...

I overshared family information about my heritage with a professor and am now feeling very anxious

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2633 days ago

11 October 2017 (F) - I overshared information a week ago with my university tutor and have had severe anxiety since! I was showing my tutor some of my work for the class which included a reference to Aboriginal Australians. I then blurted out that my father is ...

We broke up because he was obsessed with women

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2635 days ago

10 October 2017 (F) - Looking for some feedback, especially the guys out there, interested in your take on this. My relationship has very recently ended and was a long time coming,This man made me feel uncomfortable, disrespected, less than and so much more. The worst ...

He cannot communicate and I don't know what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2636 days ago

10 October 2017 (F) - I've recently started dating a guy. We've known each other for 4 years in total and we've helped each other through a lot in those 4 years. He ended up adding me from a whatsapp group that we were both in 4 years ago and we started chatting...

How to move on after a bad relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2635 days ago

10 October 2017 (F) - Hi my name is Danielle and I am 24 years old I am currently single and living with my parents. I am writing this because I do not know how to go on and to move on with life. About a year ago I left my ex boyfriend.. I thought we were soulmates and ...

Why do I put up with my sister in law's rubbish?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2636 days ago

10 October 2017 (F) - Hello all, Could someone please tell me the meaning of when something is on the up and up? I am so angry right now and thank goodness I love my husband enough to put up with his family's crap albeit we do have arguments before I go out with t...

I can't wait to get married - but family issues putting a dampener on it.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2635 days ago

9 October 2017 (F) - Hi, I'm looking for some advice. My fiancé and I are engaged and are soon to start planning our wedding. I have an extremely difficult mother, and because of that she has pretty much damaged all family ties I have with aunts/uncles/cousins. ...

He found the girl he dumped me for was too costly and wants me to take him back.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2637 days ago

9 October 2017 (F) - So, this guy and I were dating for almost two years and he proposed to me in May. A few weeks later he tells me hes going on vacation with his old crush/ friend since high school there both 28. But they have been friends forever. So, he breaks off ...

I feel I can't even communicate anymore because of his crazy reactions!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2637 days ago

9 October 2017 (F) - Ok so myself and my husbsnd just had a huge fight. It happens every couple of months but ive just realised that i think he oveereacts. He shouts, spits, throws things and wont talk to me for days. This time it started like this.... We h...

Why does this guy flirt with me when he asks about dates I've been on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2636 days ago

9 October 2017 (F) - There's this guy I've known for a little over a year. I used to have a huge crush on him for a long time. I eventually got over him emotionally, but I am still attracted to him. We have been friends but there has been times where I get mixed ...