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Archived questions from: 14 July, 2009 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

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The ex-factor: Help and advice

I did something with my ex's friend that I really regret

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

14 July 2009 (?) - hi im christina. i have a guy problem..ill make this short..me and my ex still liked each other very much..but i made a mistake one night and did sumthing with his friend even tho i was intoxicated it was still wrong.. no matter how i apologized...

She is having cyber suggestions with her ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

14 July 2009 (M) - I have been married nearly 2 years, together for over 4. We have always got along famously and with the exception of some normal (or abnormal) issues, always seem to be a great match. A few weeks ago she said she had some validation from her ex ...

My ex fiance got married 5 months ago & I'm a mess

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5614 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - is there anything i can do about this im devasted ive just heard my ex fiance got married about 5 months ago. i wasted so much time-he did want me back but due to circumstances i didnt do anything-what an idiot anyway now hes married-i feel ...

How is someone ever going to touch my heart like she did?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5614 days ago

14 July 2009 (M) - i broke off with this girl because this relationship had no future...it was very necessary to break it off as it had many complications and her family involements and i have DECIDED not to go into that mess again cuz we have suffered a lot going ...

I work with them, he's living with her but bothering me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5614 days ago

14 July 2009 (M) - i was with this lad he had a girlfriend i broke up with my boyfriend and we shared great times together but i couldnt keep this up and asked him to finish he said no and got reall annoyed i have to work with him so its hard to see him every day they ...

She feels caged and trapped because I've tried to stop her from talking to all guys

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

14 July 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I been going around from past one and a half year, every thing was going very fine but every few days she would get a call from her ex-boyfriend. I would get annoyed and would ask her to avoid him. Many times we ended up in a ...

Amazing "other" woman causing headache/distraction

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

14 July 2009 (M) - an old flame has return into my life, literally months after I got engaged. This old flame is amazing.. I mean she turns heads wherever she goes. My current/future wife is a great woman. She will be a great wife and mother (eventually). But I can't ...

I think she still has deep feelings for her ex. Should I prepare for the worst?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

14 July 2009 (M) - I've been dating this wonderful girl for about a year and eight months. She used to screw around with another guy before we got together, even occasionally when she was in a relationship. When we started dating, she said that was over. So did he...

I helped my friend get over her ex, but now I like him and I feel like a hypocrite!

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14 July 2009 (F) - OK, So there's this guy I know and I liked him loads at the beginning of the year until I found out he'd been with one of my best friends. I love my friend to bits but they're not seeing each other anymore and she now has a boyfriend, someone she's ...

I've got a new boyfriend, but I still think and dream about my ex. Why can't I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, i keep dreamin and thinkin aut my ex. I think about him a lot more than i do my current boyfriend. I dont know why though, my ex treated me like shit and is a horibble person but iwas in love wit him. It ended about two months ago and...

I was doing fine until my ex asked to see me. Now I am so confused and can't stop texting him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - I am really confused of what's going on right now... Recently, I met with my ex as he terrorized me with texts saying he wanted to see me so badly he has something to say. He kept calling until I agreed to see him. When i saw him, all he sa...

Guys: What actions would make you give your ex girl another chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - To our guys here: Granted that you still love your ex girlfriend, in your opinion, what actions from her will convince you to go back to her once more? Should she be apologetic and sincere? Indifferent and has moved on? Or if she is with someone...

He said he only stayed with me for six years because he felt obligated to, after everything I had done for him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - When I was 19 I fell in love with my best friend and him and I started dating and I lost my virginity to him. He was the first and only guy I had ever fallen in love with. It wasn't an easy journey because he was addicted to meth but I did ...

We were together for 3 and a half years. Why did he break up with me out of the blue?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me randomly out of the blue 2 days ago. I came home from work and I was going to spend some quality time with him. He made me some tea and took it upstairs, i followed and once i was upstairs he told me he didn't love me ...

I've never had a problem with moving on from a breakup before, but this time it feels different

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

14 July 2009 (M) - Hi All, this is pretty alien to me and the first time i have done this. Basically just over 2 weeks ago myself and my girlfriend split up. Now we were only together for 3 months but in that 3 months apart from during work times etc used to spend all ...

I'm in love with my ex-girlfriend's sister, and she might feel the same way.... Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

14 July 2009 (M) - So... here goes. I've been in a really abusive relationship with my girlfriend (call her Sarah) for about five years now, and I haven't had the balls to call it off until very recently. Here's the hard part: Sarah's younger sister (call her...

There is no proof he is attracted to her, but I don't like her being in his life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been broke up but went back out. The first time we broke up, one of the reasons was another girl in the picture. He didn't cheat. They were becoming good friends as were getting worse. It annoyed me to the point I couldn't ...

Chatting online with his ex....Do you think that's ok?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - Do you think it is okay for your fiance to be chatting to an ex on msn??Don't know what they were chatting about but he tells me they don't talk anymore?? ...