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Archived questions from: 20 July, 2009 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

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The ex-factor: Help and advice

Opinions please. Why won't he have sex with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - My ex and I broke up over a week ago. We're still attracted to each other - obviously and our break up had no real reason/ I think he just felt overly stressed w/ everything his life but neither of us were happy bout the breakup. We've been ...

I've got this great guy, but all I think about is my ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - dear cupid i need your help. im nowhere near over my ex, "robert", and we were on and off for almost two years and inseperable bestfriends for two years before we decided to turn romantic. i love him with everything i have and i mean truly madly ...

I'm consumed by jealousy that my old boyfriend has married! Help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - really need some help i have tried to get help for this and my friends have been great listening to me but i still am in despair. i have recently finished a relationship with a guy which lasted 5 years. the last 4 were awful-i shudder no when i...

When an ex is jealous does that mean he wants you back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5640 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - when my ex saw me with a new boyfriend he became jeaous. After some weeks he texted measking if I have a boyfriend now. Does it mean that he still likes me?When an ex is jealous does it mean that he still likes me and want me back? ...

What was your technique in forgetting about your ex? How were you able to do it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - Please give me some effective ways to forget an ex? I have tried everything from listing down the bad things and the reasons why I have to move on. I also tried saving an SMS on my phone reminding me that past is past and there's nothing I ca...

Help me decipher my exhusband's motives!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - Why does my ex husband text me then ignore me the next. He has a girlfriend and says he loves her, but meets me to talk. He told me the other day the have issues they might not be able to work out. He also told me not to text and he has my number if ...

How can I make him trust me and not feel the need to get one up on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - Me and my ex have been talking again and it has become clear that we have trust issues. we both seem to be playing games with each other even though we dont intend to. we are both trying to make each other jealous by getting in with other people, ...

My new boyfriend wants to meet my ex! I'm very nervous about this...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - So, my boyfriend of about 15 months wants to meet my ex-boyfriend. I dated the ex for 8 years and we have a 6 year old together. The ex-boyfriend caused some major drama in the begining of the relationship which I did "sugar-coat" some things....... ...

I'm pregnant...but who is the father??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

20 July 2009 (?) - i am 10wks and 6days pregnant, i broke up with my boyfriend on the 15th may 2009 but we continued sleeping together unprotected, however, on the 21st may 2009 i slept with another guy, i used a condom and no splits or tears were noticable but i am ...

How do I know what to expect from my ex? We have started talking again and slowly getting closer.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - We once had a very strong intimate relationship with commitment and then it changed due to outside circumstances. Now time has passed - months - but we are talking again and slowly getting close. But how do I know what to expect? Men don't talk, ...

How can I get her to see sense, I have seen her boyfriend cheating on her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - Hi... My bestfriend is being cheated on.Shes going out with a guy whos 19 shes 16. When he goes out to clubs she doesnt go with him because she wont get into them. Anyway after a night out people constantly come back to her and me and tell us he w...

Should I contact his new girlfriend and tell her what he is doing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, My ex has recently started to text me again, he was been makin small conversation at first, then he asked was i still with my new boyfriend, Even though i said yes, he asked me to come over to his cause he had a free house only to 'h...

I want her to realise that what she is doing is hurting me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

20 July 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I are now on our third month, and was going strong until around the last weeks of June I'm having doubts with our relationship and started fighting her about why she still goes out with her ex who gave her so much pain and so much ...

My ex is now pregnant with my dad's baby!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

20 July 2009 (M) - My ex-girlfriend and I lived together for about three years. We ended up having a son together, and then we broke up shortly after. She has custody of my son, while I pay support and visit him on weekends. The weird thing is she is now my dad's ...

IS it appropriate to send flowers to an ex on an anniversary?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

20 July 2009 (M) - My gf and I had dated for almost four years. We lived together for one, we didn't end on a bad note, never any huge problems, I am a pretty good guy. We were very good friends before we started dating and became lovers. We broke up over a month ago, ...