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Archived questions from: April, 2015 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

We had a casual thing between us about 4 years ago. Why would she ignore me now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3482 days ago

30 April 2015 (M) - Ok, so me and this girl used to have a casual thing going about 4 years ago. We were both single then. Since then i've married someone else. We've stayed in touch and met up a few times. On a couple of occasions we have slept together which s...

Who should I choose? My ex, who called my reaction too jealous? Or this new guy I've just met?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3483 days ago

29 April 2015 (F) - My older, once divorced boyfriend of two years recently told me that he wanted some space. He stated that I showed red flags of violent jealousy, during an encounter with his female friend at a local sports bar one Friday evening. He asked her ...

Moved away from girlfriend and the sister I have feelings for, did I do the right thing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3485 days ago

28 April 2015 (M) - I started dating my (now ex) girlfriend 4 years ago. She then moved in with her sister last year, which meant I spent alot of time with her and her sister. For 3.5 years I thought I was happy, well content maybe. Then slowly, my girlfriend, over a ...

What can I do about my suspicions that my husband is having an affair? He's not reacted well when I asked.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3485 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - I have been married for 11 years and we have a 9 yr old child. Recently I feel that my hubby is not being truthful to me..... I feel he is having a extra marital.....if not an affair......maybe a friendship......stage of relationship with his sch...

I am crushing on my best friend's boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3485 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - So I'm a terrible person. Today, I couldn't stop thinking about my best friends boyfriend. Today, was the worst day ever because I haven't ever felt so much good and bad. We were all hanging out and ever so slightly we'd periodically look o...

He can't be happy with his girlfriend because he kissed me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3488 days ago

26 April 2015 (F) - I'm going to try not to make this too long but I met this boy from online, his name is Jordan, and I think he's really great. He's perfect apart from the fact that he has a girlfriend (They became official 3 days before I met him in person). I ...

It's been a week and I am just want to stop crying. What's my next move to get over this breakup and all the hurt?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3488 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - Hi, I have recently got out a 3+ year affair with a married man I work with. We met when we both started at this company. We were both new to this city and with his family still based in his hometown, started hanging out a lot. He was the init...

Will my fiance from another country be able to accept my culture? I think he's jealous

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3489 days ago

24 April 2015 (F) - Will my overseas born fiance be able to accept my American culture? He is so very loyal and romantic and attentive to me. I'm really in love with him. I think it's a miracle to find love halfway across the planet. I'm in the u.s. and he's from an...

How can I convince myself that this is my mind playing games? Or is my FWB interested in another?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3487 days ago

24 April 2015 (F) - My FWB and I have being seeing each other for a year now. I'm Starting to fall for him and I ADORE him. I don't know if he feels the same but I'm too scared to tell him how I feel. For a while I've always had issues with jealousy and recently he...

Do you think I should stick with a guy who feels safe or give the new guy more of a chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3491 days ago

23 April 2015 (F) - I feel very conflicted with my current situation and would love advice from anyone. I'm leaving in a few days to spend a week with my ex who lives in another state. Our relationship started when he lived near me and then he moved for a job. The d...

What motivates people to cheat? Especially why do married people cheat?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

20 April 2015 (F) - Hi all, ive been asking myself this question and i dont seem to get an answer. Why do married people cheat most. Why cant a person get out of a relationship than to stay when they are unhappy, than to sleep around with whoever thet meet?...

I'm annoyed with how long it takes J to text back. Would it be wrong to start dating M while dating J?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

20 April 2015 (F) - I have been dating someone (lets call him J) for about 2 maybe 3 weeks, and it hasn't made progress yet. Before I started dating J,I was hooking up with a guy( lets call him M) I knew from high school, but stopped since I thought that me and J was ...

My ex didn't try to keep our relationship alive, but now that I've moved on he is trying to sabotage me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3494 days ago

19 April 2015 (F) - My boyfriend of over a year stopped having sex with me the last four months of our relationship. Everything was perfect except for the part we weren't having sex. We still kissed still went on dates and we're still very affectionate towards each ...

I like someone online but I have a real boyfriend. How do I get over this crush?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3495 days ago

19 April 2015 (F) - There is a lot I love about my boyfriend of 3 years but recently I have an online crush with someone from a videogame I play. About this time a year ago, I started to like someone online as well and even told my boyfriend about it because we usual...

Missing my ex. Not feeling same connection in new relationship. Can I or should I try to gain my friend back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3495 days ago

19 April 2015 (F) - Hey I've had bad breakup almost 5 to 6 months ago. I barely survived the first month of the breakup as my health got really bad and I was spending my nights in the hospital. We didn't get in touch and there was no asking about each other or anyth...

Family Interference every step of the way. What we can do to get past this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3495 days ago

19 April 2015 (M) - Basically I've been with my now fiance for seven months. Since the beginning of our relationship somebody has always had a problem with us being together, whether it be her family or one or more of her ex boyfriends interfering (one of whom she...

My online girlfriend got married, should I leave her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3494 days ago

18 April 2015 (M) - Should I leave my online GF of almost 3 years, after finding out she is married just a few months ago? she has 2 children at home,and she can't really talk or email because her husband is around,and we haven't spoke by phone since January,and not a ...

