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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend of a year and a half just broke up with me four days ago. we had some rough time but we finally getting better (at least i thought we were). My birthday was three days before and we had a good time, but he seemed a little distant. The next few days he was fine. On friday, i was planning on going out with him that night but he texted me and said we needed to talk. He broke up with me. He said something wasn't there anymore and he needed to be alone. I kept calling him and crying telling him we were gonna be ok. He came over sunday to talk and i told him things were getting better but he said we just don't work together. I sobbed in front of him and begged him to come back. Now all i want to do is call him and be there for him and i want him to come back. Did i already ruin my chance or will he come back to me? When should i call him?
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reader, LIERIN +, writes (27 January 2009):
 Break ups... God... they hurt soooo bad. I absolutely undertand your pain. I have broken up with my fiance about 5 months ago... we had a wonderful relationship and were planning our future together but his father didn't agree and my fiance wasn't strong enough to stand up for me and so he left me and got himself someone of his religion and nationality, so his family would be happy.Now, 5 months later I am finally almost okay. I met someone new and I know for a fact, my fiance is not all that happy but he has what he wanted.Life is just sometimes very confusing and hard to understand and we cry lots of tears before we realize that it wasn't the best thing for us but believe me it will be ok! Maybe he will come back and maybe not. Sometimes they don't come back for years, even though they still love us, sometimes they won't come back at all and sometimes they will, all you have is time and all you have to do with it... is wait.Good luck
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