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anonymous
writes:i was with this lad he had a girlfriend i broke up with my boyfriend and we shared great times together but i couldnt keep this up and asked him to finish he said no and got reall annoyed i have to work with him so its hard to see him every day they splitt up and he start seen this new girl that i befriended in the job..it really hurt me and he knows that adventually he got back with his ex but told her about me not the new gir im so confused were recently back talking hes back looking at me and touching me wen he passes and every one knows in my job about us but he is living with her now why wont he leave me alone i want him to but i dont in other ways wats goin on in his mind
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reader, noonespecial2  +, writes (15 July 2009):
He obviously doesn't know what he wants or who he wants.
I know it is hard to move on from someone when you still have feelings for them yet the way he treats you and the Women in his life is very destructive.
This will takes it's toll on your self esteem and the craziness of it all is so mentally damaging.
If I was in your shoes I would leave the job and never have any contact with him again. It will be the only hope of getting your self worth back.
I can only imagine he touches you and flirts with you because you allow it and he sees you as a soft touch.
The sadness here is that your feelings for him are genuine. You broke up with him not because you didn't like him but because the relationship you two were having went against your values and created guilt for you.
He will always be this way until he sees it differently.
Every person deserves a good healthy relationship and this doesn't sound like one to me.
I wonder! Is he giving you crumbs of love just to keep you hanging in there? well you can have those crumbs turned into a banquet with someone else who truly knows how to love and treat a Woman.
Good luck
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