I'm pregnant but ex wont take me back and has met someone else!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3501 days ago

13 April 2015 (F) - Im in a mess I really need some advice. Basically my boyfriend of 3 years and I split up about a month ago after a series of rows. It was a messy split, we still both loved each other but could not be together. As the days went by I realised that I ...

I want to save my marriage, but my husband and his sister say they're happier without me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3500 days ago

13 April 2015 (F) - Iwe had long distance relationship for two n half years, before we got married. We were supposed to move together one month after marriage. My husband told me the third day of our marriage that few days ago he had slept with his ex colleague on a ...

Things didn't work out while she had a boyfriend, but now that she's single I want to try again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3502 days ago

11 April 2015 (M) - Hi, i've known this girl for about 6-7 weeks now, I met her through a mutual acquaintance at a bar as she liked my friend. Anyway, we got on really well and had things in common professionally and personally and didn't think much of it at the time ...

I'm a gay woman in a long-term relationship, but after getting my dream job I find myself very attracted to a male coworker!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3494 days ago

11 April 2015 (F) - I’m seeking advice from those wiser than me! I have a situation unfolding in my life that has proper knocked me for ten and got me baffled. I feel I could really do with some second opinions as to what is going on. I’m a gay woman in a long ...

Part of me wants to sort out my relationship but I can't get my colleague out of my head

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3505 days ago

9 April 2015 (F) - I think I'm in a total mess... I'm in a 6 year relationship but it is falling to pieces. A year ago my mum was diagnosed with terminal cancer and passed away. Her dying wish was that she saw me moved in with my boyfriend and settled in a house. So ...

Sharing and Caring? A time for advice that is empathic, not judgemental? Some notable differences I've noticed that have saddened me. Can this be addressed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3494 days ago

8 April 2015 (F) - This is not really a question as it is a suggestion for this site that I would like to share. I've been visiting this site on and off periodically for several years. And because my visits here are intermittent and sporadic, I never made my own prof...

Was his threesome suggestion just an excuse to have sex with another woman? Is it wrong that I felt hurt by his actions?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3502 days ago

7 April 2015 (F) - I agreed to a threesome with my husband and a friend. I've never been with a woman but agreed to try to please my husband. He didn't even touch me. feeling uncomfortable, i went outside. he proceeded to have sex with her. i was reduced to watching, ...

Why has she never noticed me as a potential boyfriend and not just a friend who's there for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3499 days ago

6 April 2015 (M) - Hi! I really need advice. I've been friends with this girl for a long time now. So we're practically best friends. I go visit her often and she trusts me wholeheartedly and the feeling is mutual. But the past month or two, I've started to like her. ...

I'm ready to settle down and start a family, but she isn't.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3507 days ago

6 April 2015 (M) - Dear All, I need some advice and help, I have got myself in to a pickle! I am a 34 year old man, I have been looking for ideal soul mate or a woman who I can start a family with, In the process I have dated quite a few. I finally moved in with ...

How do you cope with a 'lovechild'

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3506 days ago

5 April 2015 (F) - My husband has 3 children. 2 with me and 1 with his ex. That is pretty normal in todays society, I know, however he had his first child with me and his second with his ex. He got me pregnant and her like 4 months apart. After our daughter was born ...

I'm having trouble with my baby daddy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3510 days ago

4 April 2015 (F) - My baby's dad is being horrible to me and trying to control things. We hooked up one night and had a baby never even dated. We were sort of seeing each other a couple of months ago but behind my back started seeing someone else. Now he's telling me ...

Did I just get hot and steamy online with a married guy?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3508 days ago

4 April 2015 (F) - Hi everyone, I'll try not to ramble too much. Well basically I play the online game World of Warcraft and I talk often to a guy on there who is two years younger than me. Although we are from very different social backgrounds I do enjoy talking to ...

His sexual exploits with previous work mates bother me, am I too old school?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3509 days ago

3 April 2015 (F) - I have been dating a man for a year now. We are great together and making preparations to marriage a couple yrs from now. Lately, I've been struggling with an issue concerning my boyfriend. Before we started dating, we used to work at same ...

Am I trapped in this relationship with his Ex-wife a factor? Now he wants to move closer to his Ex !

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3452 days ago

3 April 2015 (F) - I will try to make this as short as possible. I am 60 yrs old, live with my boyfriend (AND his grumpy Mother) for 3 yrs...who has been divorced for over 20 years, he has a 30yr old daughter who is married with kids of her own. My boyfriend ha...

Will a married man ever replace his long term mistress with the next best thing?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3508 days ago

3 April 2015 (F) - I am here to ask a question to everyone but WITHOUT JUDGMENT or PREACHING. I know affair posts get everyone very worked up. But I am not here to be crucified. Just to get help. I want to know what you think the answer is. It will help me immensel...

I'm 37 weeks pregnant and my Bf wants a threesome, He's already messaging the intended girl. Am I being paranoid? Or is this a red flag?.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

3 April 2015 (F) - So my boyfriend of 7 years has asked for sex with another woman, I kind of understand, we are both our firsts and only. We found a woman about our age for a threesome. I am 37 weeks pregnant with our 3rd and she is fit, slender, and has more ...

Am I just an insecure bunny boiler?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3513 days ago

1 April 2015 (?) - Me and my BF, both 25, been together for over 18 months now, but there's this girl he's friends with that really rubs me up the wrong way. She's a 20yr old single mother, and doesn't have much of a job. They used to like each other way before...