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writes:My boyfriend finished with me and my nieces and my sister saw him walking up the road with his new girlfriend. She was arm in arm and when he saw them he quickly chucked her off and looked shady and just put his hand up but put his head down !!! Why would he be ashamed of that as he as choosing to be with her or does he still have feeelings for me also? He moved straight in with her and will not tell anyone where he is living.Do you think I will win him back, it's only been 6 weeks and we were together for 11 years also she has a 7 year old son. Reply to this Question
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reader, didda123 +, writes (26 January 2009):
 He obviously has some respect for your relationship still as he showed he felt uneasy being seen with his new girlfrield.
Was your relationship finished before he took up with his new girlfriend of was this the cause of the break-up you haven't made that clear but unless your relationship was really rocky i feel it will be hard for him given time to move on and totally forget.
It will be difficult for him living with a new woman and her 7 year old son. I don't know if you had children together and if he is used to being around children but it won't be easy at all for him trying to juggle a new relationship along with the attentions his new partner will have to give to her son on a daily basis it may be a whole new way of life!
There is no written rule as to whether the relationship with her will work i can only say it will have its honeymoon period like most relationships but then when the reality of it hits home he will realize just what he has given up i am sure.
Give him some time and space and if you do ever meet try to be civil to each other i know this will be very difficult but this is the best method and the sweetest form of revenge let him think that you are moving on amicably and he will realize just what he has given up. Don't doubt for one minute that he is not thinking of you but creating annimosity will only add to the hurt and widen the gap that has been caused already.
You must in the meantime occupy yourself don't dwell on the situation too much though i know if is really heartbreaking but if you keep your mind busy things will be much easier. Start making a new social life for yourself and if he doesn't get back in touch at least you will be in a good position to meet someone new who actually deserves you.
Good luck i hope things improve for you shortly, keep me posted x
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