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*nehotmama1984
writes:My man and i are complete opposites. he is possessive, controlling,jealous and has a short temper. im a free spirit and love my freedom and independence. but when we are not fighting everything is absolutly amazing. the sex is great and when he's away i want him even more. but i cant stand feeling caged up. should i stay or go my separate way?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2010): I think that unless you two can sort out that fact that you feel caged up, then at some point that is going to be the cause of real problems. Talk to him tell him how you are feeling.
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reader, TimmD +, writes (9 July 2010):
 Has he ever resorted to violence? If not, do you feel deep down that he is possible of resorting to violence?
I'm not asking if you feel he loves you or not because I'm sure he does....
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (9 July 2010):
 It all depends. How long have you been dating?
How often do you fight? Would you say you have arguments more often than you have good times - including, but not only, great sex? In other words, which is more frequent: the fighting or the good times?
Then when you have answered that for yourself, you'll need to decide whether it's more worthwhile to remain together and put up with the difficulties, or whether the "I can't stand feeling caged up" feeling outweighs the rest.
Hope this helps!
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