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My boyfriend cheated on me 4 times, and I kissed another boy. Can we still work out?

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Question - (9 July 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 9 July 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

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hi, me and this boy had a thing going on (we werent out)but this boy from italy came over for an exchange visit. he liked me i liked him nd he wanted to kiss me. so i did. the thing is the boy who i had a thing going on with found out(i was going to tell him) and he cried telling me he loves me to bits and stuff and he is a real toughy who looks after me. so we talked and we are back out. the thing is he told his mate he cant trust me anymore but still loves me with all his heart. he has cheated on me 4 times before that. will it work? will it make us stronger? how can i prove to him that he can kiss me? please help! thanks

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A female reader, karen1989 United Kingdom +, writes (9 July 2010):

karen1989 agony auntyou should of let him the first time he cheated on you. if a man is cheating on you he does not love you. end of.

Leave him hun he doesnt love you surely the 3rd,4th time he cheated on you you realised this. Don't be foolish,your wasting yourself on him when you could be with someone who will end up loving you. At the moment your letting him get away with murder-if hes cheated on you 4 times hes walking all over you. Your better than this,let him go. Good luck.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (9 July 2010):

If you were alive for the next billion years, this would not work out. Ever. He treats you appallingly. He's cheated FOUR times. He is a total liar, and a cheat. It will not work out.

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A male reader, TimmD United States +, writes (9 July 2010):

TimmD agony auntNo, it won't work out.

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A female reader, ctds001 United Kingdom +, writes (9 July 2010):

Hey hun,

Sometimes we have to move on however hard it is.

I'm sure you want a boyfriend who only wants you all the time.

Something is missing if you both keep on cheating.

Good luck x

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